Sanity Check - DH in Boxers

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I’m talking about things like going out to get the mail, mowing the grass or working on a car in the driveway. Barbecuing. Maybe doing a short errand like driving to KFC or the hardware store.

Man here. The ohter guys are teh hardware store won't care a lick about it.

Hardware stores are not male only places. Plenty of women there who do NOT want to see a man in boxers there.

Pot meets kettle. Grocery store, restaurants and virtually the entire public are NOT female only places, so stop subjecting children and families to your ridiculous lingerie yoga pants please. You people are everywhere everyday showing your booty in super revealing tights. Total hypocrisy.

Dude, give it up. Yoga pants are not undergarments. Only you with your weird sexual fetish can't seem to grasp why they are different from boxers. You can't lecture us when we show up to the hardware store wearing bras and panties. Until then, PUT SOME GOD DAMNED PANTS ON.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I thought this was going to be about him hanging around the house in boxers. That’s bad enough.

Hanging out in the house in boxers is bad? Who are you people?!?

It’s not the hill I’m drying on but I don’t like it. Your wife does not want to see your balls hanging out of your boxers when you shift on the couch. That’s like the biggest turnoff ever. And if you have daughter, they don’t want to see it either. If you live by yourself, have at it. If you are a gay man, you’ll have to ask your husband—maybe men don’t mind

I’ve been teaching my son that this is rude to the women in the house, so he puts on soccer shorts to come downstairs now. If you need to run to laundry room to grab clothes, that’s fine. We’ve all been there. I think anything else, please put on pants.

I agree with buying the husband athletic shorts. That cured my husband of wearing boxers around the house—he just wears the gym shorts now.

I wear both pretty much interchangeably around the house. They seem the same to me. I happen to wear boxers with a button fly so that isn’t a concern.

But this thread makes me think my nanny could think it’s weird. I’d honestly never thought about it, they’re full coverage shorts—not like briefs or even “boxer briefs”.

Setting aside the nanny thing, those of you who don’t let your male kids walk around their own house in boxers and a t-shirt? That seems really prudish.

And where are all the DCUM posters who pile on in threads about women (and teens!) having every right to “flaunt it” in public in micro shorts, sheer tops with no bra, etc.? Granted an old man’s hairy thighs arguably aren’t as objectively beautiful, but not sure why it’s more inappropriate than underage butt cheeks.

OMFG, please understand that the people who say "it's fine in the house" mean WHEN YOU DON'T HAVE COMPANY. Jesus Hussein Christ, your nanny doesn't think it's "weird" that you wear nothing but underwear around her, she thinks you're a pervert.

+1 Your nanny definitely getting perv vibes from you. No one should have to see her employer in their underwear.

[Anonymous]

Omg-no!!!! So far from acceptable. And for men answering it’s okay-do you guys not know the open fly is….revealing? It’s not like it’s Fort Knox till you go to pee or whatever. The barn door is often ajar, ffs.

[Anonymous]

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I’m talking about things like going out to get the mail, mowing the grass or working on a car in the driveway. Barbecuing. Maybe doing a short errand like driving to KFC or the hardware store.

Man here. The ohter guys are teh hardware store won't care a lick about it.

Hardware stores are not male only places. Plenty of women there who do NOT want to see a man in boxers there.

Pot meets kettle. Grocery store, restaurants and virtually the entire public are NOT female only places, so stop subjecting children and families to your ridiculous lingerie yoga pants please. You people are everywhere everyday showing your booty in super revealing tights. Total hypocrisy.

Dude, give it up. Yoga pants are not undergarments. Only you with your weird sexual fetish can't seem to grasp why they are different from boxers. You can't lecture us when we show up to the hardware store wearing bras and panties. Until then, PUT SOME GOD DAMNED PANTS ON.

Sure.

EVERYONE can see your ass crack when you are prancing around in your yoga pants getting your pumpkin spice latte carol. PUT SOME PANTS ON.

[Anonymous]

OK, whoever you are that is advocating wearing underwear in public--just do it. Everyone will assume you are a) mentally ill, b) high, c) trying to low key harass women, or d) are some incel acting out (see (c) for more info).

No one is saying it is illegal. It is inappropriate which means you can do it, but you suffer the societal consequences.

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I’m talking about things like going out to get the mail, mowing the grass or working on a car in the driveway. Barbecuing. Maybe doing a short errand like driving to KFC or the hardware store.

