If you had sex in high school...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

You are the reason I left religion. Consensual sex is not immoral.

Teens have been having sex since the beginning of time.

The reason you left religion is not bc of me. You wanted to live without morals. Own it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

Im the PP -- do I prefer it? No. Would I rather my DD be open and honest with me so that she's safe and can get help if anything does happen? Without any doubt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

Every person’s journey is different.

Proven fact abstinence does work.

No one is pushing there 15 year old to have sex. But chastising young ladies is absurd.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

Every person’s journey is different.

Proven fact abstinence does work.

No one is pushing there 15 year old to have sex. But chastising young ladies is absurd.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

Im the PP -- do I prefer it? No. Would I rather my DD be open and honest with me so that she's safe and can get help if anything does happen? Without any doubt.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

Yes. I’d think it’s ok if it were consensual and safe. Nothing morally wrong about sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I regret the partner but not the decision to become sexually active when I did.

Same. I have a bunch of partners I regret now, but it was fun at the time

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

You are the reason I left religion. Consensual sex is not immoral.

Teens have been having sex since the beginning of time.

The reason you left religion is not bc of me. You wanted to live without morals. Own it

I live a very moral life. It happened to include premarital sex. It’s you, your judgment and attempt to shame me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

My daughter is 15 and is a freshman. No way

+1

I’m astounded by the posters on here acting as if it’s ok

It is okay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

As long as the 15 year old is being safe and doing it with someone in a committed relationship and its totally consensual, I'd be okay with it.

Lack of morals? I think its immoral to tell kids to not have sex and the deny when they do...

Exactly. Pushing abstinence just leads to unwanted pregnancies and STDs. How can you do that to your kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So disgusting how you all are romanticizing this. Are you going to think it’s ok when your 15 year old says they are sexually active? This lack of morals is astounding

You are the reason I left religion. Consensual sex is not immoral.

Teens have been having sex since the beginning of time.

The reason you left religion is not bc of me. You wanted to live without morals. Own it

Yeah religious people and sex that’s worked out well for women.

I love when religious people use morals when discussing this issue,

It’s better to be open and honest not like the Duggar’s.

And you are missing the point of the thread.

[Anonymous]

I didn't have sex until I was 16. I knew when I started dating that guy that I'd lose my virginity to him. I am 37 now and never regretted that decision. He quickly became a douchebag, but it's most likely for that to be the case. He became a bigger douche as he got older, which I didn't think was possible.

My most risky sexual behavior happened in my mid-30's during my divorce. I started sleeping around and took some risks I should not have. That I will not repeat.

I think one of the most important things as parents that we have to look at is making sure our high schools know how to not get taken advantage of. We're in a really crazy time different from when we grew up.

[Anonymous]

So, I waited until college, and a serious boyfriend. That was all well and good, but he broke up with me towards the end of senior year and it messed me up for several years after that (probably a combo of the breakup, graduating and moving to a new place, losing that college community, and hitting real life all combined). In hindsight, I wish I had dated more in high school, and perhaps lost my virginity toward the end of it, and then dated more guys in college. My daughters are young, but I hope I have strength to be frank with them as they enter their teenage years, and to not make them ashamed of sex like I was brought up. But I still hope they wait 7ntil their later teens because emotionally I think it’s harder (for girls) younger. I kind of want them to get through that “first love” period sooner so they don’t miss out on meeting and dating (not necessarily having sex with them) lots of boys and men while they are young, single and in a period of life when there are plenty of potential partners to meet. That, to me, is the best way to figure out who you are and what YOU want, so that when you pick your life partner, you’re more likely to pick one that will last.

[Anonymous]

Those who had sex as HS teens and also had multiple partners, did that help you in being better spouse when you got married?

In other words, did it prevent marital strife and divorce - since you were adept in adult relationships?