Is one kiss cheating?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.


What?


Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!


I was married for 20 years and never kissed anyone other than my husband, even when he refused to have sex with me for 4 years!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.


What?


Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!


I was married for 20 years and never kissed anyone other than my husband, even when he refused to have sex with me for 4 years!


I’ve been married for 6 years and haven’t kissed anyone other than my husband, and don’t plan to.

I think you’re projecting to make yourself feel better.
Anonymous
Get your tongue out of my mouth, I'm kissing you good-bye!
Anonymous
Don't let Michael Corleone kiss you!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMEDGIAoa0M
Anonymous
OP, read Alice's munro's short story collection "hateship, friendship, courtship, loveship, marriage." Literally every story is about a woman who has a very momentary infidelity (like 1 kiss).
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.


What?


Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!


I was married for 20 years and never kissed anyone other than my husband, even when he refused to have sex with me for 4 years!


I’ve been married for 6 years and haven’t kissed anyone other than my husband, and don’t plan to.

I think you’re projecting to make yourself feel better.


I’ve been married 28 years and haven’t kissed anyone but my husband. Why bother when he can still make my toes curl but I won’t tell him that because men can be such jerks.
Anonymous
Yes, one kiss can definitely be classified as cheating.

Put yourself in his position - how do you suppose you would feel if the tables were somehow turned....??

Btw, love the Calvin Harris video.
I have been a huge fan after seeing him perform in Vega$ awhile back.

He’s the best. D.J. ever.
And by far the sexiest too.
Anonymous
It's cheating at about a 2/10. If that's the worst you've ever done, you are doing better than most.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.


What?


Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!


I was married for 20 years and never kissed anyone other than my husband, even when he refused to have sex with me for 4 years!


I’ve been married for 6 years and haven’t kissed anyone other than my husband, and don’t plan to.

I think you’re projecting to make yourself feel better.


I’ve been married 28 years and haven’t kissed anyone but my husband. Why bother when he can still make my toes curl but I won’t tell him that because men can be such jerks.

Thank you for coming on here to brag about your perfect marriage.
Anonymous
Kissing is the most intimate.
Anonymous
Yes. You are a whore.

I’ve been with my husband 24 years, married for 22 and never kissed anyone else.

I’m very attractive and have had men hit on me, been propositioned have had countless opportunity for kisses, sex, etc.

I never act on and if I feel it’s a risky situation, I withdraw immediately. Never put myself in a situation to be alone with that person.
Anonymous
It's not recommended, but I wouldn't call it cheating.
Anonymous
Yes it is cheating. End of story.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes. You are a whore.

I’ve been with my husband 24 years, married for 22 and never kissed anyone else.

I’m very attractive and have had men hit on me, been propositioned have had countless opportunity for kisses, sex, etc.

I never act on and if I feel it’s a risky situation, I withdraw immediately. Never put myself in a situation to be alone with that person.


If you've had countless opportunities for kisses and sex with somebody other than your spouse **YOU ARE PUTTING OUT A MESSAGE THAT YOU ARE AVAILABLE** Yes, you can get hit on occassionally, but regular, countess opportunities to cheat? You are letting the men out there know that you are open to their advances.

And no need to call others names.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yes. You are a whore.

I’ve been with my husband 24 years, married for 22 and never kissed anyone else.

I’m very attractive and have had men hit on me, been propositioned have had countless opportunity for kisses, sex, etc.

I never act on and if I feel it’s a risky situation, I withdraw immediately. Never put myself in a situation to be alone with that person.


If you've had countless opportunities for kisses and sex with somebody other than your spouse **YOU ARE PUTTING OUT A MESSAGE THAT YOU ARE AVAILABLE** Yes, you can get hit on occassionally, but regular, countess opportunities to cheat? You are letting the men out there know that you are open to their advances.

And no need to call others names.


I am extremely attractive, funny and smart. I get hit on by clients when I am putting nothing out there.

At 50, I still have strangers tell me this. I do not dress provocatively.

My nephews’ friends (22-29)?tell them that their Aunt is hot. After one got married- they all bring it up to him. And now my young teens friends as well.

I have been an athlete my entire life so very fit.


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