Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

Is your husband friends with both of the men in play? Maybe let the men take care of it. This way your hands are clean?

[Anonymous]

Please be absolutely sure you're not wrong about this. If you're just a bored, has-nothing-better-to-do woman--tread carefully. I have a next door neighbor that is male and I'm female. Our spouses know each other. One of our kids is the same age. On some days, the neighbors husband is off and I'm home as well. He works shifts so his schedule is unusual. If my child is outside playing in our front yard, the other child will say hi and come over. The same thing happens when their child is outside. There have been many times when I'm home and we have hung out together while our spouses weren't home. I, too, have gone inside their home and we've let the kids play. We've even had a beer together while talking. We talk about work, weather, the neighborhood, our kids, news, etc. Most of the time we're outside with the kids in the front or backyard. We have NEVER touched or been inappropriate with each other. We don't go there. I could see how someone could misinterpret our conversations outside. Our kids have fun together and so we have something in common. You haven't posted HOW you know there is an affair going on so please don't drop any kind of bomb on a pregnant woman unless you absolutely know for sure. I can't imagine the pain she'll feel.

[Anonymous]

This poor woman. I feel for her. I do agree with previous posters, it's just not your place & a lot of people stand to be really hurt. I think it's safest to stay out of it. If these two people are having a, from the sounds of it, not very discreet affair I am sure she knows about it. She's dealing with it in her own way. I do not think that's it is wise to stir up trouble.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: Please be absolutely sure you're not wrong about this. If you're just a bored, has-nothing-better-to-do woman--tread carefully. I have a next door neighbor that is male and I'm female. Our spouses know each other. One of our kids is the same age. On some days, the neighbors husband is off and I'm home as well. He works shifts so his schedule is unusual. If my child is outside playing in our front yard, the other child will say hi and come over. The same thing happens when their child is outside. There have been many times when I'm home and we have hung out together while our spouses weren't home. I, too, have gone inside their home and we've let the kids play. We've even had a beer together while talking. We talk about work, weather, the neighborhood, our kids, news, etc. Most of the time we're outside with the kids in the front or backyard. We have NEVER touched or been inappropriate with each other. We don't go there. I could see how someone could misinterpret our conversations outside. Our kids have fun together and so we have something in common. You haven't posted HOW you know there is an affair going on so please don't drop any kind of bomb on a pregnant woman unless you absolutely know for sure. I can't imagine the pain she'll feel.

OPs husband has photo proof, I'm assuming its of the neighbors making out. No one thinks someone sitting on a patio having a beer is cheating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

actually there was a point to my house being expensive I am not bragging. My point is that I cant just up & sell it.

Because if you had a moderately-priced house, you would sell it immediately because your neighbors are having an affair???? Do you realize how little sense that makes?

OP is a bored idiot. Her husband is a voyeur. Taking a picture surreptitiously is very shady. Why would a decent person do that. Maybe he is thinking of blackmailing these people? Both OP and her DH seem to be a nasty piece of work.

[Anonymous]

Would u want 1 of ur neighbors to point out that they KNOW your husband is cheating on u? How humiliating. I would rather not be told.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure the OP has the pregnant woman's best interests in mind. That being said, i think that it is in everyones best interests to leave the situation alone. i am sure it will resolve itself with out anyones assistance

[Anonymous]

I would much rather someone tell me (as humiliating as it would be, and I agree it would be bad) than have the entire neighborhood talking about me behind my back. Now that is humilating. And this pregnant woman is socializing with the "other woman" every night? You don't think that is humiliating? I would never forgive anyone who didn't tell me. A true friend would tell. No one will think badly of the pregnant woman and she has nothing to be embarrassed about - except for really bad taste in husbands/friends. The cheaters are the ones who are going to be embarrassed! Pregnant lady will be laughing all the way to the bank in the divorce settlement. Hopefully she can make some new friends !

[Anonymous]

Something like this actually happened in my neighborhood. It was not good. Two divorces, two homes on the market, everyone in the neighborhood who might have suspected an affair, there thoughts were confirmed. The neighborhood was never the same, it was really bad. I would think long and hard about this before you say anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:this has gotten really crazy and I think this is going on in my neighborhood in which case I know which two people are involved and it's horrible! Is this in Burgundy Woods?

I'm not the OP or the cheaters but I'm your neighbor too and I want to vomit whenever I see the cheating mom out with her kid and husband acting all loving. And yes she's 100% cheating with the neighbor I've seen them kissing and him leaving her house at 3am when her husband is out of town on business.

3 am? Are you stalking your neighbor?

[Anonymous]

OP, it is not right for you to tell so you can unburden yourself. You would be doing it for YOU. You don't know for sure what the pregnant woman would prefer and how she would react.

[Anonymous]

What a tough position to be in, if i were u i would think & pray on it. Do many people stand to be hurt. Perhaps this will all resolve itself. As guilty as ur conscience feels now, i do not know if u could with the fall out from this. It would be ur involvement that started the dominos.

[Anonymous]

Primrose park?

[Anonymous]

Lmao. I can't believe all the posters are hating on OP, saying she's going to break up a marriage and is horrible. ....are you fucking kidding me??? OP isn't the one stepping out like her two loser pig neighbors. Bunch of cheating asses on here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lmao. I can't believe all the posters are hating on OP, saying she's going to break up a marriage and is horrible. ....are you fucking kidding me??? OP isn't the one stepping out like her two loser pig neighbors. Bunch of cheating asses on here.

Cheating ass or night, I sure as hell don't want to find out from my GD nosey neighbor.