Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I still think it's bizarre that the Op's husband just happened to be looking out the window at the right time and just happened to have a camera in hand...which he just happened to use to take compromising pics of these cheaters. Now Op and her girlfriends are tsk, tsk, tsking over this tawdry situation (maybe passing around those pics?) and trying to decide when the best time is to drop the bomb on the poor, wronged, pregnant wife.

Lifetime Drama. Desperate Housewives episode.

probably took a photo on his cell phone

Why does that even matter...the dude apparently watched and took a picture of these people going at it . Why would somebody do that?

[Anonymous]

Send the wife a note.

--Cheated on spouse that would have appreciated it

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Send the wife a note.

--Cheated on spouse that would have appreciated it

That would have been W-A-Y kinder than all of this whispering being done behind this poor woman's back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Send the wife a note.

--Cheated on spouse that would have appreciated it

That would have been W-A-Y kinder than all of this whispering being done behind this poor woman's back.

But...the OP is the kind of person who gets off on other people's misery. She has shared the whole sordid drama with the entire neighborhood and on this forum. She is just a first-rate bitch.

[Anonymous]

OP, I was in the MYOB camp initially but at least truly understood your dilemma. But now it seems that you've essentially got what you wanted, that the offending families arent hanging out anymore and by your own admission, one or both families may already know. Even more reason to now stay out of it completely! So many things could have now changed behind closed doors.
If you decide to still say something, at least take whatever steps you can to protect your family. If the DH has any violent tendencies and God forbid a gun, as people on this forum have mentioned, you could seriously be putting your family at risk. Please be careful.

[Anonymous]

Any updates? Another neighbor here. I think the wives are becoming chummy again!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I still think it's bizarre that the Op's husband just happened to be looking out the window at the right time and just happened to have a camera in hand...which he just happened to use to take compromising pics of these cheaters. Now Op and her girlfriends are tsk, tsk, tsking over this tawdry situation (maybe passing around those pics?) and trying to decide when the best time is to drop the bomb on the poor, wronged, pregnant wife.

Lifetime Drama. Desperate Housewives episode.

probably took a photo on his cell phone

If so, it should be posted here. Would beat the endless photos of Pimmit Hills houses with a stick.

[Anonymous]

mind your own f*&&in business really! being friendly neighbors doesn't give you the right to intervene in other people's lives. pay attention to what's going on under your own roof

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What I find very odd about this thread is that many of the posts against the OP are posted shortly after each other. It would seem as thought it is the same poster posting multiple times. Many of these posts are very harsh towards the OP, as if to intimidate them from exposing the cheaters. The previous 5 posts are against the OP and were posted at 17:15, 17:17, 17:22, 17:37, 17:50. 5 more negative posts were made at 16:47, 16:51, 16:54, 16:57, 16:59.

I wonder if one of the cheaters, or a friend of one of the cheaters, has found the thread and are posting multiple negative responses.

+1. I noticed this too. I'm pretty sure it's the same poster who keeps posting things calling the OP "nasty," "nasty b*tch," and spewing all sorts of hateful things then adding "hahaha" and smiley faces. She has a very distinctive tone and writing style. If she's not the cheater in question, then I bet she's a cheater in some other neighborhood. There are multiple posts from the same person on here for sure.

OP, I understand your dilemma completely. I would stay out of it for a lot of reasons, though I agree with some of your instincts. If anything, it seems it would be better to deal with the cheaters rather than the poor pregnant wife/mom of a newborn. Your intentions are probably good, and the cheaters are 100% in the wrong, but I don't think it's your place. Be careful. This will devastate the cheated-upon spouses.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the OP has the pregnant woman's best interests in mind. That being said, i think that it is in everyones best interests to leave the situation alone. i am sure it will resolve itself with out anyones assistance

+1.

[Anonymous]

Is this still happening? I am looking at a house for sale in this neighborhood and was shocked to hear about all of the concerns with the neighbors. Is this for real?