Married neighbors having an affair

[Anonymous]

I live in a new construction neighborhood where everyone moved in at the same time a little over a year ago & are all very friendly and socialize constantly. Especially the couples w/no kids or small kids. My husband saw, at least twice, that the husband of one of the couples is sexually involved with the wife of another couple. As crazy as this sounds they have behaved intimately outside, that is how my husband saw. Who knows what's happening behind closed doors.

If I didn't know everyone well I would think maybe it is an open marriage but that is not what is going on. Lots of little things are starting to add up now. It is clear to us that these 2 are cheating on their spouses (and the spouses are really good people, the wife who is being cheated on is about to have her 1st baby any day).

Stay out of it right? I feel sick every time I see any of them. Especially the pregnant lady. It just feels wrong to know.

[Anonymous]

Don't get involved.

[Anonymous]

What did you see exactly?

[Anonymous]

Do not get involved

[Anonymous]

Were the having s** outside? I am confused because you are saying "who knows what's happening behind closed doors" - which makes me think that they were not having s** outside.

This is none of your business. You are right, you need to stay out of this. And you should not talk about it to any other neighbors and act with politeness towards the people involved (if you don't want to be friends with them).

If you gossip about them, it will get back to them and in the end you will get sucked into a lot of unpleasantness.

Do the classy thing - MYOB!

[Anonymous]

It's not your business, turn the other way and if you feel the need give the pregnant lady help and support but by no means even hint that her husband is involved with someone else.

[Anonymous]

I'd mind my own business and stay away from both couples. Sorry that the innocent spouses will get the brush off they don't deserve but MYOB and just be polite. Do not become good friends with these people. You are only asking for it if you do.

[Anonymous]

You can send the wife an anonymous note. Someone did this during school to the wife of one of the professors (so I heard). I don't know if this seems incredibly cowardly, but I do understand your discomfort whenever you see the cheated-on spouse. Like you are in on it, somehow. Ugh. I would personally just stay out of it, including avoiding situations where I might run into the cheaters' spouses--too awkward.

[Anonymous]

I dont want to get into specifics about what was seen but they are having an affair and it was obvious.

I am going to mind my own business. You all are right.

[Anonymous]

Stay out of it. But if they're having sex in public, you can call the police (non-emergency number) for lewdness.

Otherwise, I would keep your distance and just go on with your own life.

[Anonymous]

Post it to the list serve

[Anonymous]

You sound bored as f*ck with nothing better to do. It could be nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I live in a new construction neighborhood where everyone moved in at the same time a little over a year ago & are all very friendly and socialize constantly. Especially the couples w/no kids or small kids. My husband saw, at least twice, that the husband of one of the couples is sexually involved with the wife of another couple. As crazy as this sounds they have behaved intimately outside, that is how my husband saw. Who knows what's happening behind closed doors.

If I didn't know everyone well I would think maybe it is an open marriage but that is not what is going on. Lots of little things are starting to add up now. It is clear to us that these 2 are cheating on their spouses (and the spouses are really good people, the wife who is being cheated on is about to have her 1st baby any day).

Stay out of it right? I feel sick every time I see any of them. Especially the pregnant lady. It just feels wrong to know.

MYOB...

[Anonymous]

OP is an intrusive idiot with no life - GET ONE AND MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You can send the wife an anonymous note. Someone did this during school to the wife of one of the professors (so I heard). I don't know if this seems incredibly cowardly, but I do understand your discomfort whenever you see the cheated-on spouse. Like you are in on it, somehow. Ugh. I would personally just stay out of it, including avoiding situations where I might run into the cheaters' spouses--too awkward.

That's malicious. Do not do it. Geez why can't people mind their own business?