Guy Acting Weird After Sex..

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That was a skanky comment.

This is what he’s thinking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

[Anonymous]

I think it took him a little bit to adjust his impression of you but since he texted you an hour ago I think you are okay to proceed cautiously if he reaches out and wants to go on another date. But don't be surprised if he wants to skip the dinner and movie and go straight to sex this time. I bet he's glad to know what he's dealing with though!

[Anonymous]

There are lots of guys out there who lose interest as soon as you sleep with them. They are not men you’d want to be with anyway, because who wants a partner that plays games and has weird sexual hang ups?

The post-sex date is usually pretty awkward, but if you can be emotionally disconnected, it’s kind of funny to watch them squirm through it. Plus, free dinner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are lots of guys out there who lose interest as soon as you sleep with them. They are not men you’d want to be with anyway, because who wants a partner that plays games and has weird sexual hang ups?

The post-sex date is usually pretty awkward, but if you can be emotionally disconnected, it’s kind of funny to watch them squirm through it. Plus, free dinner.

But he wasn’t even trying to get laid. She’s the one who pushed for sex and is now dumping him. Jesus, you’re literally projecting what she’s doing onto him.

[Anonymous]

You had sex multiple times last night, he might need a few hours to recharge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it took him a little bit to adjust his impression of you but since he texted you an hour ago I think you are okay to proceed cautiously if he reaches out and wants to go on another date. But don't be surprised if he wants to skip the dinner and movie and go straight to sex this time. I bet he's glad to know what he's dealing with though!

Go with this for now. You can always retreat if you find it’s different. He may also be more distant physically and still want to hang out. If he’s slowing things down that can be a good thing.

[Anonymous]

Sorry OP, but that comment was disgusting and low class. And he knew it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry OP, but that comment was disgusting and low class. And he knew it.

You’re way uptight. She said it after several dates, not the first night. Women can express themselves too. If a man said that, no one would think it was low ass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sorry OP, but that comment was disgusting and low class. And he knew it.

I think it's hot. I think you're lame.

-A dude

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He could have a girlfriend, but he’s not married. We hung out twice at his place, and I stayed the night at his place. I agree it was a little wrong to say that, but oh well. I was a little tipsy ( rarely drink), and I don’t sleep around, but I understand it’s hard for him to know that. He’s not religious or anything. He also has been very touchy since our first date. I did make a move after he laughed, but it’s not like I forced him. He’s the one that wanted to move from the couch to his bed, and we had sex multiple times last night. He kissed me this morning, but it was quick, and said he was “ too tired” for sex. I let because I had plans, and started to feel weird. He texted me “ How was breakfast” like an hour ago, but now I just feel weird.

It sounds like you’re acting just as weird as you perceive him to be. If you cancel your date tonight, you’re confirming an reservations he had. Maybe he wasn’t really ready for sex and he just went along because he was close to being ready and got caught up in the moment. Then he felt awkward I. The morning. Imagine how you’d like to be treated.

This. Just be yourself and be real with him and see what happens. Ask him what he’s thinking. That’s what people in healthy relationships do. So do that. If it doesn’t work out, then ok.

[Anonymous]

I am so happy to be married and not dating.

[Anonymous]

Go to a movie. Something where you don't have to keep a conversation going all evening. Or something active. Have a definite end-time to the date. Don't sleep over for the next date.

[Anonymous]

I agree that a.) he may be gay or b.) he may be married or in a relationship already.

Hopefully not all of the above!
If he were gay however, I don’t see why he would pursue you & ask you out on five dates.
Only on the rare chance that he could be confused, but that is highly unlikely.

A better answer is that he is already spoken for + felt guilty after sleeping w/you.

Or there is a tiny chance he is just out of a relationship and wanted to wait a little longer before having sex.
*Note: —> I mentioned a “tiny” chance because men usually do not feel this way.
Ha!

If you feel a weird vibe, by all means cancel the date.
But you also may want to talk to this guy & see what he has to say about this.

Good luck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so happy to be married and not dating.

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Why did you feel the need to post this....??!
It adds nothing of value to the conversation at hand.....