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Because I have had friendships, have had European coworkers, ex-significant others, visited and visit often, and married one. I've also lived there. There is a difference in mentality between northern and southern Europeans, as it relates to environment, sex ed... yes, Switzerland is in a bubblesphere of its own. I appreciate the German & northern European environmental awareness. When it comes to race relations ... it needs work. There is a lot of ignorance despite the higher level of education. You could say that the US had their race riots 40 years ago and that for France, we've only witnessed the beginnings of one. In my friendships, relationships with Europeans (East & West), I have heard the way they talk about their residents: Turks, Moroccans, Africans, refugees. ... gotta go |
Great, you have non-American friends and co-workers. It doesn't mean you can condemn an entire continent as being racist, particularly given that when you add up the collective experiences of people on this board there are probably a huge range of conclusions. For every Jean Marie LePen there is a Rene Cassin or a Lech Walesa. |
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I am an African American woman who is extremely offended by racist statements about ANY race. So when anti Asian comments are made, I run and avoid nuts like that. I have dated every race and would marry or adopt any race.
That said, I have experienced a lot of racism in this country. I wish I could say otherwise. When I was in Europe, I could not make it out of a club or bar without some (White) man asking me out. I dated a European man for years and lived there for a while. I can not say that I ever experienced a white man in the US asking me out, EVER. I am well above average looks, and very well educated, with a very good income. My parents were quite well off, and my whole family is very articulate. I could only assume that the aversion was racial. In the US, I have been asked out by two Asian men, one middle eastern man, the rest African or African American. I would suggest that we look closely at ourselves here in this country since we are not living in Spain. Lets fix our own problems. |
But our equal opportunity employment laws apply everywhere. Compliance and implementation might lag behind, but Americans have (mostly) stood up and said, We believe in equality. Like the PP said, we had our race riots decades ago and now we're working through the recovery period. Much of the world hasn't even come to the awareness that leads to social upheavals. In that light, perhaps it's a good thing that the handlers of the Spanish basketball team made their bonehead mistake. Perhaps the incident will teach some people that, in the 21st century, it will be unacceptable to make jokes based on the physical attributes of other ethnicities. I'd rather see folks having epiphanies about each individuals's right to basic human dignity, but any such step would be welcome. |
Yeah! [Satire alert] And next time you're in Prince William County ask people of European heritage what they think about Latinos (aka Hispanics, Mexicans, or illegals). The good ol US of A is a model of speedy foreigner acceptance and minority integration. (Funny how that whole "sorry for centuries of government-sanctioned slavery" thing in congress took kind of a while after the Emancipation Proclamation.) We sure could teach those French and their Franco-Algerian justice minister a thing or two about tolerating immigrants. Forget the headscarves. We expel US-born children of US citizens from school for speaking "foreign" languages. (It was a while back at a Catholic school in Kansas if you want to google it.) Can you imagine the nerve of a child to use Spanish to insult another kid on the playground?!? Now since we're all feeling holier than Spaniards, let's refrain from using the term "Gypsies" which is actually a pejorative, racist and anti-semitic term all rolled into one. (Cool, huh!) This ethnic group refers to themselves as Roma. (Not that I'm a snarky know-it-all or anything.) [End of satire] OP, in all seriousness I appreciate you posting the story. Definitely one for the WTF file. |
Yes, I lived in Europe for 30 years. And while there was plenty of racism there, I never saw segregation in Europe like that I saw after I moved to DC. So you might want to consider that before you make blanket statements about other races. And while many (most) Germans, like your relatives, helped Hitler carry out his atrocities, others, like my relatives, risked their lives and liberty to oppose him. Could it be that your Nazi-sympathizing relatives don't paint the whole picture about modern Europe? Just something for you to think about.... |
The issue is that Americans have been forced to deal with race, so all seems well. But when you take a close look at the rush to adopt any child other than Black, we see the reality. Race is a real issue here, we are just probably the most sophisticated when it comes to hiding it. |
Well, after you see a pattern of behavior in their (snide) remarks in reference to "those immigrants" whether they be from Sweden, Switzerland, Germany, Spain, you can make a rationalization about the collective attitude in that country. Of course this is not absolute. There are also left wingers in every country that goes against the grain. I can understand the resentment in the instances where the immigrants live on welfare and keep bringing more distant relatives into their countries. In that case, why can't they change the laws to attract the better educated immigrants. Yeah, a simplistic approach. Just thinking out loud. |
FYI there is a difference between people here legally and illegally. I don't think many people take issue with Latinos per say, but with anyone who is here illegally. |
I do not know WHERE you were living, clearly not where I have been. I'm suspicious you never even lived there, maybe visited for 3 days in London. |
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So you think being in support of our immigration laws means that you are racist? I guess I must self-loathe since I am Peruvian. You might be suprised, in the Latino community many of us are in support of enforcing immigration laws. It took my family a LONG time to become citizens or greencard holders in this great country, and are pain stakingly trying to bring over more and more family members, the legal way. It irritates my parents to no end when people come to this country and expect an easy road to earning the privledge of living here.
You know what? Being a latino family, I will NOT live in a predominatly latino community (such as many areas in Prince William) the hard truth is that areas with high rates of illegals also have high rates of crime, trashed neighborhoods, and overcrowded houses. This stresses schools, degrading services and trashes neighborhoods degrading property value. I don't want my kids to have to grow up in a type of environment that my parents left Peru to escape. |
so where have you European German person lived? Where in Germany? I am German myself, and I have not experienced that amount of racism although I am married to an African American. Racism is not the same as seeing a culture grow into diversity. Keep in mind how few foreigners lived in Germany for quite some time. It takes any country time to adjust to being diverse. Europe as a unity is a relatively new concept and I think considering that, it's worked out pretty well. And I hate stereotypes. I really do. ALL Europeans are racist? My relatives never had an issue with me being married to an African American. Wow. And there I was thinking that us Europeans prefer not to stereotype. I must have been wrong. |
I am sorry my travels don't match what you experienced in your ex-SS enclaves: I spent 20 years in London, 8 years in Germany, 1 year in Italy and 1 year in France. Is that European enough for you? In any case, the irony inherent in your statement "Europeans are horribly racist and generally ignorant" says it all. We all have a choice: whether to confront stereotypes and seek a path of understanding and building bridges, or whether to retreat into our own smug little world while at the same time loudly and obnoxiously judging others. I hope you are happy with the choice you have made. |
I don't at all agree that you can extrapolate a country's collective attitude based on the idiotic comments of your handful of Euro friends. That is a ridiculous conclusion. I also think it is a cop-out to say that "left wingers" are those that go against the grain (I am inferring that you mean the "left wingers" are those who are less racist). In my experience, friends like yours would be those who go against the grain, and in many ways I think there are things the US could actually learn from Europe on issues of race. In addition, during my years living in Europe, I've come across more than one politically conservative person to whom it would never occur to snub a person on the basis of a different nationality/race/religion, etc. This isn't a left wing vs. right wing issue - it is an issue of basic human rights, and most Europeans that I know get that! |