Even poor East Asians send their kids to get extra math instruction, per all the discussions of NYC's elite public schools. I'd say thats a cultural/racial issue and NOT a social economic one. |
Check the free/reduced lunch for NYC elite schools. Then check the demographics of said schools. |
my kid hated being there and struggled but it still took him from the middle of the class to the top in just a few months. |
My kids went to an entirely play-based preschool and we never supplemented with academics. We did read to our kids a lot. Both kids were plenty prepared for Kindergarten. And actually tons of kids from our preschool are in AAP. |
Same here. My kid went on to TJ and was a National Merit Scholar, while doing sports all three seasons at TJ and also participating in an outside of school high level competitive sport. There was never a need for outside supplementation. |
What happens at home is more important than outside enrichment, but outside enrichment can help. Outside enrichment is especially beneficial for underachieving kids who need the practice and/or exposure. Unfortunately, the families that need it the most are typically the families that are not aware of it, can’t afford it, or don’t care. |
Even I a non-asian know you can't rely on public school to teach much of anything in early ES. They will ignore anyone who is not below grade level. |
You’d be surprised by the number of families that place all of the responsibility on schools. |
It's actually more common with lower-income Asians. We are UMC Asians (born here) and our kids are doing fun activities and classes. |
Who are you even talking about? I'm Asian-American and seriously you don't think lots of educated white UMC parents feel exactly this way? You don't think white parents of private school kids in Bethesda are plotting for Ivies and "opportunity hoarding"? GMAFB |
1000% |
You can also compare how similar fraternal twins are on educational outcomes or IQ to identical twins. These studies also show an enormous genetic effect and almost no effect of family environment. Any study that does not attempt to control for the genetic effect on academic achievement (via a twin or adoptive design) is close to useless. |
I’m so glad that the revised FCPS admission policy for TJ is something everyone can agree on. Take the cohort of students who have separated themselves from every school. |
These are the students being left behind, now. According to DCUM, your child is a figment of the imagination. |
Actually I do not agree on the revised FCPS admission policy of TJ because it is using race rather than merit. They do this by lowering the bar and then taking the kids who meet the bar. That is fine too. These "pity admit" will fail in college, job or life. It is not as if they are going to handle TJ either. Where is their wonderful foundation at home? Those who were capable (mainly Nigerian immigrants), their kids were already in TJ. They were the part of 2%-3% URM kids. |