Affair, told his wife and now he's back

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You involved your children? Ugh. OP... why?

This is a Jammu a serious question. There have been many affair posts that talk about introducing APs to children and I'm curious how/why it gets to that point, from the affair partners' perspectives.

Weren't your afraid your children would out you?

when the children are young they just think its mommies friend. you feel inclined to introduce so your married/family life is less of a secret - it's over sharing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You involved your children? Ugh. OP... why?

This is a Jammu a serious question. There have been many affair posts that talk about introducing APs to children and I'm curious how/why it gets to that point, from the affair partners' perspectives.

Weren't your afraid your children would out you?

Jammu?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What? You wives are deflecting the blame hardcore. This dude brought his kids around her, and possibly his wife, around a woman he had a separate romantic, long term relationship with. Then, he continued contacting her and professing his love for this woman. And SHE's despicable? She came clean, at least, and is no longer lying to her family. Imagine what he's doing to his wife mentally and emotionally right now. He's still putting her needs behind his wants and urges. OP has her own family to accept responsibility for. He is solely to blame at this point for any pain inflicted to his family.

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