Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

I am not here to defend the op. I just think it's crazy that people aren't condemning the cheating parties and instead are berating the op. Should she mind her business? I don't know. I don't know how close she is to the parties being cheated on.

What about this scenario........ Pregnant wife founds out on her own by catching husband. She ends her marriage wife husband. She goes to op because she is friendly with her neighbor. She is talking to op and says "I wish somebody had told me sooner that my husband was a no good cheat, I can't believe I couldn't see it sooner"

What then? I think people are being rather harsh on the op, from reading her posts she is asking for help because she is in an uncomfortable situation.

Just saying

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

I am not here to defend the op. I just think it's crazy that people aren't condemning the cheating parties and instead are berating the op. Should she mind her business? I don't know. I don't know how close she is to the parties being cheated on.

What about this scenario........ Pregnant wife founds out on her own by catching husband. She ends her marriage wife husband. She goes to op because she is friendly with her neighbor. She is talking to op and says "I wish somebody had told me sooner that my husband was a no good cheat, I can't believe I couldn't see it sooner"

What then? I think people are being rather harsh on the op, from reading her posts she is asking for help because she is in an uncomfortable situation.

Just saying

I do not condone the cheating - I hope the spouses get what they deserve! We are talking about OP blowing the whistle. I bolded the part of your comment because that relationship is not close enough for ME to approach the pregant wife. If she were a close friend or a relative who I know how all parties will react - yes. But a neighbor that I am just friendly with - nope. I feel bad for the lady but my priority is not to subject my family to any unecessary risk or drama. Sure, it is an uncomfortable situation. It sucks! But OP needs to think about the consequences to her own family first!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

I am not here to defend the op. I just think it's crazy that people aren't condemning the cheating parties and instead are berating the op. Should she mind her business? I don't know. I don't know how close she is to the parties being cheated on.

What about this scenario........ Pregnant wife founds out on her own by catching husband. She ends her marriage wife husband. She goes to op because she is friendly with her neighbor. She is talking to op and says "I wish somebody had told me sooner that my husband was a no good cheat, I can't believe I couldn't see it sooner"

What then? I think people are being rather harsh on the op, from reading her posts she is asking for help because she is in an uncomfortable situation.

Just saying

Please if the pregnant wife and the OP were even remotely that close the cat would be out of the bag already. I'd wager that the two barely speak to one another outside of cordial pleasantries in passing. No that hypothetical scenario is a movie on Lifetime not this circumstance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are the cheating parties or the cheated on spouses related to OP?

No?

Then OP should mind her own business.

And if OP cannot mind her own business, then maybe OP needs to be laid. Maybe she not getting any. Has anyone thought of that?

I am not here to defend the op. I just think it's crazy that people aren't condemning the cheating parties and instead are berating the op. Should she mind her business? I don't know. I don't know how close she is to the parties being cheated on.

What about this scenario........ Pregnant wife founds out on her own by catching husband. She ends her marriage wife husband. She goes to op because she is friendly with her neighbor. She is talking to op and says "I wish somebody had told me sooner that my husband was a no good cheat, I can't believe I couldn't see it sooner"

What then? I think people are being rather harsh on the op, from reading her posts she is asking for help because she is in an uncomfortable situation.

Just saying

The issue that i would have with the OP is that she shared her news with the other neighbors before telling the pregnant wife.

If the OP was a true friend.. They would have been more discrete with the information.

[Anonymous]

You guys realize that 2 pages ago, the OP was talking about how she and her friends were gossiping together about this situation and how she plans to tell the pregnant woman, but to wait 6 weeks or so to minimize the impact. As if it's easier to find out that your husband is cheating on you with a one month old baby than it is while you're still pregnant.

The OP is a meddling busybody who has been gossiping with her husband and friends about other people's tragedy.

[Anonymous]

OP needs a life and her husband needs a second job. Obviously she's got no outside interests besides spreading the latest updates of her neighbors personal business and he's not making enough to afford cable so she can have more channels to surf through to search for entertainment instead of having to spend her days/nights staring out the window looking for evidence of infidelity in others' marriages.

