What makes a woman a catch?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some older guys I work with said (joked) that when they used to interview a secretary, they's ask her to stand up, clasp her hands behind her head with her elbows forward and walk toward the wall. If her elbows touched the wall first, she didn't get hired.

I sincerely hope you aren't raising girls. I know, it's SOOOO funny. Sexism.

Lighten up. You'll have to, when Mr. Trump is sworn in as the 45th president.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps. I'd like to think we're all smarter.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:What makes a woman a "catch"?

If you're single or in a shitty relationship, does that mean you're not a catch?

If you are single it means you just aren't as slutty as the women in your vicinity. Sluts get dates and rings.
It also means you aren't stupid enough. To have a man you have to be willing to play a little bit dumb and go along with whatever he tells you

If you are in a shitty relationship it means you aren't sexing and playing stupid to the right guys.

Also where a shit ton of makeup.

Slut it up, be dumb, like whatever he likes, and wear makeup, put up with whatever he throws at you, and don't expect honesty. I promise you'll be engaged by the end of 2016 if not married.

Learn to spell? No reason to play dumb on an anonymous forum ('wear' makeup, 'sexting', etc.). Also, what area is this? Outside the Burger King in Midlothian ?

As a girl, i actually agree this sounds like the mindset of most guys. They're all emotional pigs and then when the kind of slut they marry or date starts to cheat on them they blame ALL women when they easily could have dated someone with morals, attractive, and who looks natural.[/quote

OK guy here - I have to comment on this. You get angry when guys marry 'sluts'.....but in fact theres a big fight in the sexual-dynamics over the last 10-20 years about how much of a woman's past is a man allowed to know.

So you get angry at us if we marry sluts but you also get angry at us if we DON'T want to marry sluts and we actively try to do this by finding out the entirety of a woman's past.

#logic

Who said I was angry? I avoid the kind of guy I mentioned above because you meet them everyday. Misogynist guys created apps like tinder where you judge or hookup with a woman only based on how she looks. I am very open and have nothing to hide or be ashamed about about my personal or sexual past. If a guy doesn't want to marry a bimbo with low morals then he'd look past any superficialities and fall in love with who she really is.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What makes a woman a "catch"?

If you're single or in a shitty relationship, does that mean you're not a catch?

If you are single it means you just aren't as slutty as the women in your vicinity. Sluts get dates and rings.
It also means you aren't stupid enough. To have a man you have to be willing to play a little bit dumb and go along with whatever he tells you

If you are in a shitty relationship it means you aren't sexing and playing stupid to the right guys.

Also where a shit ton of makeup.

Slut it up, be dumb, like whatever he likes, and wear makeup, put up with whatever he throws at you, and don't expect honesty. I promise you'll be engaged by the end of 2016 if not married.

Learn to spell? No reason to play dumb on an anonymous forum ('wear' makeup, 'sexting', etc.). Also, what area is this? Outside the Burger King in Midlothian ?

As a girl, i actually agree this sounds like the mindset of most guys. They're all emotional pigs and then when the kind of slut they marry or date starts to cheat on them they blame ALL women when they easily could have dated someone with morals, attractive, and who looks natural.[/quote

OK guy here - I have to comment on this. You get angry when guys marry 'sluts'.....but in fact theres a big fight in the sexual-dynamics over the last 10-20 years about how much of a woman's past is a man allowed to know.

So you get angry at us if we marry sluts but you also get angry at us if we DON'T want to marry sluts and we actively try to do this by finding out the entirety of a woman's past.

#logic

Who said I was angry? I avoid the kind of guy I mentioned above because you meet them everyday. Misogynist guys created apps like tinder where you judge or hookup with a woman only based on how she looks. I am very open and have nothing to hide or be ashamed about about my personal or sexual past. If a guy doesn't want to marry a bimbo with low morals then he'd look past any superficialities and fall in love with who she really is.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Okay, someday I hope to be a MIL, so here's my wish list:

1. Stable, even-keeled personality, no history of mental illness
2. Giving, nurturing and warm nature, not self-centered, loyal to my son
3. Smart and rational (a reasonable person who can understand different viewpoints)
4. Healthy and fit
5. Reasonably good looking. If her mom still looks good, that's even better!
6. Well-mannered

Not really important to me
1. Money
2. Race, blondeness, or big boobs
3. Family wealth or status
4. Great grooming/clothes

+1

+2

why is this a plus? I know plenty of girls whose moms have let themselves go but the girls are still attractive well into their 40s or 50s

[Anonymous]

That would be me. My mom never took care of herself, never went to the gym, used skin care, or wore fashionable clothes.

my dh will be the first to say that this line of thinking is not true.

However, my mom is awesome! she is starting to take better care of herself. I am so glad.

[Anonymous]

Here is my catch list:

Attractive (not necessarily skinny - likes to eat and eat dessert), sexually adventurous and open minded, social and likes to go out and travel, kind, not into keeping up with the Jones' and other superficial b.s. Has some fashion sense, likes to cook. Good with children. Has a life of her own and is cool with girls/guys nights and weekend trips.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Blonde, not overweight (naturally , look for fat signs like armpit fat, poor thigh gap), olive skin (pale or fair ages very badly), non feminist,

It is acceptable to dye hair blonde if was blonde when young

Natural blondes with olive skin only? Lol @ these dudes with their laundry lists of physical requirements. And then they get all huffy when women say they want a guy with a job

[Anonymous]

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Attractive, nice, likes sex.

This is unreasonable! Why do women continue to try to live up to these fantasies.

At least we'll pretend to like it to accomplish our objectives.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

Not if it comes with a bitchy attitude. Great conversation does not trump being a loving nurturing partner.

Here's a real statistic. Most women don't want to suck a cock, better scratch that off the list.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

Not if it comes with a bitchy attitude. Great conversation does not trump being a loving nurturing partner.

Here's a real statistic. Most women don't want to suck a cock, better scratch that off the list.

I do. What makes you think most women don't? I even work outside the home.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Intelligence/smarts doesn't top the list. Really? Sad.

-- Reasonably attractive, suck a good cock + can have a great conversation. Shit like, let's chat Robespierre and Trump.

Not if it comes with a bitchy attitude. Great conversation does not trump being a loving nurturing partner.

Here's a real statistic. Most women don't want to suck a cock, better scratch that off the list.

I do. What makes you think most women don't? I even work outside the home.

Most don't. I work and know many women.

[Anonymous]

I'm genuinely curious to know what men consider 'sexually adventurous'....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Blonde, not overweight (naturally , look for fat signs like armpit fat, poor thigh gap), olive skin (pale or fair ages very badly), non feminist,

It is acceptable to dye hair blonde if was blonde when young

Natural blondes with olive skin only? Lol @ these dudes with their laundry lists of physical requirements. And then they get all huffy when women say they want a guy with a job

[phone]

Guys only think with their mini peepe

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is my catch list:

Attractive (not necessarily skinny - likes to eat and eat dessert), sexually adventurous and open minded, social and likes to go out and travel, kind, not into keeping up with the Jones' and other superficial b.s. Has some fashion sense, likes to cook. Good with children. Has a life of her own and is cool with girls/guys nights and weekend trips.

Too bad I'm taken.