PSA: not a pick up line, gentlemen!

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And who says I want or will want a long term relationship?

LOL at men thinking all women are desperate for a boyfriend. Keep dreaming bud.

Plenty of women are happy to get laid and have no interest in marriage or a long term setup.

Really all you are saying is that women (in general) have a low sex drive. Congrats ladies on your "victory".

But if what you said were even remotely true, that would mean women have (finally!) adopted the of hassle free male perspective sex.
In which case, both men and women would get laid with the same level of effort. Is this now your point?
But wait... you were just arguing the opposite point that women can get sex anytime while men can't.
So which is it?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

I think PP was responding to the 0.5% comment above (hence, one success per 200 tries). Lighten up!

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Anonymous wrote:I am not hot. I am male, somewhat extraverted, and had no trouble meeting women (in my single days).

It was not pickup lines. Rather, I would engage them in a quick conversation. I found if I could use my humor, people wanted to spend time with me, because they like to laugh. (even if at my penis).

I did not realize this power until I was about 30. It worked wonders then. And it works today. People remember me, come up to talk to me, and seem to like me. Granted, I am not trying to sleep with them anymore. But still. Humor, not pickup lines.

Dad bods are hot because Jim Gaffigan is funny.

I think I know you. Does your name begin with a K?

Nope. D.

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Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

That would require you to give a shit about the opinion of the women who aren't interested.

Aw, but you clearly do. Which is why you study up on ways to get women to pay attention to you.

Here is where you show some blindness to the PUA mindset. They are even more misogynistic than you think. They don't care about women's attention because they care about the woman or her opinion of him. The woman is just an object they use to rank themselves against other men.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

That would require you to give a shit about the opinion of the women who aren't interested.

Aw, but you clearly do. Which is why you study up on ways to get women to pay attention to you.

Here is where you show some blindness to the PUA mindset. They are even more misogynistic than you think. They don't care about women's attention because they care about the woman or her opinion of him. The woman is just an object they use to rank themselves against other men.

Correct. They don't want to have actual relationships with women - just sex. I suggest looking here for your next "girlfriend":

http://www.reallovesexdolls.com

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Married woman here and I totally agree. People talk all the time about how women change, but never about how men change and become entitled, spoiled whiners who contribute nil except a paycheck (that I don't even need because I work and make good money). If not for the fact that we have a child together, I would have given my lazy, rotten, fat and getting fatter DH the heave ho by now. No woman who is successful and financially independent should ever get married.

Boy, makes me really want to risk half my earnings and 18 years of being domineered by a total bitch by singing up to get married.

PS, you want to get married because you want our money and you want our sperm. Plus you don't want to work.

Awww, poor wittle baby has issues with women. So adorbs.

Also, sperm is cheap. I can walk outside right now and get a ton of different sperm deposits- with ZERO effort on my part.

key phrase: "right now"

Women 18-30ish rule the world, even if they don't know it (it sounds like you do, though, judging by your brazenness). Having the opposite constantly offer themselves to you for sex is such a chore, I know. Fortunately, it doesn't last forever.

I rule the world?! SWEEEEEET!!! I didn't know this. Time to start making some demands

And... no. Women 30 plus can still walk out the door and get sex whenever they want. Fact of biology, sorry bro.

I don't know about that. Sure, it won't be hard to get casual sex from random strangers, but getting anything resembling a long-term relationship with a reasonably attractive, non-gay, non-insane, male around your age who has decent career and/or a life, is more difficult once you get past your mid-30s.

And who says I want or will want a long term relationship?

LOL at men thinking all women are desperate for a boyfriend. Keep dreaming bud.

Plenty of women are happy to get laid and have no interest in marriage or a long term setup.

Did you just time warp into the present day from one of the early seasons of Sex and the City?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:
And who says I want or will want a long term relationship?

LOL at men thinking all women are desperate for a boyfriend. Keep dreaming bud.

Plenty of women are happy to get laid and have no interest in marriage or a long term setup.

Really all you are saying is that women (in general) have a low sex drive. Congrats ladies on your "victory".

But if what you said were even remotely true, that would mean women have (finally!) adopted the of hassle free male perspective sex.
In which case, both men and women would get laid with the same level of effort. Is this now your point?
But wait... you were just arguing the opposite point that women can get sex anytime while men can't.
So which is it?

Not all men can get laid with the same amount of effort.

But the hot, funny, good personality, no-chip-on-their-shoulder men? I think it's relatively easy for them.

Sucks for you, buddy!

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Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even faathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

That would require you to give a shit about the opinion of the women who aren't interested.

