Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not at my house. You cheat you be homeless, wifeless, most likely poverty stricken.

And missing a few key body parts!!!

Looking forward to dinner at Chez Bobbitt!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?

It possibly can but not from a energetic standpoint - more so from a "Deep-guilty-feeling-damn-I-gotta-be-on-my-P's-and-Q's-to-look-at-my-spouse-in-the-mirror-again" standpoint.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For those who say that having an affair is breaking one's marriage vows, isn't the very act of getting a divorce also breaking the vows?

A couple marries for better or for worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer ....... as long as they shall live. So what justification is there for getting divorce assuming that one's marriage vows are sacrosanct?

Your statement makes no sense.

IF you cheat and break the vows, they are broken. How can divorce break a vow that's already broken?