I'd attend, but I would appreciate a note that you request guests take shoes off in the foyer (or some convenient place with a bench or chairs and shoe storage) and offer shoes covers as an alternative. Make it easy for them to comply and help you out. |
Are you sure everyone hosts? That would be a ridiculous number of events. At our school there is one per class in the lower grades. Most people never host. Our school does have a rule that they need to be held at your house vs a club. |
Outside in August in DC will be lovely. Yes, do this. |
In the East Asian country I’m from, people don’t entertain much at home, but when you do, guest slippers are always offered, and as a courtesy you don’t go into people’s houses barefoot. If you’re wearing an outfit with sandals, you pack little socks in a pouch in your purse. |
Offer guest slippers. Let people know it’s going to be shoe free. People need to realize when you go into someone else’s home, the norms may be different— exactly like we teach our kids. |
White people will throw fits |
Just have the shoe covers there and a sign that says either put these on or shoes off, thanks! It’s so much work to host these grade wide parties so other parents should be understanding. |
No, it is voluntary. Not everyone has to host. I don’t mind hosting. I just want people to take their shoes off if we host. I don’t have all the details yet. |
I have a medical issue where I need to wear a brace that sits in my shoe. I literally can’t walk without it. When I am asked to remove my shoes at someone’s house I explain to the host and keep my shoes on. It has lead to some awkwardness as I have my shoes on as everyone else has to take them off. I did have one neighbor who said that taking shoes off wasn’t optional, so I apologized and left the party. |
People need to experience other cultures. It is your home. I would totally respect it. |
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We are Minnesotan and have always taken shoes off. Part of it is coming from a climate with a long season of snow. You need to remove your shoes or you track slush everywhere. The habit carries into warmer seasons. And when you think about what you might step in outside, I don’t want that on my floors where kids play! No shoes for us in this house and I don’t hesitate to request it of guests. |
Do your guest slippers provide proper arch support? My “indoor shoes” cost about $100. |
What about guests who use a cane, a walker, or a wheelchair? |
Just being shoe covers. |