VA has a breadth of excellent universities but in the end, top students only want UVA or VT or W&M. Of the 3 only VT can really grow in capacity at the main campus. Students want main campus accommodations, exactly why UVA-Wise will never take off and Penn State is closing a number of satellite campus locations. If students can’t get into UVA they take the consolation prize and enjoy 4 years at Georgia, with money for grad school. No brainer really. |
Holy drive-by Spartan erasure, Batman! Not to mention EMU, WMU, Wayne State, etc. |
U of Missouri was just an example. For decades, Illinois kids have been flocking to U of Iowa, Indiana U. Purdue, Michigan, Wisconsin, Notre Dame. U of Nebraska has a lot too. |
It’s not unusual to want to see a new place & meet new people. If they go to U of Illinois, they will end up hanging around many of the same kids they knew in high school. |
Or look for private schools that offer good financial aid. My kid received excellent financial aid from a top-50 private school, and the total four-year cost was lower than UVA. |
Yep, my CS kid is almost certainly not getting into UIUC, it’s his first choice though. Likely will go to Iowa or Nebraska with merit bring it to the same or less than Illinois. |
+1 that was my kid's case. Very niche major. MD is a tiny state, with not many options to begin with. For my other DC who is a CS major, UMD was perfect. Very happy there, and thriving now. Has a great internship lined up for the summer. |
| My kid also went out of state to a different state flagship that had his exact niche major. Admittedly, he also did not want HS 2.0. And yes of course he could have avoided people from high school at big state school, but after a not great high school experience, he wanted a fresh start. To me, that excitement and optimism - in combination with the perfect fit major-wise - was worth paying for. Kid is VERY happy. |
I'm the PP with a kid in the same situation -- they are so looking forward to leaving HS and starting at the oos college. This is what they are now focusing on. They are already depressed and have been seeing a therapist for a few years. Having to go in state would've made the depression worse, IMO, where tons of kids from their HS go to this in state. |
My NMF chose Bama and is doing very well. The NMF cohort there is very engaged. |
Can you speak more to this? My HS junior who is likely to make the NM cutoff is looking at Alabama as an option. |
| My MCPS DD didn’t get into UMD, her first choice, but was admitted to UVA and W&M OOS. She wasn’t interested in Towson or St. Mary’s. She was admitted to several SLAC’s with enough merit to bring the cost to $50-60k. But W&M was the right fit for her so we paid full freight ~ $70k. No regrets. |
Great, but parents say this and never give names. It’s very hard to do with most privates running $94k. Very few of them offer $54k in merit to bring costs down to UVA at $40k. If you can do it, great, but very few schools offer that. Wash & Lee, does, but only for 44 applicants who have demonstrated leadership skills. |
No, they (“top Students”) can easily go to the three via the community college transfer program or by regular transfer from another four year state or private university. Over 699 students do it every year at UVA. Unfortunately, many Va families eschew the community college easy access because they don’t think about it. We are blessed in VA to have the public college and universities that we do. Btw I know many “top students” who went to GMU and JMU on full scholarship and are now in great law schools because all the law schools want are top GPAs and LSAts which you can get at many of the VA publics. You don’t HAVE to go OPS as a top student. |
It’s great you feel “blessed” to have options like community college transfer and GMU. Other Virginians feel blessed to have the opportunity to go OOS. It’s actually ok, different people can do different things. |