Men, would you date a woman that dolls herself up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Probably better to date a woman who dolls herself up than a woman who lucks into beauty. You know she's willing to put the effort into making herself attractive for you.

They don't do it for the man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Dying your hair is something some insane percent of women do. Working out is, you know, medically indicated for everyone. Many people use crest white strips
The other parts are different

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Guy here - 100% yes to working out and dressing up. Why wouldn’t you want to date someone who stays fit - especially if thats your lifestyle as well.

[Anonymous]

I am guessing that most men would NOT date a woman who refuses to put effort into her appearance. Most people of either gender who drink coffee or tea on a daily basis need to whiten their teeth once they hit about 35. If you smoke, you'll need to whiten them. Otherwise, you'll have yellow/brown teeth.
Getting eyelash extensions (tasteful length) is actually lower maintenance when you get older and start to lose your lashes compared to putting on mascara every day.
I had a huge roll of skin below my belly button after giving birth that caused me to have to buy pants that were 2-3 sizes bigger than I wore as soon as that was removed with a tummy tuck. Wearing pants that are too big for your butt in order to accommodate your stomach roll usually means that you have a really loose fit on your ass, which is really unattractive. I was married at the time, but I'm quite certain that very few men would have asked me out on dates if I'd been single with that skin hanging there.

As I've aged, I've gotten melasma, skin tags, and moles, which cost about $500+ to have removed every other year or so. They look hideous and even though this is a cosmetic "fix" that involves knives and expensive lasers, I don't think any man would say I'm less attractive after having them removed.

As for push up bras, once you've breast fed you almost always have sagging breasts that need a lot of support to look good, so push up bras become necessary to look normal. You can't seriously think men prefer that you wear a loose bra that allows your breasts to sag, do you???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably better to date a woman who dolls herself up than a woman who lucks into beauty. You know she's willing to put the effort into making herself attractive for you.

They don't do it for the man

Yes we do. I will never understand this misconception.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.

I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I briefly date a woman who had lip fillers, breast implant and butt enhancement.

Let me just say she had some serious mental health issues..

I talk to her every now and then just to clap her cheeks..

It's really weird to me when a woman really likes a man, even after they break up if you call her for sex she will show up.

Clearly that’s why she still answers. Poor woman.

[Anonymous]

My wife works out 3-4 times a week, gets botox occasionally, cuts and colors her hair and got fake boobs right after we got married.

We’ve been married 22 years and I couldn’t have asked for a better wife or mother to our son. Its like she’s all things in one person: wife, girlfriend, business partner, co-parent, fwb, someone to grow old with, etc.

Just because someone has fake boobs doesn’t mean they’re a bad person.

[Anonymous]

As a man who regularly goes to gym, wears nice clothes, and has a healthy diet I'll assume women appreciate men like me.

But perhaps women have different criteria for men. I have seen some very attractive women, who put a lot of effort into their looks including cosmetic procedures if needed with extremely unattractive and sloppy men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.

I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.

I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would shun anyone who used the words “dolls herself up.”

More like kardashians herself up with boob, butt, lip, cheek, and forehead injections. And then the chemical laser peels. And later the neck, eyelid, face tuck and lift surgeries.

Good time$$$$.

If you can afford it why not?

One of my friends is 50 years old and looks like she’s 30. She’s spent probably around $200k, and she looks great.

Does she work fulltime and have a real career?

Or just doll up each day to impress other similar women out and about at lunch?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am guessing that most men would NOT date a woman who refuses to put effort into her appearance. Most people of either gender who drink coffee or tea on a daily basis need to whiten their teeth once they hit about 35. If you smoke, you'll need to whiten them. Otherwise, you'll have yellow/brown teeth.
Getting eyelash extensions (tasteful length) is actually lower maintenance when you get older and start to lose your lashes compared to putting on mascara every day.
I had a huge roll of skin below my belly button after giving birth that caused me to have to buy pants that were 2-3 sizes bigger than I wore as soon as that was removed with a tummy tuck. Wearing pants that are too big for your butt in order to accommodate your stomach roll usually means that you have a really loose fit on your ass, which is really unattractive. I was married at the time, but I'm quite certain that very few men would have asked me out on dates if I'd been single with that skin hanging there.

As I've aged, I've gotten melasma, skin tags, and moles, which cost about $500+ to have removed every other year or so. They look hideous and even though this is a cosmetic "fix" that involves knives and expensive lasers, I don't think any man would say I'm less attractive after having them removed.

As for push up bras, once you've breast fed you almost always have sagging breasts that need a lot of support to look good, so push up bras become necessary to look normal. You can't seriously think men prefer that you wear a loose bra that allows your breasts to sag, do you???

How many weeks did you have to stay home to recover from your tummy tuck surgery?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Probably better to date a woman who dolls herself up than a woman who lucks into beauty. You know she's willing to put the effort into making herself attractive for you.

They don't do it for the man

Correct. They do it for their low self esteem and to appease their judgmental aesthetic-focused female friends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.

I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.

Probably. Clear signaling of one’s values. Absolutely