My kids were hardworking and smart in school. They did not need TJ to boost their self-esteem. |
TJ kids do not attend TJ to boost their self esteem. They attend TJ to take advantage of the advanced classes, outstanding teachers, intellectually engaged peers and facilities. They attend school to actually learn for a change. Is that so hard to understand? |
It's not racist if white students don't like or particularly admire certain kids gunning for or attending TJ, and the latter mostly happen to be Asian. And applications to TJ are down across all ethnic groups, including Asians. TJ simply is not as coveted as it used to be. By way of comparison, the percentage of students now admitted to TJ has increased to about the same admission rate as, for example, Washington U or Vanderbilt. It's selective, but it's certainly much harder to get into Stanford or an Ivy than TJ. |
So what? That proves nothing. This thread is really insulting to a lot of kids -- like my own white male -- who have always worked hard, from K through 8th grade ... not because of TJ or Langley or a Big 3 (another option we had because of DS's hard work) and defeated 90% odds against him to get into TJ. Did you go to the new admission orientation tonight? No, I suppose not. Nor did I. Trusted my son to go and make his own decisions. And he came home totally excited about TJ learning, sports, clubs, languages, teachers, and his peers. Including the Asian students. Don't some of the parental units on this thread realize we have (thank goodness and despite parental phobias) raised a generation that is largely color and race blind? |
Oh and BTW, TJ is very transparent about Ivy acceptance rates. It's roughly 25%. But only about 11% accept the invitation. They are also transparent about why - $$$. About half of TJ goes in-Commonwealth. So think about the real economics these families face before you go insulting these kids as if they've all spent tons of money to get into TJ. |
Frankly, the insults work both ways on this thread. |
I wish people would do a little fact checking before they post. 2017 http://www.fcps.edu/cco/pr/tj/tjadmissions0413.pdf 2018 http://www.fcps.edu/cco/pr/tj/tjadmissions0412.pdf Number of Asian applicants have INCREASED |
The cluelessness and vitriol on this board is ridiculous. To call someone lazy and entitled because they don't want to drive themselves crazy with a long driving commute each morning in an area where traffic congestion gets worse by the day is just silly. Although it is urbanizing, Northern Virginia is not a city. What many people forget is that some families have lived here for years and can remember when the commute wasn't so bad and everyone didn't act like you were crazy if you had a smart kid who didn't go to TJ. Things have changed quite a bit even in the last 4 years. And some people weighing the options have decided that TJ isn't worth the tradeoffs, or they'd rather go to a neighborhood school. So what? Given it's competitiveness, seems like TJ fans would be happy to have less competition for entrance, not need to attack people for not wanting what they want. Secondly, I'm very familiar with Stuyvesant since I lived in NYC and a good friend went there. Commuting comparisons with TJ are like comparing apples to oranges. It's a lot easier to take a subway even if you have to switch trains than get in a car and fight traffic. As you said, thousands of kids do it everyday with no problem -- the subways aren't scary and are typically much faster than the driving around here at rush hour. I'd feel much better putting my kid on a subway any day. The great thing about this county is that there are a lot of great educational options. Why can't we be happy about that instead of putting down anyone who doesn't want the same thing? Life is a long road and high school is just a stop along the way. It can be life-changing for some, a best-forgotten blip for others, but it rarely determines the outcome of a life. It's funny because as smart, geeky kids my friends and I used to make fun of jocks and cool kids who acted like success in high school was the be-all and end-all. And yet, the way some parents talk about TJ, you'd think today's brainiacs had bought into the same BMIHS (big man in high school) mentality. Just stop. Encourage your kids to use their gifts wherever they go and realize that there's enough success to go around. I've lived and worked all over the world think few things are sadder than a grown-up talking about where he went to college (typically, Harvard) or god forbid, high school. It's usually a sign that that's when their life peaked. |
Yes, the real economics for the 6 FARMs kids who made it are tough. |
Congratulations for your son getting in. Also, thanks for your voice of reason. Regardless of the demographics and TJ haters, few things are clear about TJ: 1) They have great teachers. Not all of them obviously but most are competent and many gave up lucrative private sector careers to become teachers there and many stay for decades and retire at TJ, 2) Most of the students are very bright. Not all of them are brilliant in all things but most students are brilliant in 1 or 2 areas (e.g. latin, programming, instrument, writing, poetry, Rubik's cube, chess etc.), 3) They have more than 170 academic teams and clubs and they are all open to all of the students, 4) Very active sport teams and teams are not centered around few "superstars" like some other schools, 5) Soon, they will have the state of the art research labs which were funded separately and newly renovated building for all of the class rooms, library, computer lab etc., 6)Graduates come out with confidence knowing they survived a very rigorous academic program and usually end up in the top 10% of the colleges thy attend whether HYPSM or UVA (which helps with getting into Graduate School or Professional School) and finally, 7) There is a trust between the students and the administrators/teachers (e.g. no bells, lunch anytime, anywhere, no hall passes, no harassment for being few minutes late to class etc.) which is rare. There should be more schools like this for the good of the region/state and for good of the country. |
Are you saying every family that isn't FARMS can afford Ivy tuition? Get real. And educate yourself about the many ways TJ parents, teachers, and students participate in outreach to schools to inspire kids on a track that might get them on an advanced academic track, including TJ. This isn't discrimination by people at TJ. |
Bingo. With 50% going in-Commonwealth from TJ, the competitive advantage is smaller than one might think. |
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With 25% accepted to Ivies that's pretty strong. |
Indeed. Perhaps next time you won't try to pass off Class of 2016 information as relating to the Class of 2018. Applications from Asian students are down. http://www.fcps.edu/cco/pr/tj/tjadmissions0414.pdf |