Boyfriend let ex-wife stay at his house

[Anonymous]

You sound insecure. He will always have history with the ex and they have kids. Either execpt this or walk away.

[Anonymous]

The fact that this wasn’t disclosed to you earlier is very problematic.

He obviously is not coming clean because he is hiding something from you.

I would be miffed if I left for three days while the ex moved in for those days.

Your BF needs to come clean on a few things w/you.
Since they are no longer a couple, it is only proper if she stays in a hotel while she is visiting.
Especially since you two are a couple now.

[Anonymous]

Your BF should have stayed in hotel, while the ex (co-owner of the house) stay with kids at home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your BF should have stayed in hotel, while the ex (co-owner of the house) stay with kids at home.

Or stayed with you. Transparency and open communication are very important in a 2 year relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your BF should have stayed in hotel, while the ex (co-owner of the house) stay with kids at home.

This is ridiculous. His house, his kid. Either he's going to sleep with his ex-wife or he isn't. They'd actually be more likely to do it in a hotel where the kid couldn't hear. If you're that insecure, you need a different relationship.

[Anonymous]

OP, he will not be transparent about other issues. Move on. It is probably one of the reasons he is divorced.