Men, would you date a woman that dolls herself up?

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.


I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.


I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.


lol. Hyperfemininity would be dressing in floral dresses and cute hat, not trampy tight short skintight dresses with one’s boobs popping out.


You’re wrong - they accentuate the sex based traits.


Dude, getting filler face and looking or dressing overly sexy on purpose does not equate to Femininity.

Ask any classy feminine lady from the south or Asia or Europe.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.


I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.


I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.


lol. Hyperfemininity would be dressing in floral dresses and cute hat, not trampy tight short skintight dresses with one’s boobs popping out.

Agree. Nothing inherently feminine about rock hard breasts, weird lips, and inability to furrow your eyebrows. It’s weird AF and women who are super plastic look more like men playing dress up.


+1

Looking fake as F ain’t feminine, anywhere.
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The problem with your list is that you mixed in a lot of trashy and standard personal care items. A lot of it also depends on execution—for example, most white UMC white women do get highlights or some type of hair color. That doesn’t mean a full head of dry bleach blonde is attractive. Same with nails. Most UMC women get manicures. I have never seen anyone in my UMC with super long nails though.

So, yeah, of course it depends.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.


I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.


I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.


lol. Hyperfemininity would be dressing in floral dresses and cute hat, not trampy tight short skintight dresses with one’s boobs popping out.


You’re wrong - they accentuate the sex based traits.


Dude, getting filler face and looking or dressing overly sexy on purpose does not equate to Femininity.

Ask any classy feminine lady from the south or Asia or Europe.


Dude, do you understand what the word “hyper” means? It’s an exaggeration of traditional feminine traits. It’s also what drag queens do, and it’s why the women we are discussing bear a lot of similarities to drag queens and some transgender women.

A classy feminine lady is not the same as a hyperfeminine presentation.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.


I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.


I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.


lol. Hyperfemininity would be dressing in floral dresses and cute hat, not trampy tight short skintight dresses with one’s boobs popping out.


You’re wrong - they accentuate the sex based traits.


Dude, getting filler face and looking or dressing overly sexy on purpose does not equate to Femininity.

Ask any classy feminine lady from the south or Asia or Europe.


Dude, do you understand what the word “hyper” means? It’s an exaggeration of traditional feminine traits. It’s also what drag queens do, and it’s why the women we are discussing bear a lot of similarities to drag queens and some transgender women.

A classy feminine lady is not the same as a hyperfeminine presentation.


Nope.

Drag queens are not hyper feminine, they are hyper sexualized. Stop conflating. Or go post in some Women’s Studies Reddit and get your head ripped off.
Anonymous
Cinderella = hyperfeminine look, dress, behaviors

Drag queens = hyper sexualized fake makeup, lashes, physique, loud dresses, big curves, fruit tart makeup.
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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men date and marry these types. I’d guess they even refer them to the no-effort women. I know someone IRL who left is granola wife for someone like this. Jeff Bezos is prime example of leaving a normal woman for someone who dolls herself up.

But to be fair, she looks like a freak. I don’t understand how people are attracted to a fake face and body.


I think it's a signal about the importance of sex to a person who is willing to make those kinds of cosmetic changes to boobs and lips and whatnot. I don't know if it's an accurate signal, but I'm pretty sure that explains a lot of the attraction to the guys who like it.


I’m a woman and think this is right. It signals hyperfemininity.


lol. Hyperfemininity would be dressing in floral dresses and cute hat, not trampy tight short skintight dresses with one’s boobs popping out.

Agree. Nothing inherently feminine about rock hard breasts, weird lips, and inability to furrow your eyebrows. It’s weird AF and women who are super plastic look more like men playing dress up.


When was the last time you actually had your hands on fake boobs? My wife has them and we have our hands on each other daily. If I’m being honest, they’re really nice.
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Sure they are 😂
Anonymous
I love plastic shiny face females too. Some even end up looking like cats once all their work piles up on their faces and snake lips.
Anonymous
Reminds of the Dallas Blondes and how lame it is when everyone either dresses/looks like them or Kim Kardashian.
Anonymous
"How many weeks did you have to stay home to recover from your tummy tuck surgery?"

I was in pain and unable to walk around doing normal things for about 3 days. By the end of the first week I was walking around my block, but very slowly and taking breaks. I had an overnight work trip in Chicago a few days before week 4 and I managed to do alone it without much trouble but I paid the Red Cap guy to drag my bag to the cab for me, and had the porter at the hotel on the other end do the same. You are still wearing a medical girdle-like thing at that point, and this disguises the fact that you're much smaller around the hips and tummy, so nobody will notice.
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One more thing: I timed the TT surgery so that I'd be recovering at home over the holidays when my office closed down each year. That minimized how much sick leave I needed to take.
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I don't think anybody dyes their hair anymore. Most women color their hair, but the treatment actually improves the texture and smoothness of the hair. I'm in my late 50s and I work in downtown DC. I don't know a single woman who didn't color her hair when the grays got to be too much. Eventually, some of them stopped coloring. But for the most part, it's the norm to color as you get older.

And I'd say that close to 100% of the blonde women are getting some sort of color treatment done starting in their 20s or even teens. At least toner. If you don't have the color toned down, it gets really unattractive and looks "cheap."
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Anonymous wrote:I love plastic shiny face females too. Some even end up looking like cats once all their work piles up on their faces and snake lips.


Serious question- do you know what causes the cat look?
Anonymous
This thread reminds me of how mean women are to each other - especially when there’s no consequences.
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