Interesting Reddit post exposes a big problem modern dating

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Also women put more effort into appearance - think of women's spending on hair, makeup, etc. That might equal a couple of points bumping ladies up.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have a higher sex drive due to hormonal differences so they will put up with more s*** to get laid and also will have sex with a less attractive woman just to scratch the itch if it’s been a while.

Women have lower sex drives on average, so it takes someone they actually like to get them to agree to sex.

A man will happily mate with 10 “lower quality” women if given the chance. A woman will prefer to ignore 10 “lower quality” men to hold out for a higher quality man.

It’s just biology. Men care more about quantity, women care more about quality.

Thousands of years ago you would have a small number of wealthy or otherwise top tier men hoarding all the women because of this dynamic. For a while it was suppressed due to monogamy being the norm, but now with the decline of marriage and the rise of anonymous hookup apps you’re seeing a resurgence of polygamous behavior.

Women are given unlimited options, they will naturally choose a more attractive man when shown next to an average looking man on the apps. The hot men are more than willing to bed hundreds of different women per year, so women do not really need to compete with each other for casual sex because the supply of casual sex with top tier men adjusts in an elastic relationship with the demand from women.

Until hsv 1 or 2 rears its ugly head or the hot man gets a surprise baby call from his below average anon hookup

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Anonymous wrote:A 2 guy who makes over $500k a year instantly moves up to a 5. Make a million a year and he’s a 7 or 8.

Truth.

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Where did this data come from? Who did the research?

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Anonymous wrote:Yeah, some women would rather be single than be in a relationship or have casual sex with a 2/10 guy who doesn’t have a good career to the point that they can’t do things like go out to nice restaurants or go on vacation, and who has a crappy attitude on top of all that. So start bringing more to the table outside of looks and your life will improve as a result. Not rocket science.

They bang married guys just to be able to bang a 7-9. Married guys aren’t picky and they will bang what is available and discreet. And women that had to marry guys as bland or unattractive as themselves cheat with married men for the sane reason.

I've seen this too. The cheating married women then overly estimate their worth, get cocky and think that's what is out there wanting them when they divorce. Then, they find they can't get anything remotely as attractive or successful, middle aged divorce, kids and not that attractive. The men don't care because they aren't doing this for an exit. Just a quantity/variety thing. The ones they actually choose to marry and openly be seen with are much more attractive and have better traits, success, etc.

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Women should start pursuing men more and that will give them an advantage as well because then won’t be waiting around for guys to come through and for them to select a suitable one. By proactively seeking the ideal partner for themselves they will also be happier with their selection. And men are actually not as rude as far as rejection.

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Anonymous wrote:Men ….. trim your nose and ear hair, open the door for me, be emotionally available to listen and you are at about a 6 or 7 in my book. Keep up with my wit and sense of humor and you will be a solid 8. Add a beard and bam you are a 9.5.

this!!!!!!! hope some men here have taken note.

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Anonymous wrote:Men have a higher sex drive due to hormonal differences so they will put up with more s*** to get laid and also will have sex with a less attractive woman just to scratch the itch if it’s been a while.

Women have lower sex drives on average, so it takes someone they actually like to get them to agree to sex.

A man will happily mate with 10 “lower quality” women if given the chance. A woman will prefer to ignore 10 “lower quality” men to hold out for a higher quality man.

It’s just biology. Men care more about quantity, women care more about quality.

Thousands of years ago you would have a small number of wealthy or otherwise top tier men hoarding all the women because of this dynamic. For a while it was suppressed due to monogamy being the norm, but now with the decline of marriage and the rise of anonymous hookup apps you’re seeing a resurgence of polygamous behavior.

Women are given unlimited options, they will naturally choose a more attractive man when shown next to an average looking man on the apps. The hot men are more than willing to bed hundreds of different women per year, so women do not really need to compete with each other for casual sex because the supply of casual sex with top tier men adjusts in an elastic relationship with the demand from women.

This whole thing is such a load of crap. How do you even walk around believing all this?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men have a higher sex drive due to hormonal differences so they will put up with more s*** to get laid and also will have sex with a less attractive woman just to scratch the itch if it’s been a while.

Women have lower sex drives on average, so it takes someone they actually like to get them to agree to sex.

A man will happily mate with 10 “lower quality” women if given the chance. A woman will prefer to ignore 10 “lower quality” men to hold out for a higher quality man.

It’s just biology. Men care more about quantity, women care more about quality.

Thousands of years ago you would have a small number of wealthy or otherwise top tier men hoarding all the women because of this dynamic. For a while it was suppressed due to monogamy being the norm, but now with the decline of marriage and the rise of anonymous hookup apps you’re seeing a resurgence of polygamous behavior.

Women are given unlimited options, they will naturally choose a more attractive man when shown next to an average looking man on the apps. The hot men are more than willing to bed hundreds of different women per year, so women do not really need to compete with each other for casual sex because the supply of casual sex with top tier men adjusts in an elastic relationship with the demand from women.

This whole thing is such a load of crap. How do you even walk around believing all this?

There’s a massive amount of evidence that supports all this. Men are by far the more promiscuous gender, and the competition between men in the casual sex market is very winner take all. Monogamy is the only tool less attractive men have to be able to attract a mate.

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Has OP provided a citation of for the chart yet?

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The women are right.

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Anonymous wrote:A 2 guy who makes over $500k a year instantly moves up to a 5. Make a million a year and he’s a 7 or 8.

No Mr Misogyny.

We are not for sale.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yeah, some women would rather be single than be in a relationship or have casual sex with a 2/10 guy who doesn’t have a good career to the point that they can’t do things like go out to nice restaurants or go on vacation, and who has a crappy attitude on top of all that. So start bringing more to the table outside of looks and your life will improve as a result. Not rocket science.

They bang married guys just to be able to bang a 7-9. Married guys aren’t picky and they will bang what is available and discreet. And women that had to marry guys as bland or unattractive as themselves cheat with married men for the sane reason.

I've seen this too. The cheating married women then overly estimate their worth, get cocky and think that's what is out there wanting them when they divorce. Then, they find they can't get anything remotely as attractive or successful, middle aged divorce, kids and not that attractive. The men don't care because they aren't doing this for an exit. Just a quantity/variety thing. The ones they actually choose to marry and openly be seen with are much more attractive and have better traits, success, etc.

I very seriously doubt that a lot of women have shared their innermost thoughts regarding their divorce to you, and this is what they have said.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

lol…oppression Olympics.

I live how women say they’re oppressed yet men routinely fight and die in wars to protect the very women who say they’re oppressed. Or they work dangerous jobs that equate to men have 95% of workplace deaths.

Don’t see women clamoring to be working the in coal mines, oil fields and risking their lives in cargo ships so you can buy the latest Lululemon to complete your clean-girl aesthetic.

But yeah…women are oppressed….

Incels Unite!

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Anonymous wrote:Women should start pursuing men more and that will give them an advantage as well because then won’t be waiting around for guys to come through and for them to select a suitable one. By proactively seeking the ideal partner for themselves they will also be happier with their selection. And men are actually not as rude as far as rejection.

Keep dreaming….”yasss queen”…..Listen every woman in the US is a Queen and guys have to line up for the privilege to even dream of dating them.