PSA: not a pick up line, gentlemen!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Married woman here and I totally agree. People talk all the time about how women change, but never about how men change and become entitled, spoiled whiners who contribute nil except a paycheck (that I don't even need because I work and make good money). If not for the fact that we have a child together, I would have given my lazy, rotten, fat and getting fatter DH the heave ho by now. No woman who is successful and financially independent should ever get married.

Boy, makes me really want to risk half my earnings and 18 years of being domineered by a total bitch by singing up to get married.

PS, you want to get married because you want our money and you want our sperm. Plus you don't want to work.

Awww, poor wittle baby has issues with women. So adorbs.

Also, sperm is cheap. I can walk outside right now and get a ton of different sperm deposits- with ZERO effort on my part.

key phrase: "right now"

Women 18-30ish rule the world, even if they don't know it (it sounds like you do, though, judging by your brazenness). Having the opposite constantly offer themselves to you for sex is such a chore, I know. Fortunately, it doesn't last forever.

[Anonymous]

And stop using the pickup line: "Hey wanna come over to my house tonight? I'm having a sale in the bedroom...ALL clothes are 100% off...!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Married woman here and I totally agree. People talk all the time about how women change, but never about how men change and become entitled, spoiled whiners who contribute nil except a paycheck (that I don't even need because I work and make good money). If not for the fact that we have a child together, I would have given my lazy, rotten, fat and getting fatter DH the heave ho by now. No woman who is successful and financially independent should ever get married.

Boy, makes me really want to risk half my earnings and 18 years of being domineered by a total bitch by singing up to get married.

PS, you want to get married because you want our money and you want our sperm. Plus you don't want to work.

Awww, poor wittle baby has issues with women. So adorbs.

Also, sperm is cheap. I can walk outside right now and get a ton of different sperm deposits- with ZERO effort on my part.

key phrase: "right now"

Women 18-30ish rule the world, even if they don't know it (it sounds like you do, though, judging by your brazenness). Having the opposite constantly offer themselves to you for sex is such a chore, I know. Fortunately, it doesn't last forever.

I rule the world?! SWEEEEEET!!! I didn't know this. Time to start making some demands

And... no. Women 30 plus can still walk out the door and get sex whenever they want. Fact of biology, sorry bro.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:If you're hot, you'll get laid. If you "treat a woman like a person," she might become your friend. Which is fine, if you're looking for friends.

If you are looking for sex and not friendship, don't become her friend because that's dishonest and makes you one of the not-nice "nice guys" complaining about the friend zone.

Negs don't work very often, but for guys who aren't hot, they're probably better for getting laid than just being friendly. Without the neg, the not-hot guy is probably just going to get ignored. With the neg, the woman is a lot more likely to at least engage him (see above, the PP who engages with "did you just neg me?"). Most of the time that engagement isn't going to lead to anything positive, but there is at least the chance the not-hot guy can leverage that into something more. The ignored guy has no chance. And the pseudo-friend is probably even creepier than the guy doing the negging.

So, really, the options for the not-hot guy who isn't particularly looking for a friendship are limited no matter what. If there are PSAs for this guy that don't involve involuntary celibacy or negging, I'd enjoy hearing them.

This is just academic for me. I've been married for 20 years. I felt mostly invisible to women in my teens and early twenties and only got some traction when women my age were looking for a stable guy to have a long term relationship with. I had plenty of friends but not a lot of sex. Wondering what I could or should have done differently at that point.

So you're happy just being mercilessly shot down by a woman? That counts as an accomplishment for you?

Wow. I think you need to work on your self esteem...

Being ignored = 0% chance at getting laid.
Negging = 0.5% chance or greater if he's cute, funny, etc.

Also he's right in that the hanger on friend trying to get laid is super creepy. ..

With so many women here saying guys who aren't getting laid are worthless, then what else do you think guys will do?

Absolutely, positively, mind-blowingly pathetic.

Your chances with a woman are.. at best 0.5%?

You must be one ugly, lonely motherfucker.

[Anonymous]

Approach 200 women & you're good.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am not hot. I am male, somewhat extraverted, and had no trouble meeting women (in my single days).

It was not pickup lines. Rather, I would engage them in a quick conversation. I found if I could use my humor, people wanted to spend time with me, because they like to laugh. (even if at my penis).

I did not realize this power until I was about 30. It worked wonders then. And it works today. People remember me, come up to talk to me, and seem to like me. Granted, I am not trying to sleep with them anymore. But still. Humor, not pickup lines.

