I’m not dating material and I don’t know why?

[Anonymous]

Also - what do you mean by “self-sabotage”? Whatever your answer is, it’s likely the key to why you haven’t had a lasting relationship. Not that you would’ve ended up with that guy because your feelings weren’t reciprocated (which is a common circumstance in dating) but whatever your behaviors were at that time need to be examined.

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Anonymous wrote:How old are you and how old are these men you are dating?

I’m 52 and dating men in their 50’s early 60s.

Well, 52 makes you not dating material. If I was in my 50s or 60s no way would I want to get married (again)

OP here- the last man I was involved with, it was very casual and basically based on sex. We would go out for dinner, but it was based on sex. I liked him a lot, he wasn’t as in to me. I did self sabotage though and am very aware that I did. I’m not sure why I did given I liked him. Anyway, he moved on, we haven’t seen each other for a few years. We have mutual friends and I just learned he recently got engaged....he’s 62.

I know this age is a bad age to date and want to find someone for marriage. But not everyone feels as you do. There are some people who would like to be in a relationship. And at this age, I’m not dying to put on a white dress and walk down the aisle. But, I would like to be in a committed relationship with someone.

I think you need to have a class.

A class on dating?

Casual dating based on sex doesn’t lead to marriage.
You need class and being dignified .