How to feel about wife going dancing / clubing

[Anonymous]

It's probably only dangerous if she drinks a lot when she goes. Also, it depends on the kind of friends she has (are they good family women or bad influences).

I've definitely met married women while out as a single guy who were not interested in hooking up with guys and who respected their husbands. I've also met some who were out for cock.

[Anonymous]

My wife goes dancing/clubbing quite often. But then again her and I have an agreement that allows her to be sexual with other men. If we didn't have this agreement and I wasn't ok with her being sexually active with others I would have a huge problem with her doing it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife goes dancing/clubbing quite often. But then again her and I have an agreement that allows her to be sexual with other men. If we didn't have this agreement and I wasn't ok with her being sexually active with others I would have a huge problem with her doing it.

Ok, and what do you get out of this agreement, besides a possible STD?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on your relationship. When I went out without DH, it was to have girl fun and dance. But we both knew our relationship was strong. OTOH, I had a friend whose marriage was on the rocks, and her outlet was to go clubbing and make out with guys, grind on them, etc. She did end up having at least 2 affairs I know of with guys she met in clubs.

No. According to the feminazis in this thread, the story you told about your friend is either a blatant lie or a "one in a million" thing and men are simply insecure.

[Anonymous]

Dude, get some help

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It really depends on your relationship. When I went out without DH, it was to have girl fun and dance. But we both knew our relationship was strong. OTOH, I had a friend whose marriage was on the rocks, and her outlet was to go clubbing and make out with guys, grind on them, etc. She did end up having at least 2 affairs I know of with guys she met in clubs.

No. According to the feminazis in this thread, the story you told about your friend is either a blatant lie or a "one in a million" thing and men are simply insecure.

The world is much easier to understand if you can see something other than extremes. The argument was that's not what some, or most women are doing when they go to a club. Of course it happens, but every husband shouldn't freak or go running to divorce court because she had girls night.

[Anonymous]

If your wife is going out with the girls, there's a good chance that you will get laid, if you play it right. First, understand that she can love you and need occasional independent affirmation that she is desirable. It's all about the flattery. Reconcile those two notions in your head. So, here's what you do. Clean the kitchen and straighten up around the house. Take a shower. Put on something clean and casual, but neat. Dim the lights. Go get a book and keep it next to you on the couch. Next, watch sports on TV or porn on your ipad... or whatever you want to do until you hear her coming home. Then, turn it off and put the book on your chest and fake sleep. When she comes over to give you a kiss and climb on your lap, all that you say is, did you have fun? I hope you had fun. If she tells you more, listen and tell her you like to see her go out and have fun. If she tells you anything about the men she danced with, she will emphasize how funny it was. You should also find it funny... and fun. You are confident and supportive and you also enjoy the fun things in life.
Even if she had a great time out dancing, she will be relieved to see the real thing at home waiting for her you after seeing all the BS in the club. And you, brother, will get anything you want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If your wife is going out with the girls, there's a good chance that you will get laid, if you play it right. First, understand that she can love you and need occasional independent affirmation that she is desirable. It's all about the flattery. Reconcile those two notions in your head. So, here's what you do. Clean the kitchen and straighten up around the house. Take a shower. Put on something clean and casual, but neat. Dim the lights. Go get a book and keep it next to you on the couch. Next, watch sports on TV or porn on your ipad... or whatever you want to do until you hear her coming home. Then, turn it off and put the book on your chest and fake sleep. When she comes over to give you a kiss and climb on your lap, all that you say is, did you have fun? I hope you had fun. If she tells you more, listen and tell her you like to see her go out and have fun. If she tells you anything about the men she danced with, she will emphasize how funny it was. You should also find it funny... and fun. You are confident and supportive and you also enjoy the fun things in life.
Even if she had a great time out dancing, she will be relieved to see the real thing at home waiting for her you after seeing all the BS in the club. And you, brother, will get anything you want.

+1000. Another guy here. And don't forget to tell her how hot she looked too. Then ravish her and enjoy the ride!

[Anonymous]

Or, you know, it could be some combination of:
1. "My stomach hurts."
2. "I'm too tired."
3. "It's late and we have to get up early."

[Anonymous]

"No. Don't lick me there. You might taste...."

[Anonymous]

You are so hateful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"No. Don't lick me there. You might taste...."

"...my sewer ass."
"...salsa and nachos I dropped in my lap."
"...dust."
"...goat cheese and balsamic vinegerette."
"...duck feathers."
"...a Bradford pear tree."