Aw, but you clearly do. Which is why you study up on ways to get women to pay attention to you.

Here is where you show some blindness to the PUA mindset. They are even more misogynistic than you think. They don't care about women's attention because they care about the woman or her opinion of him. The woman is just an object they use to rank themselves against other men.

True. In all honesty, I have wondered many times why these men don't start dating men. They seem much more concerned with what men think than women. Why not let that blossom into a full fledged sexual relationship - the social component is already there.

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One of my favorite things to do is call out dudes when they try to "neg" me. The look of shame and shock on their faces... completely priceless.

Every woman should do it. It never gets old.

I don't care what anyone says, you don't need to lose weight!

I don't care what anyone says. You probably do bathe every day.

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One of my favorite things to do is call out dudes when they try to "neg" me. The look of shame and shock on their faces... completely priceless.

Every woman should do it. It never gets old.

I don't care what anyone says, you don't need to lose weight!

I don't care what anyone says. You probably do bathe every day.

LMAO. Yes! It's lame stuff like that. So awkward, regardless of who would say it. Let alone a guy trying to hit on you! Absurd.

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Anonymous wrote:Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

I don't think you are a typical PUA target.

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Anonymous wrote:Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

I don't think you are a typical PUA target.

Oh trust me- nearly any woman is a PUA target. These men are fairly desperate anyway- for ANY kind of female attention at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

I don't think you are a typical PUA target.

Oh trust me- nearly any woman is a PUA target. These men are fairly desperate anyway- for ANY kind of female attention at all.

Again, it's not the female attention they want. They don't give a shit about women except as markers with which they can can compare themselves against other men.

But, having written that, I guess there is another group of men who do want female attention that use these tactics. They can't get the attention by doing what women say they want. They pay attention to women as individuals but inevitably find that these women just want to be friends. They see women fall for the PUA shit or, at least, going out with men who don't treat them very well. They figure that, despite what women say about wanting a guy with a good sense of humor who treats them with respect, etc; what a lot of women are romantically interested in boils down to being sexually attracted to a good looking dude who is showy about his confidence. These guys are easy marks for the PUA grifters who sell them a plan on how to meet women.

Just an aside, but have you seen the Cracked takedown of "Wingman Magazine"? Epic. "Wingman Magazine" is some kind of sketchy publication giving horrible "red pill" dating advice:
http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-6-worst-things-about-site-that-tried-to-bribe-me/

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Anonymous wrote:Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

I don't think you are a typical PUA target.

Oh trust me- nearly any woman is a PUA target. These men are fairly desperate anyway- for ANY kind of female attention at all.

Again, it's not the female attention they want. They don't give a shit about women except as markers with which they can can compare themselves against other men.

But, having written that, I guess there is another group of men who do want female attention that use these tactics. They can't get the attention by doing what women say they want. They pay attention to women as individuals but inevitably find that these women just want to be friends. They see women fall for the PUA shit or, at least, going out with men who don't treat them very well. They figure that, despite what women say about wanting a guy with a good sense of humor who treats them with respect, etc; what a lot of women are romantically interested in boils down to being sexually attracted to a good looking dude who is showy about his confidence. These guys are easy marks for the PUA grifters who sell them a plan on how to meet women.

Just an aside, but have you seen the Cracked takedown of "Wingman Magazine"? Epic. "Wingman Magazine" is some kind of sketchy publication giving horrible "red pill" dating advice:
http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-6-worst-things-about-site-that-tried-to-bribe-me/

OMG. That entire thing was hilarious. Thank you for posting.

Have you ever read http://wehuntedthemammoth.com/? He rips PUAs a new asshole on a daily basis and it's so damn funny. My favorite site to laugh mercilessly at redpillers and "pick up artists".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not all men can get laid with the same amount of effort.


But the hot, funny, good personality, no-chip-on-their-shoulder men? I think it's relatively easy for them.

Sucks for you, buddy!

There you go making this personal: sounds like a woman with a chip on YOUR shoulder!
FYI I'm in a steady relationship, sex 2X - 3X per week.
I actually never said that (above in red) so not sure why you needed to state the obvious (in green).

Here's the deal
- men pursue sex with women due to the fact women have lower sex drive (otherwise both sexes would pursue one another equally)
- some men's pursuit of sex is pathetically desperate
Ok I agree !!!

But guess what ladies, here is my PSA back to you:
- women pursue validation/emotional/financial support from men
- some women's pursuit of male validation is pathetically desperate


Can we agree that both genders have our pathetic fringe elements, but these don't "define" us