Interesting Reddit post exposes a big problem modern dating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

lol…oppression Olympics.

I live how women say they’re oppressed yet men routinely fight and die in wars to protect the very women who say they’re oppressed. Or they work dangerous jobs that equate to men have 95% of workplace deaths.

Don’t see women clamoring to be working the in coal mines, oil fields and risking their lives in cargo ships so you can buy the latest Lululemon to complete your clean-girl aesthetic.

But yeah…women are oppressed….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

lol…oppression Olympics.

I live how women say they’re oppressed yet men routinely fight and die in wars to protect the very women who say they’re oppressed. Or they work dangerous jobs that equate to men have 95% of workplace deaths.

Don’t see women clamoring to be working the in coal mines, oil fields and risking their lives in cargo ships so you can buy the latest Lululemon to complete your clean-girl aesthetic.

But yeah…women are oppressed….

I'm not the pp you replied to. I posted the video from YouTube and haven't made another reply since.

What you wrote here is quite literally incel talking points. You've made her point.

[Anonymous]

Is this a joke? The obvious answer is that since the moment they’re born females are told that that their primary value is their appearance, so they spend an incredible amount of time and money enhancing it. I believe the Internet pit you come from calls it “looks maxxing” and it’s more a requirement than an option.

Men, on the other hand, consider washing regularly to be the height of grooming. Men who actually take care of themselves get a big boost up the charts.

[Anonymous]

Men ….. trim your nose and ear hair, open the door for me, be emotionally available to listen and you are at about a 6 or 7 in my book. Keep up with my wit and sense of humor and you will be a solid 8. Add a beard and bam you are a 9.5.

[Anonymous]

The point of this post seems to have been served. OP posts a contextless, unattributed graphic to explain why men should be mad at women and women should lower their standards, and within a page we have people calling each other incels and random posters taking credit (on behalf of their gender) for bravely ensuring the safety of women and children and access to athleisure. Who can forget the drafts for the second Ever Given War?? The DCUM braintrust in action.

[Anonymous]

OP, take a look at the beauty forum on this website. Women spend A LOT of time on looking good. Of course they are more attractive.

I have three boys and one girl. My daughter is 12 now and starting to have to do all of this stuff that her brothers don’t just to fit in (hair, jewelry, eyebrows, shaving). She’s pretty resentful of it, so I notice it more.

I bet if you spent $50/wk and one hour a day trying to make yourself more attractive (in addition to working out), you would find that women notice you more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

My friend, back slowly away from the Internet. Maybe try a hike in the woods? You are not OK.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

I don’t think you understand what this chart results in. You end up with a very small number of men that have enhanced choice. Many men that have no partners at all. And women who are pressured to have sex rather than relationships in the forlorn hope that the former will turn in to the latter.

I mean, all men have to do to be in the top 1/3 of men is to be about a 4. How is that not good news for men?

I feel like all gay men are able to achieve this. You can do this, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

I don’t think you understand what this chart results in. You end up with a very small number of men that have enhanced choice. Many men that have no partners at all. And women who are pressured to have sex rather than relationships in the forlorn hope that the former will turn in to the latter.

I mean, all men have to do to be in the top 1/3 of men is to be about a 4. How is that not good news for men?

I feel like all gay men are able to achieve this. You can do this, OP.

I love you.

- Not OP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

My friend, back slowly away from the Internet. Maybe try a hike in the woods? You are not OK.

Sorry the truth hurts you. Maybe you shouldn’t open your eyes and you’ll see why you can’t find a decent man.

I mean as long as women keep sleeping with men without a relationship why would we change up? There’s no reason to invest heavily in someone if I have their legs over my shoulders after one or two dates. I can keep living my life and keep myself free from headaches and when I need intimacy put in minimal effort and still get what I need.

And yes men, dress well, get in good shape and wash yourself so you smell nice. You do that and have a steady decent income you can basically get laid whenever you want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this a joke? The obvious answer is that since the moment they’re born females are told that that their primary value is their appearance, so they spend an incredible amount of time and money enhancing it. I believe the Internet pit you come from calls it “looks maxxing” and it’s more a requirement than an option.

Men, on the other hand, consider washing regularly to be the height of grooming. Men who actually take care of themselves get a big boost up the charts.

Right?
This is literally the intro to the movie “Clueless.”
Why is this labeled as “modern dating?”

[Anonymous]

I feel like it's way easier for a man to be attractive. Men just need to be slim, some muscles (so not just skinny fat), get a good haircut, wear nice clothes and voila- very attractive.

Women's skin care routines, hair routines, makeup routines and everything else is a lot. And it's on top of the men's requirements of be thin and wear nice clothes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This was so interesting:



So apparently women think all men are ugly. A thoroughly mid looking woman who rates only a 4-5 is probably looking for a man who is 6-7, which is basically an entire standard deviation or more away from the mean for how women are rating looks for men.

It seems like men evaluate the looks of women much more fairly given that the mean is about a 4/10, which should be expected (5/10). Women seem to have insane expectations for how their partners should look. I guess if you aren't Henry Cavill you're an instant 1 or 2. Modern dating cultures and apps have ruined all expectations, no doubt.

. Men are visual, it’s not surprise they find women more attractive. Women like different things.

At the end of the day just because a man thinks a woman is attractive and will sleep with him doesn’t mean he wants her as a partner.

Single moms for instance, most are for recreational use only, they may be hot and guys will sleep with them, but most guys won’t wife them up. No man wants to continue another man’s saved game because the women he’s sleeping with made bad decisions in the past.

Too much at stake and family courts are a mess. That’s why most women will be unmarried and childless now. Men don’t need marriage to sleep with women as they give it up easily anyways…why by the cow when you get the milk for free and all that.

My friend, back slowly away from the Internet. Maybe try a hike in the woods? You are not OK.

Sorry the truth hurts you. Maybe you shouldn’t open your eyes and you’ll see why you can’t find a decent man.

I mean as long as women keep sleeping with men without a relationship why would we change up? There’s no reason to invest heavily in someone if I have their legs over my shoulders after one or two dates. I can keep living my life and keep myself free from headaches and when I need intimacy put in minimal effort and still get what I need.

And yes men, dress well, get in good shape and wash yourself so you smell nice. You do that and have a steady decent income you can basically get laid whenever you want.

Ok. If that’s literally all you need, then good for you. It looks like you’ve figured it out.

What is the problem?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh, so there are repercussions for oppressing women for hundreds of years and now they get enhanced choice in who they procreate with? Boo hoo to you.

I don’t think you understand what this chart results in. You end up with a very small number of men that have enhanced choice. Many men that have no partners at all. And women who are pressured to have sex rather than relationships in the forlorn hope that the former will turn in to the latter.

I mean, all men have to do to be in the top 1/3 of men is to be about a 4. How is that not good news for men?

I feel like all gay men are able to achieve this. You can do this, OP.

I love you.

- Not OP

Gay men are happiest too.

Heterosexual couples and lesbian couples have similar divorce rates that are high. Gay men…very low.

I wish I was gay sometimes it would be a lot easier. Unfortunately I’m not into penises. I have one and I’m good with it, don’t need anyone else’s around men

I saw a funny tik tok of a straight guy who was like - let’s get married for all the benefits. We don’t have to sleep with each other, spend time with each other or anything. We do what we want and just make sure the mortgage is paid and do whatever we want. I’m not gonna ask you when you’ll be home, don’t care. Being home when and hook up…don’t care. Buy a motorcycle…don’t care.

Seeks lien a good idea actually.