Can a little cheating actually SAVE a marriage?

[Anonymous]

Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?

[Anonymous]

Because the way to put the zing in someone's life is to stab them in the back.

[Anonymous]

How? the energizing is with someone else? Unless you are comparing it to a cheat day on a diet which allows you to stay the course--I guess? But it seems like there may be better options out there.

[Anonymous]

Nice try.

[Anonymous]

It didn't work for my ex -- even when he so kindly explained to me that he was only cheating to save our marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It didn't work for my ex -- even when he so kindly explained to me that he was only cheating to save our marriage.

Snrk.

[Anonymous]

Not at my house. You cheat you be homeless, wifeless, most likely poverty stricken.

[Anonymous]

I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?

Great rationalization, until you unwittingly pass along an STD to your spouse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.

Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Things get stale, you see each other everyday, work, family etc. Can't an unknown tryst every 5 to 10 years or so energize everyone and jumpstart a floundering marriage?

Great rationalization, until you unwittingly pass along an STD to your spouse.

+1! Get tested and start using condoms!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.

Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.

Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.

Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.

Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.

Then get a divorce, coward. Try to face life without your security blanket of a wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do and DW will never find out. It has worked wonders for our relationship.

Yes she will and she and the kids will hate you, you weasel.

You're also a coward, or as Dan Savage would say, a CPOS.

Been doing so for the best part of ten years. So when I say she will not find out, I know she will not.

Like it or not, it helps our marriage. I'd probably not stay married if I did not do so.

Then get a divorce, coward. Try to face life without your security blanket of a wife.

You are an idiot. Our marriage is intact, our children have parents who are together and happy. So it would be better for them to have a broken home?

[Anonymous]

i don't think so, but I do enjoy fantasizing about it.