I’m 33 and just started dating a 47 yo

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Anonymous wrote:My SIL (DH's sis) is 33 and married a guy who is 48. Her stepdaughters are 13 and 19. She has a 9 year old from her first marriage. We all find the relationship strange. He is closer in age to SIL's mom than he is to her. The 19 year old hates SIL, in part because SIL swings between wanting to be besties and being a parent. Although I imagine the mere 13 year age difference (so, yes, SIL is closer in age to her stepdaughter than she is to her husband) causes no small bit of resentment.

I agree that this is not a good age gap but I doubt it’s fair to put the 19 year old’s resentment on the stepmom. The 19 year old was probably used to being a mini wife and would resent any stepmom married to her dad.

I don't know. Dad divorced his wife to be with my SIL, so there wasn't really any time where the daughters could establish that sort of role (and I agree with the PP who finds the suggestion gross)

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Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

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Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

that's just creepy. and gross.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here...55 yo. Good skin (no blemishes, few wrinkles as I have a dad bod), full head of hair in original color. When I am clean shaven, people think I am in my 30's. Plumbing works fine.

Down side is bad internal genetics. "Blessed" with a cancer gene which has resulted in stage 4 cancer. I also have genetically high cholesterol, which has resulted in 4 stents.

My beard comes in grey, and makes me look my age.

Oh, and I had been able to bench 200 until I blew out my shoulder.

I doubt anyone really thinks you are in your 30’s. “You look so young!” Is one of those things people say to be polite. Good on you for making it through your medical scares.

I think it is true. and by 30's, I mean late 30's. Like close to 40. But, on the inside, medically, I have the body older than my age. Heart disease, kidney disease (from cancer) and diabetes. And arthritis. Just because someone looks younger does not mean they are healthy.

Being delusional is a typical man trait.

They probably believe “you are so big” too.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

that's just creepy. and gross.

DP.. I don't see why that's creepy or gross, but I can't see this going long term, like 10 years.

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My "friend" is 15 yrs older than me. He's very good to me... I wish his stamina was better. We have been together for a very long time and up until recently he could "finish" by just touching me.

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Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

that's just creepy. and gross.

What about if the genders were reversed?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

that's just creepy. and gross.

+1
How old are the kids? Boys, girls? Recipe for disaster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

So you're ok with being treated like a piece of meat? That's what you're doing to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

Man here, I dated a 38 year old when I was 22. Hot sex, good times and great home cooked meals you don't get dating 22 year olds. Bonus was I would hang out and watch cartoons with her 10 year old. Get it girl.

And for the judgmental fools out there, not all relationships have to last forever to be worth it. Have fun while it lasts!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Im 42 and my boyfriend is 31. 3 kids for me, none for him. Going on 4 years now. Get it girl

Man here, I dated a 38 year old when I was 22. Hot sex, good times and great home cooked meals you don't get dating 22 year olds. Bonus was I would hang out and watch cartoons with her 10 year old. Get it girl.

And for the judgmental fools out there, not all relationships have to last forever to be worth it. Have fun while it lasts!

This is what pedophiles do.

Date the mom hang out with the young boy.

[Anonymous]

I love the emotional replies to the 42 year old woman dating the 31 year old. They wouldn’t say a thing if the genders are switched!

[Anonymous]

64 M here and still very fit and sexually motivated, if anything DW (59) cannot come close to keeping up and it’s become an issue ...

I don’t want someone on the side but...

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Anonymous wrote:It's really great until he is 55 and you are 40 and don't get me started about 60 and 45 or 65 and 50.

+100 especially if young kids are involved.