Is one kiss cheating?

[Anonymous]

It’s never just one kiss.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on. Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.

I got hit on so badly when I was married (fat ring) and heavily pregnant! Can someone explain?!
Is it like, well,this is as bad as she will get (in terms of looks).

Would have liked to have the comparison of being single and pregnant with a donor's baby but I guess after lockdown anyone will be hitting on anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on. Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.

I got hit on so badly when I was married (fat ring) and heavily pregnant! Can someone explain?!
Is it like, well,this is as bad as she will get (in terms of looks).

Would have liked to have the comparison of being single and pregnant with a donor's baby but I guess after lockdown anyone will be hitting on anyone.

You weren’t being hit on, you’re confusing someone being nice to you with wanting to have sex with you; most people of both genders are nice to pregnant women, dogs and the mentally disabled people.

[Anonymous]

Duh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on. Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.

I got hit on so badly when I was married (fat ring) and heavily pregnant! Can someone explain?!
Is it like, well,this is as bad as she will get (in terms of looks).

Would have liked to have the comparison of being single and pregnant with a donor's baby but I guess after lockdown anyone will be hitting on anyone.

I’m expecting in two months and men aren’t hitting on me they are just being extra nice like helping load stuff in my car. Honestly, one of the benefits of being pregnant is that people are generally nicer to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Undeniable attraction between myself and a gentleman down the street but it's always been kept well in check. I'm happily married and haven't had feelings for anyone else in 20 years but we shared a brief kiss when I went to his house to pick up some gear my husband had left there. Wasn't even in the house. Just the backyard. Won't be picking up stuff alone again, I guess. And Christ, during a Pandemic. Ugh.

Anyone else, just had a 60-second moment of weakness and moved on? We all make mistakes?

Anything ever come of this? Inquiring minds want to know...haha. Did you pursue things with the neighbor?

[Anonymous]

Kiss me and let’s decide if it’s cheating... 😈

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Undeniable attraction between myself and a gentleman down the street but it's always been kept well in check. I'm happily married and haven't had feelings for anyone else in 20 years but we shared a brief kiss when I went to his house to pick up some gear my husband had left there. Wasn't even in the house. Just the backyard. Won't be picking up stuff alone again, I guess. And Christ, during a Pandemic. Ugh.

Anyone else, just had a 60-second moment of weakness and moved on? We all make mistakes?

Anything ever come of this? Inquiring minds want to know...haha. Did you pursue things with the neighbor?

I found out and f—ckd her husband in retaliation for kissing mine. She found out and divorced him.

[Anonymous]

Your neighbor’s plants witnessed the kiss and they can tell everyone. They will also send the bees to sting you both, cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Slut. You are a dime a dozen.

[Anonymous]

Something like this happened to my wife at the Catalina Wine Festival a few years back, but I understood. After all, you know how crazy the CWF gets...

[Anonymous]

One kiss isn't that big of a deal over the course of a long marriage. If that's the worst you have done you are doing better than 90% of married people

[Anonymous]

I don't think one kiss is a big deal. My friend gave her boss a BJ and they passed out in a hotel together but since it was only once, 5 years ago, she doesn't consider it cheating. They still work together and she said they never mention it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something like this happened to my wife at the Catalina Wine Festival a few years back, but I understood. After all, you know how crazy the CWF gets...

“It’s the f-ing Catalina Wine Mixer!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Dua Lipa said it best.

I love this song and love that you posted it. I know the thread is old. But still.