Do you regret losing your virginity at the age that you did?

[Anonymous]

I was a naive 18 year old. I just wanted to mess around with the guy, but he wanted to go all of the way. The same thing with my college ex bf. But then I ended up sowing my wild oats, so I'm glad that I got it out of the way. I met my current bf late 2013 and he's the only guy that I don't regret sleeping with and one of the few guys that never pressured me to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was a naive 18 year old. I just wanted to mess around with the guy, but he wanted to go all of the way. The same thing with my college ex bf. But then I ended up sowing my wild oats, so I'm glad that I got it out of the way. I met my current bf late 2013 and he's the only guy that I don't regret sleeping with and one of the few guys that never pressured me to have sex.

Why were you "naive" in this day and age?

Don't regret losing my virginity -- to the man who would become my husband, and still is 29 years later.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I only wish I had done it sooner... being a 30 something virgin was awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I was a naive 18 year old. I just wanted to mess around with the guy, but he wanted to go all of the way. The same thing with my college ex bf. But then I ended up sowing my wild oats, so I'm glad that I got it out of the way. I met my current bf late 2013 and he's the only guy that I don't regret sleeping with and one of the few guys that never pressured me to have sex.

Why were you "naive" in this day and age?

Don't regret losing my virginity -- to the man who would become my husband, and still is 29 years later.

I grew up in a religious household, sex was never talked about. Never had any dating experience until college. I was an unattractive nerd growing up.

[Anonymous]

I was two months shy of 20 years old. We had been dating a while and were in love; it was great! We dated 6 years.

Not many bfs after that because I'm the type who prefers to be alone or in love (the casual thing it way too scary for me, and just not in my nature). Now been married for 16 years. Wow all my sexual experiences have been very positive; I think it's because I knew the guys well and there were no casual feelings but very romantic ones in all cases before getting that intimate.

[Anonymous]

No. I was 15 1/2. I broke up with him before I went to college because I didn't want to start college tied down. We briefly got back together when I graduated and he wanted to get married, but I knew he wasn't the one. We are still friendly to this day though and I wouldn't change any of my experiences.

[Anonymous]

I was 19 (I HAD waited!) and I was ready. So no regrets.

[Anonymous]

I wish I had done it sooner

[Anonymous]

I was 17, HS boyfriend, don't regret it at all. The first few times weren't great of course (he was a virgin too) but it got better after that. We went off to different colleges and didn't even have a dramatic breakup.

[Anonymous]

I was 19. If I had to do it over again, I would have done it a little sooner & would have slept with more guys while I could. I've only been with 4, including DH.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous[b wrote:]I was two months shy of 20 years ol[/b]d. We had been dating a while and were in love; it was great! We dated 6 years.

Not many bfs after that because I'm the type who prefers to be alone or in love (the casual thing it way too scary for me, and just not in my nature). Now been married for 16 years. Wow all my sexual experiences have been very positive; I think it's because I knew the guys well and there were no casual feelings but very romantic ones in all cases before getting that intimate.

I too refuse to say 19. I always say 6 weeks before my 20th bday.

[Anonymous]

I was 20. I don't regret it for the age. I don't care about the age. But I got played huge and was too naive to realize it. The guy courted (and I mean chased) me for almost 6 months. I thought he was madly in love with me. And I fell hard for him. As soon as we had sex though, he dumped me and moved on. I had NO IDEA that was going to happen. I thought I had a great romance with a great boyfriend. Took me a very long time to trust after that.

[Anonymous]

Yes, 22 year old male who met a very understanding women. Will forever be grateful to her. Chalk it up to adolescent anxiety and poor self image, which perplexed people because I am not a bad looking guy and in very good shape.

[Anonymous]

I was 17, the summer before high school senior year. I have no regrets. I had been with my boyfriend at the time for almost 3 years.

Now, what I do regret was a period of rather wild indiscriminate sex towards the end of college. I shudder now to think of the chances I took with my health and safety. I was fortunate that nothing irrevocably bad happened.

[Anonymous]

I was 19. He was my college boyfriend. We were in Malibu, California visiting a friend of his who attended Pepperdine. The friend left us alone one night to stay with his girlfriend. It really was a perfect time! And fun!