Why do so many men feel entitled to sex within a marriage?

[Anonymous]

Op, I agree with you. No one is entitled to your partner's: sex, love, time, attention, trust, friendship, support, empathy, kindness.

Also, I miss the college years when everything was so clear.

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Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.

you do know sex is not a basic need, right?

Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.

-- signed woman who loves sex

And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?

Sure, I can her off any time, but it's not the same as making love to a woman. It's necessary for physical and emotional intimacy. Plus it's a lot more fun withs partner thsn alone. Maybe OP needs to become a nun.

Fun ... Yes

Necessary... No

See OP... Ad hominem Comment,... Nun it's the only resort when there is no real argument.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.

Not in any contract I signed.

Does your husband think he signed the same contract? My guess would be he thinks he signed the "regular sex" one.

[Anonymous]

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So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.

LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.

[Anonymous]

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So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.

LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.

Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.

If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.

I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!

[Anonymous]

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So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.

LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.

Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.

If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.

I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!

A military relationship is so much different some in the same household for three months with no expectation of sex with SO.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, I agree with you. No one is entitled to your partner's: sex, love, time, attention, trust, friendship, support, empathy, kindness.

Also, I miss the college years when everything was so clear.

If your not entitled to this things so that means I can have no sex, hate, no time, attention, trust, not be a friend nor supportive or even be nice and you telling me none I'm entitled to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

So young lady, I presume you buy all your own drinks, food, event tickets, etc., when out on a date with a man (assuming you've ever been out on a date?) Because of course, why would you expect someone else to buy those things for you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.

LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.

Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.

If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.

I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

So many people go without sex for various reasons... Deployed, illness, etc... It's not a basic need.

LOL if you think people on deployment don't have sex you reeeeeaaaaally don't know much about the military.

Some do... Some don't ... Both can function.

If you think 3 months without water is the same as 3 months without sex, you're ignorant.

I guess you think it's okay for all the spouses of deployed military to get free hall passes? It's Not!

A military relationship is so much different some in the same household for three months with no expectation of sex with SO.

Living in the same house is not changing your biological need.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

So young lady, I presume you buy all your own drinks, food, event tickets, etc., when out on a date with a man (assuming you've ever been out on a date?) Because of course, why would you expect someone else to buy those things for you.

You pay for sex with a $10 glass of wine. Nice, barter system. Barf!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

So young lady, I presume you buy all your own drinks, food, event tickets, etc., when out on a date with a man (assuming you've ever been out on a date?) Because of course, why would you expect someone else to buy those things for you.

Confused as to what this has to do with anything at all? Unless you are speaking to a prostitute?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.

you do know sex is not a basic need, right?

It is for normally functioning adults. I realize deviancy exists, but an adult to not consider sex to be a basic human need is not normal.

You don't understand biology if you think it's a basic human need.

You're joking right? If anything, the biological imperative strengthens the idea that sex is a need for men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.

you do know sex is not a basic need, right?

Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.

-- signed woman who loves sex

And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?

If getting off alone is better for you than with your partner, then he sucks at sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a young woman, I don't get it. Like did you get married solely thinking you would get laid regularly? Cause that just seems so... dumb. Messed up. Awful.

Then they put pressure on their wives, who dont feel like having sex, and try to coerce or pressure them into it. Why? Because the dude wants to have sex.

I see so much outrage about Brock Turner and no one seems to be talking about this different aspect of rape culture which is that husbands are entitled to their wives bodies? When they want it?

And it's so bizarre to me. Like.... how is this a thing? In today's modern world?

Women are still expected to lie back and think of England? For reals?

Men are entitled too it because sex is a basic need, like eating and sleeping. Marriage is a contract. Included in the contract is a pledge to have sex regularly.

you do know sex is not a basic need, right?

Maybe for YOU it isnt but orgasms make a body feel good and I need them regularly.

-- signed woman who loves sex

And you do know you can have an Orgasm WITHOUT having "sex" with your husband? As can he?

If getting off alone is better for you than with your partner, then he sucks at sex.

Not really. Most women can't get off through vaginal intercourse.