What makes a woman a catch?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:What makes a woman a "catch"?

If you're single or in a shitty relationship, does that mean you're not a catch?

If you are single it means you just aren't as slutty as the women in your vicinity. Sluts get dates and rings.
It also means you aren't stupid enough. To have a man you have to be willing to play a little bit dumb and go along with whatever he tells you

If you are in a shitty relationship it means you aren't sexing and playing stupid to the right guys.

Also where a shit ton of makeup.

Slut it up, be dumb, like whatever he likes, and wear makeup, put up with whatever he throws at you, and don't expect honesty. I promise you'll be engaged by the end of 2016 if not married.

Learn to spell? No reason to play dumb on an anonymous forum ('wear' makeup, 'sexting', etc.). Also, what area is this? Outside the Burger King in Midlothian ?

As a girl, i actually agree this sounds like the mindset of most guys. They're all emotional pigs and then when the kind of slut they marry or date starts to cheat on them they blame ALL women when they easily could have dated someone with morals, attractive, and who looks natural.

Well, seems fair then.

[Anonymous]

I consider a girl a catch if they are not too chubby or skinny, match my sexual drive, have her own job, no kids, between 35-45 and most important -her tubes are tied- I would consider that a jackpot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It makes me sad when women mention money as part of being a catch. Sounds humiliating. Money is great on its own, but when used to attract a male, I dunno... Even men don't like when women are attracted to their money, and money/providing for a family is totally a male thing.

Because it's much more noble to be sought after based solely on your looks, right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Physical:

Thin but has boobs
Nice white teeth
Thick shiny hair
Tan
Well groomed
Wears makeup and well fitted clothes

Personality
Girly
Cute
Maternal
Not ambitious

Bonuses
Good family and friends
Wealth

Why not ambitious? Serious question.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical:

Thin but has boobs
Nice white teeth
Thick shiny hair
Tan
Well groomed
Wears makeup and well fitted clothes

Personality
Girly
Cute
Maternal
Not ambitious

Bonuses
Good family and friends
Wealth

Why not ambitious? Serious question.

This kind of man can't deal with competition from women.

Surprised that it was just the "ambitious" thing that gave you pause about this.

[Anonymous]

Okay, someday I hope to be a MIL, so here's my wish list:

1. Stable, even-keeled personality, no history of mental illness
2. Giving, nurturing and warm nature, not self-centered, loyal to my son
3. Smart and rational (a reasonable person who can understand different viewpoints)
4. Healthy and fit
5. Reasonably good looking. If her mom still looks good, that's even better!
6. Well-mannered

Not really important to me
1. Money
2. Race, blondeness, or big boobs
3. Family wealth or status
4. Great grooming/clothes

[Anonymous]

Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

Not if it comes with a bitchy attitude. Great conversation does not trump being a loving nurturing partner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, someday I hope to be a MIL, so here's my wish list:

1. Stable, even-keeled personality, no history of mental illness
2. Giving, nurturing and warm nature, not self-centered, loyal to my son
3. Smart and rational (a reasonable person who can understand different viewpoints)
4. Healthy and fit
5. Reasonably good looking. If her mom still looks good, that's even better!
6. Well-mannered

Not really important to me
1. Money
2. Race, blondeness, or big boobs
3. Family wealth or status
4. Great grooming/clothes

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, someday I hope to be a MIL, so here's my wish list:

1. Stable, even-keeled personality, no history of mental illness
2. Giving, nurturing and warm nature, not self-centered, loyal to my son
3. Smart and rational (a reasonable person who can understand different viewpoints)
4. Healthy and fit
5. Reasonably good looking. If her mom still looks good, that's even better!
6. Well-mannered

Not really important to me
1. Money
2. Race, blondeness, or big boobs
3. Family wealth or status
4. Great grooming/clothes

+1

+2

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

Not if it comes with a bitchy attitude. Great conversation does not trump being a loving nurturing partner.

Curious, where did bitchy attitude enter stage left by default? I'm a loving mother with a brain and a pulse who enjoys debate above & beyond poopy diapers.

[Anonymous]

Some older guys I work with said (joked) that when they used to interview a secretary, they's ask her to stand up, clasp her hands behind her head with her elbows forward and walk toward the wall. If her elbows touched the wall first, she didn't get hired.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some older guys I work with said (joked) that when they used to interview a secretary, they's ask her to stand up, clasp her hands behind her head with her elbows forward and walk toward the wall. If her elbows touched the wall first, she didn't get hired.

I sincerely hope you aren't raising girls. I know, it's SOOOO funny. Sexism.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Physical:

Thin but has boobs
Nice white teeth
Thick shiny hair
Tan
Well groomed
Wears makeup and well fitted clothes

Personality
Girly
Cute
Maternal
Not ambitious

Bonuses
Good family and friends
Wealth

Why not ambitious? Serious question.

I'm down with ambitious women. Ambitious women aren't down with me though (i'm not frank underwood)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What makes a woman a "catch"?

If you're single or in a shitty relationship, does that mean you're not a catch?

If you are single it means you just aren't as slutty as the women in your vicinity. Sluts get dates and rings.
It also means you aren't stupid enough. To have a man you have to be willing to play a little bit dumb and go along with whatever he tells you

If you are in a shitty relationship it means you aren't sexing and playing stupid to the right guys.

Also where a shit ton of makeup.

Slut it up, be dumb, like whatever he likes, and wear makeup, put up with whatever he throws at you, and don't expect honesty. I promise you'll be engaged by the end of 2016 if not married.

Learn to spell? No reason to play dumb on an anonymous forum ('wear' makeup, 'sexting', etc.). Also, what area is this? Outside the Burger King in Midlothian ?

As a girl, i actually agree this sounds like the mindset of most guys. They're all emotional pigs and then when the kind of slut they marry or date starts to cheat on them they blame ALL women when they easily could have dated someone with morals, attractive, and who looks natural.[/quote

OK guy here - I have to comment on this. You get angry when guys marry 'sluts'.....but in fact theres a big fight in the sexual-dynamics over the last 10-20 years about how much of a woman's past is a man allowed to know.

So you get angry at us if we marry sluts but you also get angry at us if we DON'T want to marry sluts and we actively try to do this by finding out the entirety of a woman's past.

#logic