Is one kiss cheating?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You should pretend you just tripped and your lips collided..

I tripped and my mouth fell on his penis ...

And when I pushed myself to get up, I fell backwards and my dress flipped up, revealing I was not wearing underwear.

He moved forward to help me and slipped himself ...

I wish I was your neighbor!

[Anonymous]

Op where are you? What kind of kiss? I kinda feel like that depends as well lol!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.

What?

Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.

What?

Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!

You must run with a classy bunch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish I had a hot neighbor.

For sure. My neighbors look like trolls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wish I had a hot neighbor.

For sure. My neighbors look like trolls.

Same here, except that one Norse God who unfortunately has autistic traits and is abusive towards his wife. So he's a troll inside, really...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ask your husband.

hee hee.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here and it's not a big deal as long as you take that to your grave. And if it ever comes up again with the neighbor, let him know it's never going anywhere an d he needs to take it to his grave also.

Woman here and agreed. Would have been better to have this happen with a rando at a conference or something and not someone who lives near you. It's cheating but in a pretty light way. Just never do it again and you both take it to the grave. Wouldn't blow up 2 families over one (maybe drunken?) kiss, but set the boundaries firm.

[Anonymous]

I always thought the rule was that it wasn’t cheating only if it was a catered party.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is a really funny thread. I have to say I can see how coronovirus could make everyone finally give in to their hidden fantasies... the social deprivation, the brush with mortality. YOLO times 100.

It's going to be a bacchanalia when people start getting out again.

Best thread ever, especially during the most boring time of my life. OP, go back over there and report back. For us.

Lolllllll! Agree, PP. SO bored. So sick of covid, school, what will we do for vacation, soccer team posts.

OP- If there is no way in hell you would tell your husband, it’s cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wish I had a hot neighbor.

The house next to me is for sale.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.

What?

Many years ago at the end of a career development conference one member of the team I was on said on the last night “I’d love to give you pleasure” and then he tried to kiss me which was not going to happen. I didn’t take it to my grave but instead called my husband and told him. He laughed and said that those touchy feely conferences are full of creeps and that I should have kneed him. He never asked if I had led the guy on which was really nice because I never would and he knew it. To this day we joke about it because every once in awhile he will say in a deep voice “I’d love to give you pleasure” and I’m always receptive!

Totally different situation. That was an unwanted advance. OP was part of this kiss. It was passionate and romantic!! It was all she'd ever dreamed of! It was the start of something totally new! And yes,it was cheating (yours was not) and she needs to cut it off unless she wants to have an affair. She may want that. But since it stopped there she SHOULD never tell her DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If that counts as cheating, then 80% plus of the population is unfaithful at some point. No big deal, take it to the grave.

What?

Oh please. Kissing someone for the brief encounter that OP described? I don't know anyone who hasn't done at least that.

But it's cute, you are young and idealistic. I remember those days!

I'm not young, for sure. But no, I've never had a brief encounter like that, nor do I know of anybody else who has. Because to me, it sounds like the beginning of an affair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Undeniable attraction between myself and a gentleman down the street but it's always been kept well in check. I'm happily married and haven't had feelings for anyone else in 20 years but we shared a brief kiss when I went to his house to pick up some gear my husband had left there. Wasn't even in the house. Just the backyard. Won't be picking up stuff alone again, I guess. And Christ, during a Pandemic. Ugh.

Anyone else, just had a 60-second moment of weakness and moved on? We all make mistakes?

Um, a 60 second kiss isn't that brief.

But definitely, move on!!
(although I would like to hear details).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a really funny thread. I have to say I can see how coronovirus could make everyone finally give in to their hidden fantasies... the social deprivation, the brush with mortality. YOLO times 100.

It's going to be a bacchanalia when people start getting out again.

+1. I am actually envious of the OP. I wish some man besides my husband would kiss me. I am so sick of being locked up with him.