Guy Acting Weird After Sex..

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

You don't think women should have equal rights? Why not?

Your assumption that feminism is about women having equal rights is stupid and false.

At the core its the only thing that really matters. The disagreement isn't about the goal, its usually about the size of the problem and how to fix it.

The disagreement is about the goal, because the goal of feminism is not "equality" but female supremacy.

What? Where did you get that idea?

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

You don't think women should have equal rights? Why not?

Your assumption that feminism is about women having equal rights is stupid and false.

At the core its the only thing that really matters. The disagreement isn't about the goal, its usually about the size of the problem and how to fix it.

The disagreement is about the goal, because the goal of feminism is not "equality" but female supremacy.

What? Where did you get that idea?

Do you remember a time when females could not work part time. They got married and when they had a baby they were forced to quit work as part time work was not an option. That is what feminism was about. It was about the right for women to vote, go to university, create a life that wasn't just a wife/mother.

It's not about female supremacy - how absurd. Feminism isn't really needed in today's society as I feel that things are equal now. Women can choose to live how they like and do what they want. I feel like feminism has passed but society won't be good without men and women contributing.

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^^^ and yet a thread in which a woman posts about her insecurities following initiating sex with a new partner and people start slut shaming her almost immediately up to and including essentially calling her a sexual predator.

But sure, “feminism passed.” Absolutely.

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe he was turned on so said yes but in hindsight is grossed out by you being conservative. Any woman (or person for that matter) who says she’s not a feminist is woefully ignorant about what feminism is. Maybe he doesn’t want to be with a woman who doesn’t think she should have the same opportunities as any human. I mean, that’s strangely self loathing and hateful.

Guy here. I've slept with plenty of women who say they are feminists and also women who say they disdain feminism. They both like and want sex about the same, all other things being equal. Can't speak for most guys, but I don't actually care what your political opinions are, and the less I hear about them the better. Your opinions won't gross me out because I'm basically tuning them out anyway. What I care about is that she wants to get physical, and from that point of view, the OP sounds perfect to me.

I don't know what's going on with the OP's boyfriend - performance anxiety? - but there are plenty of guys out there who have high drive if he doesn't.

Yep, same here. I've had sexual relations with women who would have never had sex with me if they knew my politics, but I never mention it. I'll just go along with whatever her viewpoint is, no matter how much I disagree, because I'm not with her to discuss politics and, I DON'T CARE!.

OP does sound perfect. I can't believe the slut shaming here.

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OP, carry on with your bold and sexy self. Some of us men love women like you. If you're ever single again, let me know.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, carry on with your bold and sexy self. Some of us men love women like you. If you're ever single again, let me know.

+1 (except the single part...happy DH here married to a sexy and amazing DW like the OP)

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

Sounds like she’s going to MeToo him in about six months.

You can argue that it’s overblown but that fear is animating many men these days even otherwise liberal ones. I’ve been a Democrat for 15 years and I still follow the Pence rule.

OP here. No MeTOO move for me. I’m a conservative. I’m not a feminist.

Oh, OP. I was on your side until you claimed to not be a feminist. I still think everybody calling your comment skanky are wrong. But c'mon. Feminism is about humanism.

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I think he just saw you in the light of day....

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Feminism is about humanism.

Yeah, female humans, and ensuring that society and human relationships are ordered for their benefit.

[Anonymous]

Here is an idea, talk to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is an idea, talk to him.

Read the thread. The weirdness has been resolved and OP is somewhere having sex with her BF right now.