Anonymous wrote:Hmmm...I don't actually know if I have ever used the term JFC on DCUM, but I certainly do in my personal life. I am a former Catholic, but I don't use the term because of the "former" part; I use it because it was so commonplace in my Catholic upbringing that it holds a place in my expressive lexicon. See also: Jesus, Mary & Joseph! Also profane, I know. I actually would never use the term in public/mixed company, where I also would typically limit swearing for fear of causing discomfort/offense. But, I also do not judge others for their choices. Interesting that Jeff won't ban it, and I think he likely won't because NOT all religious people are offended by the term, clearly, given the vast # of Catholics I know who "swear" in this exact same way. I, however, knowing your feelings, am super unlikely to use the term on DCUM from this point forward. Consider yourself having a victory of one, OP?
That is so nice. Thank you!
And before people get all over me again (OP), I'm the first to say that I do swear some myself, certainly in private. If I stub my toe, my rantings will not be pretty. However, I do think that there are levels when it comes to this and that purposely taking the name of anyone's religious diety, in public, is risking being unnecessarily offensive. I would never say anything like this when other people are around, nor would I write this way on social media or here in an anonymous forum. It's a matter of degrees, but I think it's important to recognize that what we put out into the world is being judged and interpreted by others who hold different things sacred.
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