2 months and still no sex?

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

Aww, Mama June, is that you? You've been looking good lately.

So you would consider sitting on a public toilet seat sex? How about sharing a straw/drink with someone? Wow. Life must be thrilling for you with that attitude!

Are you sure you're not in high school?

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

Aww, Mama June, is that you? You've been looking good lately.

So you would consider sitting on a public toilet seat sex? How about sharing a straw/drink with someone? Wow. Life must be thrilling for you with that attitude!

Are you sure you're not in high school?

And here is proof of your ignorance. YOU CAN'T GET AN STD FROM SITTING ON A PUBLIC TOILET.

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She's get railed by another(other) guy(s). You're functioning as her wallet.

[Anonymous]

Dude, I'd watch out for that oral sex stuff!

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/untreatable-super-gonorrhea-rise-spread-oral-sex-article-1.3309147

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

Aww, Mama June, is that you? You've been looking good lately.

So you would consider sitting on a public toilet seat sex? How about sharing a straw/drink with someone? Wow. Life must be thrilling for you with that attitude!

Are you sure you're not in high school?

And here is proof of your ignorance. YOU CAN'T GET AN STD FROM SITTING ON A PUBLIC TOILET.

Oh, you could. It would be highly unlikely, but you could.

The world must be a very... exciting place for you with that attitude.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

Aww, Mama June, is that you? You've been looking good lately.

So you would consider sitting on a public toilet seat sex? How about sharing a straw/drink with someone? Wow. Life must be thrilling for you with that attitude!

Are you sure you're not in high school?

And here is proof of your ignorance. YOU CAN'T GET AN STD FROM SITTING ON A PUBLIC TOILET.

Oh, you could. It would be highly unlikely, but you could.

The world must be a very... exciting place for you with that attitude.

You are an uneducated moron. I suggest a little less romance novels and a lot more science.

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Anonymous wrote:She's get railed by another(other) guy(s). You're functioning as her wallet.

Yep sucker...op your sound very inexperienced. Is this your first time dating? Women typically string men they are not interested in along so they can get free night out. Don't even waste your time, just ghost.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's reading that Steve Harvey book that says to wait 3 months. That book it dumb, btw.

The Family Feud guy? He has relationship books?

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Anonymous wrote:Are you physically affectionate in other ways? Do you tell her how attracted you are to her? No reason you can't show interest while respecting her wishes.

Op here. We are very affectionate with kissing, holding hands, cuddling, and some oral sex. I have made moved to go further but she stops me or says no. Obviously will not push her once she says no. I am going to have a talk to her tonight on whee this is headed and the level of intimacy I need.

Heck, just enjoy the oral sex until she comes around.

And after you're married, you'll miss the oral sex. Then the actual sex.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it's ridiculous and extremely immature to think that oral sex is somehow less intimate than vaginal sex. So I think her waiting to have "real" sex at this point is stupid. I'm a woman by the way. I think she is insecure and childish personally.

Well, he's not trying to date you. Perhaps because you come off as a judgmental pill

No, I'm just not in high school any more, sweet pea.

And yet you still act like you are. Charming.

I think you need to sign up for some sex ed if you can't understand what I meant. It's really not that hard.

Oh girl, we know exactly what you mean. You seem confused though

Confused about what? Only on DCUM can a person respond just to be petty and say absolutely nothing. Again, OP seems to have resolved his dilemma. I respect his decision to wait because he seems to care for this woman. I think that is romantic. I still think that oral sex IS sex and to say you are waiting to have an emotional connection before you'll have intercourse but you'll give a guy a blow job is very much what 14 year olds do.

And I think only a 14 year old girl would leave such a petty and silly post. If you think that oral sex is the same as PIV sex- then fine. I think you're in the minority of that opinion... but even so- can't you understand that this woman feels differently? She obviously confers greater intimacy on the act than you do. To call that "stupid", "insecure" and "childish", is literally all those words.

Honey boo boo!!!!! If you can get an STD from it, it's sex....mmmkkkkaayyyy..

No reason to get all hurt feelings about it.

Aww, Mama June, is that you? You've been looking good lately.

So you would consider sitting on a public toilet seat sex? How about sharing a straw/drink with someone? Wow. Life must be thrilling for you with that attitude!

Are you sure you're not in high school?

And here is proof of your ignorance. YOU CAN'T GET AN STD FROM SITTING ON A PUBLIC TOILET.

Oh, you could. It would be highly unlikely, but you could.

The world must be a very... exciting place for you with that attitude.

You are an uneducated moron. I suggest a little less romance novels and a lot more science.

And you are an imbecilic nightmare. I suggest a basic social skills class and a lot of intensive therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dude, I'd watch out for that oral sex stuff!

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/untreatable-super-gonorrhea-rise-spread-oral-sex-article-1.3309147

Maybe monogamy isn't so bad...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she's reading that Steve Harvey book that says to wait 3 months. That book it dumb, btw.

I didn't read the book.

I wasn't playing a game.

I was just tired of the cycle of hot sex and incompatible personalities.

Waited. It was worth it. We're happily married. 3x a week on average.