Man here. The ohter guys are teh hardware store won't care a lick about it.

Hardware stores are not male only places. Plenty of women there who do NOT want to see a man in boxers there.

Pot meets kettle. Grocery store, restaurants and virtually the entire public are NOT female only places, so stop subjecting children and families to your ridiculous lingerie yoga pants please. You people are everywhere everyday showing your booty in super revealing tights. Total hypocrisy.

Dude, give it up. Yoga pants are not undergarments. Only you with your weird sexual fetish can't seem to grasp why they are different from boxers. You can't lecture us when we show up to the hardware store wearing bras and panties. Until then, PUT SOME GOD DAMNED PANTS ON.

Sure.

EVERYONE can see your ass crack when you are prancing around in your yoga pants getting your pumpkin spice latte carol. PUT SOME PANTS ON.

I only wear exercise clothes when exercising, but they are, in fact, clothes, and society accepts women wearing them. If you want to pioneer men wearing underwear as clothing in 2023--odd choice--but good luck!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Zero percent acceptable.

+1 How is this even a question? Underwear is not pants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK, whoever you are that is advocating wearing underwear in public--just do it. Everyone will assume you are a) mentally ill, b) high, c) trying to low key harass women, or d) are some incel acting out (see (c) for more info).

No one is saying it is illegal. It is inappropriate which means you can do it, but you suffer the societal consequences.

As clearly evidenced by the poster weirdly obsessed with the yoga pants.

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I’m talking about things like going out to get the mail, mowing the grass or working on a car in the driveway. Barbecuing. Maybe doing a short errand like driving to KFC or the hardware store.

Man here. The ohter guys are teh hardware store won't care a lick about it.

Hardware stores are not male only places. Plenty of women there who do NOT want to see a man in boxers there.

Pot meets kettle. Grocery store, restaurants and virtually the entire public are NOT female only places, so stop subjecting children and families to your ridiculous lingerie yoga pants please. You people are everywhere everyday showing your booty in super revealing tights. Total hypocrisy.

Dude, give it up. Yoga pants are not undergarments. Only you with your weird sexual fetish can't seem to grasp why they are different from boxers. You can't lecture us when we show up to the hardware store wearing bras and panties. Until then, PUT SOME GOD DAMNED PANTS ON.

Sure.

EVERYONE can see your ass crack when you are prancing around in your yoga pants getting your pumpkin spice latte carol. PUT SOME PANTS ON.

I do wear pants. Sometimes even yoga PANTS when exercising. You are free to do the same.

[Anonymous]

Don’t want this getting hi-jacked by the guy with the athliesure vendetta (though he’s not objectively wrong, at least with respect to Lycra boxer briefs).

Going INTO A STORE in boxers is the weird one.

But piddling around the house, grabbing the mail, or going quickly to the car for a trip where you won’t get out (drive through ATM or fast food)? Fine. I’m confused by those who find this scandalous. And to say a man shouldn’t wear boxers in his own home?! Please.

[Anonymous]

Wow. Not acceptable to do anything outside of the home in one’s underwear, IMO. Why not at least pull on some comfy athletic shorts?! Athletic wear is fine for both men and women- underwear, NO.

[Anonymous]

No and I have legitimately never seen such a thing.

Even the most casual real shorts are immediately clocked as different than any kind of boxers.

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Not acceptable at all. It would be like a grown woman going outside to check the mail in her underwear.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don’t want this getting hi-jacked by the guy with the athliesure vendetta (though he’s not objectively wrong, at least with respect to Lycra boxer briefs).

Going INTO A STORE in boxers is the weird one.

But piddling around the house, grabbing the mail, or going quickly to the car for a trip where you won’t get out (drive through ATM or fast food)? Fine. I’m confused by those who find this scandalous. And to say a man shouldn’t wear boxers in his own home?! Please.

Let me be the one to tell you that driving in your underwear to get fast food means you are at ROCK BOTTOM. Please call someone now and get some help. If your DH does this--honey, there is more out there. Do not normalize this.

[Anonymous]

Any man doing errands in their boxer shorts is mentally unwell. This is a person that cannot read basic social cues or does not care and should be referred to a psychiatrist for a diagnosis - narcissism, profound Aspergers, clearly something is profoundly wrong.

Equating a man walking around in his underwear with women who wear yoga pants is ridiculous. The incel rot runs deep.