Dad bods are hot because Jim Gaffigan is funny.

I think I know you. Does your name begin with a K?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

That would require you to give a shit about the opinion of the women who aren't interested.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Approach 200 women & you're good.

Ahahahaha so you strike out 199 times?


This just keeps getting worse. I can't even fathom the levels of humiliation and debasement.

That would require you to give a shit about the opinion of the women who aren't interested.

Aw, but you clearly do. Which is why you study up on ways to get women to pay attention to you.

[Anonymous]

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Approach 200 women & you're good.

It's more like 6 out of 100 when just straight up asking for sex.

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Approach 200 women & you're good.

It's more like 6 out of 100 when just straight up asking for sex.

He's a decent-looking, physically fit, guy. If he was a schlub, the probability would be far worse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Married woman here and I totally agree. People talk all the time about how women change, but never about how men change and become entitled, spoiled whiners who contribute nil except a paycheck (that I don't even need because I work and make good money). If not for the fact that we have a child together, I would have given my lazy, rotten, fat and getting fatter DH the heave ho by now. No woman who is successful and financially independent should ever get married.

Boy, makes me really want to risk half my earnings and 18 years of being domineered by a total bitch by singing up to get married.

PS, you want to get married because you want our money and you want our sperm. Plus you don't want to work.

Awww, poor wittle baby has issues with women. So adorbs.

Also, sperm is cheap. I can walk outside right now and get a ton of different sperm deposits- with ZERO effort on my part.

key phrase: "right now"

Women 18-30ish rule the world, even if they don't know it (it sounds like you do, though, judging by your brazenness). Having the opposite constantly offer themselves to you for sex is such a chore, I know. Fortunately, it doesn't last forever.

I rule the world?! SWEEEEEET!!! I didn't know this. Time to start making some demands

And... no. Women 30 plus can still walk out the door and get sex whenever they want. Fact of biology, sorry bro.

I don't know about that. Sure, it won't be hard to get casual sex from random strangers, but getting anything resembling a long-term relationship with a reasonably attractive, non-gay, non-insane, male around your age who has decent career and/or a life, is more difficult once you get past your mid-30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Married woman here and I totally agree. People talk all the time about how women change, but never about how men change and become entitled, spoiled whiners who contribute nil except a paycheck (that I don't even need because I work and make good money). If not for the fact that we have a child together, I would have given my lazy, rotten, fat and getting fatter DH the heave ho by now. No woman who is successful and financially independent should ever get married.

Boy, makes me really want to risk half my earnings and 18 years of being domineered by a total bitch by singing up to get married.

PS, you want to get married because you want our money and you want our sperm. Plus you don't want to work.

Awww, poor wittle baby has issues with women. So adorbs.

Also, sperm is cheap. I can walk outside right now and get a ton of different sperm deposits- with ZERO effort on my part.

key phrase: "right now"

Women 18-30ish rule the world, even if they don't know it (it sounds like you do, though, judging by your brazenness). Having the opposite constantly offer themselves to you for sex is such a chore, I know. Fortunately, it doesn't last forever.

I rule the world?! SWEEEEEET!!! I didn't know this. Time to start making some demands

And... no. Women 30 plus can still walk out the door and get sex whenever they want. Fact of biology, sorry bro.

I don't know about that. Sure, it won't be hard to get casual sex from random strangers, but getting anything resembling a long-term relationship with a reasonably attractive, non-gay, non-insane, male around your age who has decent career and/or a life, is more difficult once you get past your mid-30s.

And who says I want or will want a long term relationship?

LOL at men thinking all women are desperate for a boyfriend. Keep dreaming bud.

Plenty of women are happy to get laid and have no interest in marriage or a long term setup.

[Anonymous]

Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay all you PUA guys, what do you do if you don't want just a friend and also don't want just a one night stand? Would you neg a woman you wanted to date, or get to know better? Why the rush to have sex by the third date?? DH and I met online dating when I was 31 and he was the second man I went out with; he's a silver fox, intelligent, witty, and makes a solidly middle-class income. We didn't get together because I was young and foxy or because he's rich and full of sperm (I'm infertile so...), we got together because we genuinely enjoyed being together and built a loving, egalitarian, trusting relationship. Our relationship is the envy of my friends, or so they tell me frequently. And he never had to insult me.

They can't even think that far. This are men with serious, genuine social issues, that need to rely on "playbooks" to even have the briefest of interactions with women.

A long term relationship- for them- would be like winning the lottery.

Elliot Rodgers is an excellent example.