Interesting Reddit post exposes a big problem modern dating

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Whenever you see “this is evolutionary biology 101”, it’s always preceded by some pseudo-scientific nonsense rationalizing why 40 year old men should be dating teenagers.

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Anonymous wrote:Attractiveness matters less to women than to men though, resources matter much more. You really think Elon musk is good looking? Men care about looks (because she’s more likely to be fertile and produce healthy offspring) women care about mens resources (because bearing and caring for children is a high resource vulnerability). This is evolutionary biology 101.

Why do men believe this crap? If you want to talk biology, women want younger attractive, fit men. Because young sperm produce healthier babies, and fit men can physically protect his family.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

In the space of 4 paragraphs, you compare women to land, video games, and cows, imply that they’re defective objects that are only good for sex, and then act like women are to blame for the way you treat them. No wonder they decide to pass on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Whenever you see “this is evolutionary biology 101”, it’s always preceded by some pseudo-scientific nonsense rationalizing why 40 year old men should be dating teenagers.

Lol yep. And it's always "18 is legal, what's the problem". The problem that the only reason they aren't dating is the government telling them no? You need the government to tell you not to date children? Whatttt. They would go as low as was legally allowed, and justify it like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

In the space of 4 paragraphs, you compare women to land, video games, and cows, imply that they’re defective objects that are only good for sex, and then act like women are to blame for the way you treat them. No wonder they decide to pass on you.

Holy moly, it’s true

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Anonymous wrote:Women are definitely more attractive than men. Men put in no effort it to their looks.

An ugly woman can dress nice, smell nice and charm you with her walk, speech etc. And ugly man...well is just ugly and shabby.

Your first paragraph is true. There is a lot with hair and makeup that a woman can do to make herself more attractive. Men can't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women are definitely more attractive than men. Men put in no effort it to their looks.

An ugly woman can dress nice, smell nice and charm you with her walk, speech etc. And ugly man...well is just ugly and shabby.

Your first paragraph is true. There is a lot with hair and makeup that a woman can do to make herself more attractive. Men can't.

It’s the whole “Insta vs reality” bit. Guys are far less likely to resort to artificially hiding their superficial flaws.

[Anonymous]

Women look better than men though, a 5 woman is much more attractive than a 5 man.