Would you break up over no recognition of Valentine's Day?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t necessarily end an entire relationship over this…..understand that men just do not attach much meaning to Valentine’s Day as women do that is all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been happily married for twenty years and we've never celebrated Valentine's Day once. It's a silly expectation.

For YOU. Other people are different, believe it or not.

It doesn’t make their feelings valid. Especially if they’re into insipid shit like this.

Someone’s feelings aren’t valid if they’re different than yours? Wow, never heard that one before.

[Anonymous]

I gave my woman a box of chocolates and got a bj out of it. It’s not important to me or her honestly, but I play the game.

[Anonymous]

No unless it’s a larger pattern

[Anonymous]

Where is he right now?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t necessarily end an entire relationship over this…..understand that men just do not attach much meaning to Valentine’s Day as women do that is all.

Just because you allow your husband to treat you like crap doesn't mean other women have to abide by the same rules

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where is he right now?

No idea, didn’t say, didn’t ask.

[Anonymous]

If you communicated that it’s important to you and he put zero effort into it and isn’t even communicating, at best he is just not that into you and at worst he’s seeing someone else he likes better and is spending it with them.

Either way, he couldn’t be bothered to grab you a box of chocolates or some flowers, or make a plan for the day. He’s shown you what you can expect. Personally I’d move on and tey to find someone who hears me when I share with them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had to learn this the hard way and it's hard to put this gently OP but -

If you think you are in a relationship and your supposed partner is not available on Valentine's Day and other holidays (having clearly communicated kid or other family obligations notwithstanding) they are married, cheating or they do not give a s--- about you.

+1,000,000

[Anonymous]

DH walked into Georgetown and spent $500 on a gift that we would need a lifestyle change to enjoy. It's sweet and aspirational but it's a lot of money for something waiting in the wings. Oh well. It was very sweet and he was so proud. He also got cupcakes. 🩷

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH walked into Georgetown and spent $500 on a gift that we would need a lifestyle change to enjoy. It's sweet and aspirational but it's a lot of money for something waiting in the wings. Oh well. It was very sweet and he was so proud. He also got cupcakes. 🩷

Well what did he get?

[Anonymous]

You have different love languages OP or he is straight up inconsiderate. You are not compatible. You weren't asking for a surprise trip to Rome. Some moderate acknowledgement and plans is not asking for too much or unreasonable.

[Anonymous]

I know why you are divorced...

[Anonymous]

Did you say that you would like him to plan something or surprise you or something? Saying its important to you is just a statement. Great. You want someone to do something, you need to ask.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are divorced. You aren't silly preteens
Oh wait, maybe one of you is

+1

Op, you could have made plans. If this stupid day is so important for you then what did you do for him? You sound delusional, OP.