Do you regret losing your virginity at the age that you did?

[Anonymous]

Well I am almost 30 and plan to lose mine to a very sexy young doctor whose uncircumcised! in a few weeks

[Anonymous]

My body and mind (and my being an exhibitionist) tell me sex will be better with someone I have deep feelings for. I think it will be good or great because I want to do the nastiest things(due to my deep feelings) to him that i couldn't imagine doing to any other joe. Is that love?

[Anonymous]

My first serious boyfriend was abusive and basically forced sex with me when I was 16. I didn't understand that it was rape and not my fault etc until I finally got some therapy at 21. By then I had a wonderful boyfriend who I wished I could have been less inhibited with, but I was really confused and basically fearful of sex for a long time. I regret it so much and think back on all the other guys who asked me out when I was young, and why oh why couldn't I have chosen one of them instead the awful situation I ended up in. Thankfully the wonderful college boyfriend became a wonderful husband and has been incredibly patient over the years. It wasn't until my 30's that I was finally able to really move on and open up sexually with my husband. I mean, we had sex, but I was so reserved and nervous and inhibited about it. The last few years have been amazing because I finally am trusting enough to let loose and I love and appreciate sex with my husband so much now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My first serious boyfriend was abusive and basically forced sex with me when I was 16. I didn't understand that it was rape and not my fault etc until I finally got some therapy at 21. By then I had a wonderful boyfriend who I wished I could have been less inhibited with, but I was really confused and basically fearful of sex for a long time. I regret it so much and think back on all the other guys who asked me out when I was young, and why oh why couldn't I have chosen one of them instead the awful situation I ended up in. Thankfully the wonderful college boyfriend became a wonderful husband and has been incredibly patient over the years. It wasn't until my 30's that I was finally able to really move on and open up sexually with my husband. I mean, we had sex, but I was so reserved and nervous and inhibited about it. The last few years have been amazing because I finally am trusting enough to let loose and I love and appreciate sex with my husband so much now.

I unfortunately was also sexually abused so I feel the same way. Nice to know that someone can relate to me.

[Anonymous]

Why am in the only one who doesn't really think about my first? It was no big deal. Not great and not traumatic. Just a warm summer night. One of those care free summers one only gets when they are in high school and the summer seems to last forever. regrets? No. I don't put a huge amount of value in virginity...or really sex at all, other than the fact that I still like to fuck.

As a matter of fact my first is a local bartender and I saw him the other night when I went out to eat with my friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why am in the only one who doesn't really think about my first? It was no big deal. Not great and not traumatic. Just a warm summer night. One of those care free summers one only gets when they are in high school and the summer seems to last forever. regrets? No. I don't put a huge amount of value in virginity...or really sex at all, other than the fact that I still like to fuck.

As a matter of fact my first is a local bartender and I saw him the other night when I went out to eat with my friend.

I guess the difference is that my first time had some build up to it. The guy I was with was very much into me, had pursued me for months and had made his feelings for me crystal clear. I felt so loved and accepted by him but he was not the only guy I was seeing - which I also made crystal clear to him. At any rate, one night things just went deeper between the two of us and I knew that I was ready. I just felt like...even if I screw this up and don't do it "right" this first time he is still going to be completely into me. And boy was he. We did become an item afterwards and I did fall in love with him too. So overall it was a pretty big deal in my life even though it didn't last..

[Anonymous]

Regret is not the right word, but I wish it was with someone I knew more than 2 hours. I met her walking from class, we chatted. She needed help in Physics...I offered to tutor her. She spent the night.

But, had I waited for someone I knew longer, I probably would have been almost 30....(for whatever reason, all of my sex before 30 was with people I just met, and I had sex with only two women before I was 29; two times at 20, and once at 22...)