are you sure? so many women say they want the 'nice guy' but seem to always end up sleeping with and sucking the cocks of the jerks and assholes
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| Caveman here. I know the above to very true |
Do you think he'd hate women so much if he was getting laid more often? |
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Lol. Strangely, my girlfriend loves that I'm, as she says, "kinda jerky" with her. She likes that I'm dominant, self centered and demanding.
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Yes, but you don't hate women like the sexist poster. |
I love women. I love them a lot. And the love me. What women think and say they want isn't want they really want. Our brains are 10% active control and 90% reactionary. I appeal to the 90%. |
| I can't fuck someone I don't respect. I've tried to regain that respect with someone who was great in bed. It just isn't possible. |
Life isn't a rom-com. Some women are foolish in their choice of mates, either they choose a schlub they're not fully attracted to because he'd be a good husband (and then get bored), or they cycle through a string of cute/artistic/whatever jerks. Then again, men keep going after Manic Pixie Dream Girls, Silicone Girls, etc. Modern marriage also seems to be more encompassing than marriage back in the day -- back then it was fine for women to have their girl stuff and for guys to have their guy stuff (e.g. the clubs in Upstairs Downstairs, the Moose/Elks/Lions/Masons, etc.) |
So funny. A) I don't hate women and B) why do you think I'm not getting laid? Quite the contrary. |
I've been seeing a truly nice guy for about 9 months. Our friendship is great, although I find him a bit too emotionally reserved/not passionate enough. And I'm already getting bored in the sack because his niceness/vanilla carries through into the bedroom. The dream would be a nice considerate guy who was kinky. I guess that guy doesn't exist
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They do exist, but they are taken and locked down hard by a woman who knows what she has. I know I come across harshly on here but I'm largely just being provocative. The real problem long term for dominance kink is that part of the entire dynamic is kind of a projected ideal the sub places on the dom. After enough times of taking out the trash, doing the dishes, coparenting, and whatever else - that ideal gives way to reality and the mystique is gone. Things can be rough, aggressive, and polar, but even I find it hard to maintain the hard line dom position when I know just earlier wife asked me to change a poopy diaper while she was busy doing something else. |
Oh they exist all right. Trust me. And some of them are even available.
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You don't hate them, but you talk about like they're worthless trash? Um, sure you don't. |
As long as you're not fat and frumpy, I'd love you too! |
| Fat and frumpy. Haha. I agree – who wants that? In either gender... |