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| I thought the dating thing was a legacy of our miltary's involvement in Asia... stereotypes created by the kind of contact soldiers have had with, er... professionals among the local women. |
No freaking kidding. As far as the white women only who will only date Asian men, what is your point? I know plenty of White women who will only date black men, many black women who will only date black men, black women who will only date white women, and don't forget those who will not date outside of their race at all. It also isn't as if the Asians said "Oh hell, let me show everyone how submissive I am" Not so much. It is their culture. In a Confucius society women are not held in the same regard as men, and therefore are responsible for the domestic ends of the relationship. Not too much unlike it was when my Grandmothers were having children. Like our mothers generations, things are changing. However the changes are being done with more respect, no bra burnings, or demands. I think the poster who is placing blame on the victims has a skewed perception. |
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I am African American, and I have met one Asian co-worker who told me that we (Blacks) cause too much trouble with the race thing. That, he said, was the reason that Blacks will be left behind. I also heard the same thing from a Latino friend.
I think that all minorities need to be thankful that the civil rights leaders made the USA a better place for everyone. They made HUGE sacrifices. |
How do you know they're newcomers and account for the majority? If they don't have accents, do you assume they are also new? Frankly, I didn't know there was immigration from Africa until I moved out to DC about 15 years ago. |
http://www.census.gov/population/www/documentation/twps0029/tab02.html |
| Folks, wish we could stop arguing about who has suffered the most from racism and who did the most to bring it on themselves. Not to be Pollyannish about it but let's work to end racism against everybody. |
Frankly, I appreciate this discussion. We've managed to keep it a discussion without getting out of control and flaming after several pages of posts. It's interesting for me to hear others' experiences. |
I'd take a gander that in the recent generation (past 20-25 years), Asian immigration has seen a spike from South Asia (India). |
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I do have a problem with immigrants of all races who criticize the situation that many African Americans and Native Americans are in. I knew one young man who told me all kinds of negative things about African Americans. He told me that the US has more opportunity than any other place, and that the poverty was all the fault of African Americans and their laziness. He did not know squat about slavery or Jim Crow. He did not even know about voting restrictions and segregation in the South. If you have an opinion, you should be informed.
I can say that one person in my family lost his life in the Civil Rights movement (indirectly). Those changes open the doors for so many people to immigrate. It made this country a better place for all, including Whites. We got the brightest immigrants from all over the world after the late 60's. It helped to propel this country forward economically. I haven't even touched on the suffering of the Native Americans. That is LONG. Yes, Asians have experienced discrimination, so that is more of a reason to try not to be part of the problem by not accusing people of laziness. It is sad that sacrifices were made for people who come to this country, and they in turn belittle those who suffered. |