Is one kiss cheating?

[Anonymous]

Carrie told Big when she kissed Aiden and ended up with a nice diamond ring so ... whose to say?


/s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Carrie told Big when she kissed Aiden and ended up with a nice diamond ring so ... whose to say?


/s

That was a f@cking TV show/movie.

Christ, so many of you bored housewives live in a fantasy world.

[Anonymous]

It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+100

Same

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

[Anonymous]

If my wife had a booze fueled make out session with some groping I’d be less concerned than if she told me she had undeniable attraction for someone.
In fact if she told me about the boozy make out I’d almost be happy for her because to the best of my knowledge she hasn’t made out with anyone except me in 20 years. But if she came to me with feelings of attraction I’d be really worried.

Cut it off or start building your support network because you’re gonna be a single mom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my wife had a booze fueled make out session with some groping I’d be less concerned than if she told me she had undeniable attraction for someone.
In fact if she told me about the boozy make out I’d almost be happy for her because to the best of my knowledge she hasn’t made out with anyone except me in 20 years. But if she came to me with feelings of attraction I’d be really worried.

Cut it off or start building your support network because you’re gonna be a single mom.

Sounds like you should give your wife a one day hall pass and see if she enjoys it!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my wife had a booze fueled make out session with some groping I’d be less concerned than if she told me she had undeniable attraction for someone.
In fact if she told me about the boozy make out I’d almost be happy for her because to the best of my knowledge she hasn’t made out with anyone except me in 20 years. But if she came to me with feelings of attraction I’d be really worried.

Cut it off or start building your support network because you’re gonna be a single mom.

Sounds like you should give your wife a one day hall pass and see if she enjoys it!

If she wanted one I’d give her one, she’s awesome and deserves a little fun, I wouldn’t mind.

[Anonymous]

Didn't Julia Roberts say that she doesn't kiss her Johns in Pretty Women because that is too intimate?

[Anonymous]

I think this is my most favorite thread ever. I want to know what happened--OP fill us in. You went over there to pick up some stuff your husband left behind and then what..was his wife home at the time? who initiated? how did you leave it? have you seen him since?? There's a pandemic, riots in every city, society is breaking down--I want to hear the steamy details and need a distraction!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on. Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.

[Anonymous]

Hey OP! Come back and talk to us, we’re all home and looking for distractions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s cheating especially given the on going attraction. Over the course of my marriage I’ve had a lot of guy friends in business and just socially and a few times I definitely knew that they wanted something more than just friendship. It’s almost a sixth sense or radar system kicking in and when it did I’d just distance myself from the person. It’s a weirdly nice feeling to be viewed as desireable by someone other than my husband but allowing just a kiss to happen is starting down a very slippery slope. I’ve been happily married a very long time and I get all the kisses I need plus other nice things.

+1 It took a few years of being married for me to develop that sixth sense especially in regard to men I would meet in business. I wore a wedding ring and I assumed that that meant it was hands off but that’s not the way it was. A couple of times I had to push men away who started pawing at me and then I realized that my being nice and friendly was viewed by some as some kind of message.

I remember when I used to think that my wedding ring and knowing the other man was married was a good sign of not having to worry about being hit on. Then after about the 50th time being propositioned by "one of the good guys" I realized they all cheat if you let them.

OP, it's cheating but if that's the worst of your sins, you are doing better than most.

When I was single and in my 20's, the VAST majority of men who hit on me at work were married. It was far more common--and out of line--than what single men did.

[Anonymous]

^when I started my career post grad school at 25, I got hit on by EVERYONE. I am at an agency with scientists. There were tons of work happy hours. I would have work colleagues calling me at home with another buzzing in while I was talking to one. Yes- I was hit on by married men as well- but more typical flirtation. I got asked out a lot by the single guys and to go for coffee/lunch.

I preferred the hot 20-early 30 single guys my own age. I’ve NEVER been attracted to anyone in a committed relationship that hits on me because it goes against my moral code. I think they are slimy. So the older married higher ups- no thanks. I didn’t want somebody else’s baggage or an old man. I would never hook up with somebody who was in a relationship - whether it was boyfriend-girlfriend or a marriage. I’m not and never will be a cheater/home wrecker. Only those with low self-esteem or messed up childhood issues do that.

Hot, smart women can find single/available men without baggage. They don’t need to dip into someone else’s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is a really funny thread. I have to say I can see how coronovirus could make everyone finally give in to their hidden fantasies... the social deprivation, the brush with mortality. YOLO times 100.

It's going to be a bacchanalia when people start getting out again.

+1. I am actually envious of the OP. I wish some man besides my husband would kiss me. I am so sick of being locked up with him.

Yup. I am with you.