Wondering if DW is part of some kind of fight club...

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Anonymous wrote:What, she's not out hunting bobcats?


I really feel like Fight Club Wife is the new Bobcat Boyfriend.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What, she's not out hunting bobcats?


This was my thought, too. Or shagging the bobcat.
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Anonymous wrote:Any chance she is into the 50 Shades of Grey series too much?


This is the first thing I thought, as well. She's gotten into kink-BDSM with someone and they are meeting once/week for an all-night session. Married women love this stuff.

Crossfit/soldierfit/TRX Training classes don't last for six hours

OP, does she have a lot of bruises on her butt? Also look for bruising or markings on her wrists and ankles. These would be from rope or other types of restraints.

Good luck, OP. But I fear you will not like what you discover.


Also, pay attention to inner thigh bruising. That will be a pretty clear indicator of her "activities."


What the hell is BDSM? Sounds like its NSFW to search this.

She does have butt bruising. While not on her wrists, she does have it on her arms. Particularly her forearm and elbows. Last week she had a bad black and blue on her tricep area. Also bruising below her rib cage that still is discolored. I will need to check her ankles, I honestly never thought to look there. Didn't notice anything.




How could you not know what that is?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=BDSM
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Dude if you have 4 kids under 5 you will probably never get to have sex with your wife again, unless they are all at school and you both can meet in the day.


Is this a troll?

Thread sounds ever less plausible.
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Anonymous wrote:While I think the OP's story is fake, i wanted to share a story on the very off chance that it's real and that OP can learn something from it.

I have a dear friend who married young, had 3 kids by the time she was 21 (with her husband) and got board with the marriage in her early 30s.

She called me once crying. She had been in a dom/sub affair and the guy seriously hurt her. She was crying out of fear for her health and having to tell her husband about the affair. She needed ... (trying not to be explicit) stitches in her vagina like one needs after childbirth. She told her husband. He didn't like rough private time but did it with her occasionally. She only pushed him b/c she needed those marks to hide the ones she was getting with her dom person.

They had an open marriage for awhile so she could get all that stuff out of her system and eventually the marriage dissolved.

OP any of that sound familiar?


forgot to mention that she was usually bound. I could give you other details for things to look for but it would not be clean enough for this thread.
Some clean things to look for: Chapped lips. bicept bruises that are on both sides (need too look for a thumb bruise on the underside of the arm.
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Anonymous wrote:I don't get it. Can't you just ask her what's up? Tell her you don't buy her triathlon explanation and need more information.


I did this. We have actually gotten into arguments about it. She says she does a lot of "crawling" type of exercises to build core strength. She try also lift heavy objects and carry them. They use some kind of rope for working out. And she says its partially outdoors, which means shes doing some of this stuff in the dark. The cheekbone bruise last night was apparently from her accidentally hitting a rope against her face.

I asked her what kind of triathlon is this? I thought triathlons were swimming, running and biking. Shes says what shes doing is more extreme, and its going to take place in next Spring by the companies to do the Tuff Mudder(?) type races.
Still don't buy it- hence the increasing desire to hire a sitter next week.



Maybe she's going to a Parkour type gym. There's a lot of tumbling and rolling going on in a place like that. What's odd though is that you don't see a correspoding charge on your bank accounts.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Roller derby?


derby girl here, the hands and knuckles kinda through me off- all kinds of bruises and what not, but we don't box each other. Hand injuries come from getting them run over by skates or bent backwards on another skater. Also, our practices are typically only 2 hours a night, and you have to meet several other practice/ volunteer requirements to be eligible to skate so you would know if she was involved with a league.
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Anonymous wrote:While I think the OP's story is fake, i wanted to share a story on the very off chance that it's real and that OP can learn something from it.

I have a dear friend who married young, had 3 kids by the time she was 21 (with her husband) and got board with the marriage in her early 30s.

She called me once crying. She had been in a dom/sub affair and the guy seriously hurt her. She was crying out of fear for her health and having to tell her husband about the affair. She needed ... (trying not to be explicit) stitches in her vagina like one needs after childbirth. She told her husband. He didn't like rough private time but did it with her occasionally. She only pushed him b/c she needed those marks to hide the ones she was getting with her dom person.

They had an open marriage for awhile so she could get all that stuff out of her system and eventually the marriage dissolved.

OP any of that sound familiar?


forgot to mention that she was usually bound. I could give you other details for things to look for but it would not be clean enough for this thread.
Some clean things to look for: Chapped lips. bicept bruises that are on both sides (need too look for a thumb bruise on the underside of the arm.


Enough, okay. These two situations have nothing to do with each other. And one person's Dom/sub experience will be totally different from another's. Just stop.
Anonymous
It sounds like she bruises easily given that your "adult time" sometimes leaves bruises. A physical with blood work would probably be a good idea.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am dying to know what his DW is up to!! I don't have any insight to add, except for the fact that something is off and I can't put my finger on it. I am going to follow this. OP KEEP US UPDATED!


+1
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Roller derby will bruise you up pretty badly, but why hide that?
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Anonymous wrote:I am dying to know what his DW is up to!! I don't have any insight to add, except for the fact that something is off and I can't put my finger on it. I am going to follow this. OP KEEP US UPDATED!


+1

Need Sherlock Holmes.
Anonymous
where is op? this sucks. I don't understand.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:where is op? this sucks. I don't understand.


Maybe it is a fight club, and he joined too, and you know the first rule of fight club is...
Anonymous
Does she drink too much or take too much fish oil? Both will thin the blood and leave a person easily bruised.
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