My ex-boyfriends ex-wife is stalking me

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Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

She was worried he was cheating on her. A married woman having an affair is worried her married lover is cheating on her. I guess sex with me didn't count as 'cheating' on his part. She just didn't want him to have another AP.

You said husband, I hope he learned his lesson. Yikes!

Oh boy. After my wrath as well...he's scared straight..and doing lots of individual therapy.

And he found out she did the same thing to the married guy before him...she said she ended it and got STD tested because she suspected this married guy was cheating on her. Chick has a lot of issues and somehow her husband still doesn't know she is doing this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:At what point does the wife move the f*ck on? It's pathetic

Same with APs. My spouse's AP used to call from an unknown number and not say anything. After he dumped her, they increased. I just blocked. Pathetic.

I found out she looked up all of my friends and used to monitor me for the years I didn't even know she existed. She was obsessed with me. She looked up all of my husband's linkedin Contacts and starting stalking the women on there. She knew the names of all of our friends and he had never mentioned them to her.

When I found out about her, she told me she was very jealous of me. Crazy goes both ways. Oh, and she was married too.

You should have told the husband he has a right to know. She's lucky he didn't come home while you were there.

She was worried he was cheating on her. A married woman having an affair is worried her married lover is cheating on her. I guess sex with me didn't count as 'cheating' on his part. She just didn't want him to have another AP.

You said husband, I hope he learned his lesson. Yikes!

Oh boy. After my wrath as well...he's scared straight..and doing lots of individual therapy.

And he found out she did the same thing to the married guy before him...she said she ended it and got STD tested because she suspected this married guy was cheating on her. Chick has a lot of issues and somehow her husband still doesn't know she is doing this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op here

Dated ex briefly before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. Before some of you look too much into this he moved out, lived on his own in a different city I know this because I'd visit and hang out.. He's now legally divorced ( google is free). We are friends, I live alone. Our street was in reference to my elderly neighbor. Some elderly folks notice random cars that are on the street. This car on particular stands out in color and so does she. I know it's her because I answered one of the calls on the off chance it was an emergency I heard something distinct in her background.

What could possibly be distinct in the background that you know it's here and not someone else?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Block the number. Don’t engage with crazy.

Her number is blocked and I now have blocked all blocked/restricted calls. Earlier in the day a few calls came from spoof/burner phone numbers.

FFS. I get spoof calls (some in Chinese) a million times a day. Maybe my DH has a Chinese AP.

You sound unhinged. Your guilty conscience is out of control.

I have no reason to have a guilty conscience in this situation.

Maybe you don't, but just some advice for the future, do not date men until they are 100% divorced. Do not become friends with men that you know cheat are their wives, it will keep your life drama-free, which is what you want.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here

Dated ex briefly before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. Before some of you look too much into this he moved out, lived on his own in a different city I know this because I'd visit and hang out.. He's now legally divorced ( google is free). We are friends, I live alone. Our street was in reference to my elderly neighbor. Some elderly folks notice random cars that are on the street. This car on particular stands out in color and so does she. I know it's her because I answered one of the calls on the off chance it was an emergency I heard something distinct in her background.

What could possibly be distinct in the background that you know it's here and not someone else?

+!//What could it be? Please don't tell me it's their child, you should not be hanging out with their child I don't care what your ex-boyfriend, now bff says.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Op here

Dated ex briefly before the ink was dry on the divorce papers. Before some of you look too much into this he moved out, lived on his own in a different city I know this because I'd visit and hang out.. He's now legally divorced ( google is free). We are friends, I live alone. Our street was in reference to my elderly neighbor. Some elderly folks notice random cars that are on the street. This car on particular stands out in color and so does she. I know it's her because I answered one of the calls on the off chance it was an emergency I heard something distinct in her background.

What could possibly be distinct in the background that you know it's here and not someone else?

+!//What could it be? Please don't tell me it's their child, you should not be hanging out with their child I don't care what your ex-boyfriend, now bff says.

Maybe ex wife is a first responder, and OP heard the radio chirping. Something like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Your ex-boyfriend *cough* ex married man you were sleeping with) told a shit-ton of lies to his ex-wife.

2. Ex-married man has/had more than side chick.

3. You were the one he either told her about or that she was able to latch onto.

4. Unless you've seen the divorce decree... they are probably still married.

5. Confront her. Apologize. Move on.

Some guys have all the luck.

[Anonymous]

Your mistake was getting involved with somebody not divorced. Don’t make it again. Life lesson learned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get a ring camera, you frickin' nut job. Oh ,wait, that would mean your husband could see the men tromping in and out when he's a work...

Are you the serially cheated on wife who is obsessed with her cheater husbands AP? Did you file yet?

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Some of you are projecting and it shows.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are projecting and it shows.

Oh it sure does. Note that the OP repeatedly clarified a few things and was accused of a bunch of hysterical and accusatory mess from a bunch of messes. Hm.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Block the number. Don’t engage with crazy.

Her number is blocked and I now have blocked all blocked/restricted calls. Earlier in the day a few calls came from spoof/burner phone numbers.

I think you're paranoid. Nobody is getting a burner phone to stalk their EX-husband's EX-girlfriend. This sounds ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Block the number. Don’t engage with crazy.

Her number is blocked and I now have blocked all blocked/restricted calls. Earlier in the day a few calls came from spoof/burner phone numbers.

I think you're paranoid. Nobody is getting a burner phone to stalk their EX-husband's EX-girlfriend. This sounds ridiculous.

You’d be surprised.

[Anonymous]

I said burner number not phone. It takes 10 seconds to get a burner number. People do it all the time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I said burner number not phone. It takes 10 seconds to get a burner number. People do it all the time.

Yeah. Of course a ho knows about burner numbers, it’s how she herself contacts her affair partners. The rest of us honest people don’t know about that stuff.