How often do you have sex?

[Anonymous]

Average 5 times/week. I'm 43, DH 45. Second marriage, both high drive. Happy campers.

[Anonymous]

5-6 times per week. 35 with 1 4 year old.

Once or twice during the week, four or five times on weekends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We're both 47, been together for 13 years. No kids.

We had sex 44 times in 2015, 42 times in 2016, 50 times in 2017. We're slightly off pace this year at 21 times.

I wish it were in the 100-150 times/year range.

I'm impressed by your counting skills which must require putting notches on a bed post. Regardless of your accuracy I can uderstand your spouses concern with the data. Of your 50 times last year how many times did she really enjoy it? If you don't know the answer....that's why you are not in the 100-150 times a year.

Why do you assume PP is a male? Why do you think he enjoyed the 40 to 50 times? Orgasm does not equal enjoyment.

[Anonymous]

4x in the last 4 years. Yes, once per year. Either my birthday or our anniversary
39Y DW here by the way. And no, I'm not happy about this AT ALL. He has ED and wont' address it.
I am physically fit, in better shape than when we got married 13 years ago. I Don't want an AP, but have gotten a few offers and one of these days might not turn it down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:4x in the last 4 years. Yes, once per year. Either my birthday or our anniversary
39Y DW here by the way. And no, I'm not happy about this AT ALL. He has ED and wont' address it.
I am physically fit, in better shape than when we got married 13 years ago. I Don't want an AP, but have gotten a few offers and one of these days might not turn it down.

Hi there.

[Anonymous]

W - 40 H - 42 - together 25 years and have 3 kids age 11-23 at home plus 2 grandkids ages 6 and 1 month at home and we average twice per week.

[Anonymous]

DW. 48, DH 50
YTD - 53
2017 - 112
2016 - 120

11 & 12 year olds at home

[Anonymous]

I'm 51, DH is 47. Married a decade, together for 11 years. 2 young children.

We were never well matched in terms of drive but I love him and married him anyway. In hindsight that was a mistake - though I love my kids and we'll never divorce. But we have a sexless marriage (maybe 1x/yr and that once is painful and bad), despite endless conversations, therapy, pleas, etc...

He's passive and lazy - which manifests in many ways but the most painful and damaging of which is sexual.

It's miserable. I have generally resigned myself (mostly) to the fact that an active happy sex life is something I enjoyed once but won't again. And I can bring myself to orgasm anytime I want so that's something...

[Anonymous]

About once every three months, going on month four now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4x in the last 4 years. Yes, once per year. Either my birthday or our anniversary
39Y DW here by the way. And no, I'm not happy about this AT ALL. He has ED and wont' address it.
I am physically fit, in better shape than when we got married 13 years ago. I Don't want an AP, but have gotten a few offers and one of these days might not turn it down.

Hi there.

fit/rejected woman receives offer for AP within 4 minutes on anonymous forum

[Anonymous]

51 dating 39 yo woman. 5-6 times weeks where kids away more and 3-4 when they are away less. When we both have free weekends then no fewer than 4, but usually once Friday night and twice each Saturday and Sunday (morning then evening). Dating about two years.

[Anonymous]

Once or twice a week depending on what is going on.

Early 40’s, married 11 years, 1 school age kid

[Anonymous]

At least once a week, sometimes twice but we are in our 60's so I feel that's a pretty good number though I'm sure my DH would prefer more but he never complains because I focus on quality over quantity!

[Anonymous]

Every other day we have sex or I give a BJ. I take 4 days off my cycle monthly as I just don’t feel up to it during that time.

Late 30s, married 12 years, 2 small kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:At least once a week, sometimes twice but we are in our 60's so I feel that's a pretty good number though I'm sure my DH would prefer more but he never complains because I focus on quality over quantity!

We're in our 30's and that's our frequency. Yes, we have young kids but that's just an easy excuse. I do wonder about what it will be in 20 years.