[Anonymous]

What I find very odd about this thread is that many of the posts against the OP are posted shortly after each other. It would seem as thought it is the same poster posting multiple times. Many of these posts are very harsh towards the OP, as if to intimidate them from exposing the cheaters. The previous 5 posts are against the OP and were posted at 17:15, 17:17, 17:22, 17:37, 17:50. 5 more negative posts were made at 16:47, 16:51, 16:54, 16:57, 16:59.

I wonder if one of the cheaters, or a friend of one of the cheaters, has found the thread and are posting multiple negative responses.

[Anonymous]

I still think it's bizarre that the Op's husband just happened to be looking out the window at the right time and just happened to have a camera in hand...which he just happened to use to take compromising pics of these cheaters. Now Op and her girlfriends are tsk, tsk, tsking over this tawdry situation (maybe passing around those pics?) and trying to decide when the best time is to drop the bomb on the poor, wronged, pregnant wife.

Lifetime Drama. Desperate Housewives episode.

[Anonymous]

This is more like an episode of World's Dumbest Cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Or worlds nosiest neighbors

[Anonymous]

Im the OP & I have no new updates of consequence. Baby was born so pregnant wife isnt pregnant anymore. The 2 families arent as chummy lately so either it's because of the baby or someone has told the husband of the cheating wife. I dont think the new mom knows yet. I will tell her in a few weeks when things calm down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im the OP & I have no new updates of consequence. Baby was born so pregnant wife isnt pregnant anymore. The 2 families arent as chummy lately so either it's because of the baby or someone has told the husband of the cheating wife. I dont think the new mom knows yet. I will tell her in a few weeks when things calm down.

Since I have posted a couple of responses on this thread, giving you, the op, the benefit of the doubt. I would like to have you clarify what you our your husband saw outside your window with the cheating husband and wife.

Lots of people are calling you a busybody and should mind your business. I tend to disagree, if two neighbors are out in the open performing an appropriate act, "cheating," that is not your fault. People say why are you spying and have a camera ready. Obviously this isn't like Bigfoot where it's a chance in counter. I assume this act went on for quite a while.

I would just suggest you defend your position a bit, not asking for all details, just the details that would state your case.

As far as going to the pregnant wife that is your prerogative. That is for you to decide. If you feel close enough to her that you think that she has the right to know that so be it. But other wise I don't think you owe it to anybody and should let the situation run it's course. If it's a friend help her out and enlighten her. If she is just a neighbor or acquaintance she might dispose you for it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Im the OP & I have no new updates of consequence. Baby was born so pregnant wife isnt pregnant anymore. The 2 families arent as chummy lately so either it's because of the baby or someone has told the husband of the cheating wife. I dont think the new mom knows yet. I will tell her in a few weeks when things calm down.

You've already told everyone else in the whole neighborhood why wait?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What I find very odd about this thread is that many of the posts against the OP are posted shortly after each other. It would seem as thought it is the same poster posting multiple times. Many of these posts are very harsh towards the OP, as if to intimidate them from exposing the cheaters. The previous 5 posts are against the OP and were posted at 17:15, 17:17, 17:22, 17:37, 17:50. 5 more negative posts were made at 16:47, 16:51, 16:54, 16:57, 16:59.

I wonder if one of the cheaters, or a friend of one of the cheaters, has found the thread and are posting multiple negative responses.

Good job Matlock - a couple of the posts are mine. LOL I do not know the OP and I am not cheating on my sposue. I just strongly think that OP should MYOB. I have seen some serious drama arise out of situations like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Im the OP & I have no new updates of consequence. Baby was born so pregnant wife isnt pregnant anymore. The 2 families arent as chummy lately so either it's because of the baby or someone has told the husband of the cheating wife. I dont think the new mom knows yet. I will tell her in a few weeks when things calm down.

You've already told everyone else in the whole neighborhood why wait?

How does she know the neighbors that she told won't beat her to the punch and spill the beans?