Do you think parent should tell spouse if leaving the house?
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Anonymous
And I would wager that it was an overreaction because he knew he was in the wrong. OP, was your car actually inspected? IDK why but my cheater cheater senses are tingling on this one. It's like he didn't want you to notice he was gone. |
Anonymous
Yeah he’s going to one of those rub and tug places for sure |
Anonymous
| Gotta keep a firm leash hand. |
Anonymous
This. How long have you lived together? If you have kids, this is egregious. What if you also decided to leave without saying anything and WHOOPS THE BABY IS HOME ALONE? What a jerk response. |
Anonymous
| I think most of these responses are huge overreactions. Yes, spouses should communicate their whereabouts if young kids are involved. And DH and I usually do tell each other where we are going. But if our kids don’t need care (because they are at school or whatever) we come and go freely. If his car is gone and he hasn’t texted I assume he just went to run an errand and will be back within an hour or so. And he always is. Fortunately we have this level of trust and understanding and don’t need to monitor each other as much as many of you seem to. |
Anonymous
| Get Life360. Who has time to monitor everyone's whereabouts the old fashioned way? |
Anonymous
| Everyone's relationship is different I guess, but even pre-kids it would have been weird if we were both in the house and DH just up and left without saying anything. |
Anonymous
| He's having an affair. |
Anonymous
| It totally matters if there are kids in the house or not. |