That is your proof? For 3rd graders? LOL! |
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I am not the poster you keep arguing with and antagonizing It is quite simple really. Those kid of kids who are usually on their own and social outcasts at most schools have, at the centers, a peer group of 6-10 kids who are just like them or very similarly quirky. They go from a situation where they are either completely isolated, ignored or bullied at a typical school, to a school where they have not just one friend who is a friend by default, but several friends. Like it or not, there is a disproportionately higher geek factor in the AAP center, that gives the kids who would normally be outcasts a group of friends. It gives these typesf kids the opportunity to develop friendships in a more natural and normal way than they are able to in a typical school where they are all alone at best, or bullied and ostracized at worst. Whether you like AAP centers or hate them, that aspect is by far one of the best things about them. |
Exactly, and the bullies are less likely to pick on kids with friends, who aren't such easy targets. |
You realize you are posting this in a forum that had to be specifically carved out of the VA Schools forum because of the constant drama, right?
Yeah, I think that ship has sailed. |
Maybe your school and your part of the county, but not elsewhere and not to the degree that it happens on this forum. How many AAP centers are in the county? Elementary? Middle School? To read the AAP forum, one would think that there are about two, maybe three AAP middle schools county wide, and maybe 4-6 AAP center elementary schools. According to this forum, ALL of them are full of drama, backstabbing, bullying, mean competitive overstressed kids and crazy out of control tiger parents, and all of them are hated passionately by the entire general ed population. All of them are primarily in one part of the county. There is one elementary that is mentioned here from time to time in a mostly positive light. In fact, I have not seen any drama filled or disparaging posts about that school or between its parents. There are a handful of schools in other parts of the county where parents might post a question about the program and receive 1-6 helpful and courteous responses. None of the schools mentioned occasionally or with only neutral or positive comments are from the part of the county with the schools alluded to above. So no, the AAP program is not a source of constant drama, bitterness and backstabbing. No, it is not this terrible, cut throat program ruining Fairfax County Public Schools. No, most of the general ed population does not hate the AAP population, and no, the AAP kids and parents are not swooping in trying to destroy the lovely neighborhood schools that the county has foisted them on. And no, most of the parents, AAP and non AAP, spend hour after hour obsessing over who was prepped, who was not or who is "truly gifted" and "deserving" of AAP. In fact, other than when the placement decisions come in, AAP is completely off the radar for the majority of parents in Fairfax County. I am very sorry that your school and area is not the way that most of the county is. It must be a very stressful way to live to have that much vitrol and drama over an elementary school program and placement decision that may or may not affect your child. |
+100000 FABULOUS post! |
| I have heard that many parents now bypass the GBW area in Chantilly and look further west in Loudoun County, because GBW is viewed as a school that's run for the benefit of Asian kids in AAP. If the AAP program were smaller, some people might think the school had more to offer their GenEd children. |
| The solution doesn't have to be black or white. I am a big supporter of center schools for all of the reasons mentioned before, but at some point there comes a point of diminishing returns when overcrowding becomes too much. In my opinion, LLIV elementary schools that feed into significantly overcrowded centers should be designated as "one school centers" if the LLIV has a significant population of AAP eligible students (i.e. enough to fill 2 classrooms per grade)(e.g. schools like Wolftrap). I know no one wants to subject their child to an unknown-quality center when they have a historically-proven high-quality center as an option, but I'm sure folks at the overcrowded centers can attest that the quality dimishes with each passing year as the classes swell. |
This is EXACTLY what happened in our Local Level IV. |
Wolftrap typically has one full AAP class. One year they had enough to make 1.5 classrooms. There are very few transfers to Louise Archer. |
This has not been my experience. |
+1000 I like this idea and think this is also the one favored by much of the school board. There is no justification for busing students to a center when they have a critical mass of peers at their base school, particularly when the center is already overcrowded with AAP students outnumbering base school kids 2 to 1. Making qualified local schools "one school centers," would also spread the wealth around a bit, alleviating the other problem with centers -- if you build them people will come and they will specifically move to the neighborhood of a center and then devote their lives to doing everything they can to make sure all their kids get into AAP. This has also significantly contributed to overcrowding. Yes, LLIV schools have their own issues as PPs have noted, but they also have an advantage because everyone is a neighborhood student. Students come into the school and their families are already part of the local community. They live near each other, send their kids to the same preschools, belong to the same local pools or health clubs, shop at the same stores. They all have an interest in seeing the school flourish even when their kids haven't started or are no longer there. It's not like a center where you have a cohort of families with no connection to the school/area being bused in to get a superior, segregated education often to the detriment of local students. When my son attended a well-regarded center a few years back, his curriculum was great, but I was really taken aback at how out for themselves so many of the parents were. To them the center was more of a stepping stone than school -- a place where their kid was going to get his. I think it's more difficult to cop that kind of an attitude when you're in your local neighborhood and have to face these people. |
Do you mean it is not your child's experience or are you a student posting? Are you saying that your awkward child has no similarly bright but awkward friends in AAP or are you saying that you can't think of six or so kids in a given AAP grade that slower socially, geeky, twice exceptional or socially challenged in spite of their brightness. Because I am the poster you are responding to and I can think of a dozen kids off the top of my head in my kids aap grade who fall into that categorh. AAP has been very good for them. Mostly boys and two girls. |
Excellent post. This is exactly why the change will not be a big deal. The vast majority of kids will move from the centers back to their base schools, receive LLIV services, and see their neighborhood friends again, all without any drama. The usual complainers will complain, but it's just their mission to be unhappy and claim that the world will end. After a few years, no one will even remember that centers existed, and the world will continue to spin on its axis. |
But in our area, all of the feeder schools and the center school are within a five minute drive of each other. All of the kids and families already know each other through sports, the pool, church, neighborhood activities. The center school feels like just as much of a neighborhood school to us as does our actual neighborhood school. |