Beautiful women, do you look down on ugly women?

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Anonymous wrote:I would never, ever judge someone for acne or their complexion. People who have never experienced it have no idea. If it was some simple fix, there wouldn’t be a billion dollar industry of products to combat it.

Exactly. And such a weird call out in this post.

It’s funny bc I have really imperfect skin but literally EVERYONE everyone tells me they don’t believe me bc I am super good at make up. I don’t have like tons of acne but I def get some serious zits now and then.

I really don’t notice people’s skin imperfections unless they are severe and then I just feel bad for them (bc I know how it can feel). People with naturally super perfect skin though I do notice bc DAMNNNN they got lucky. And that’s all it is - pure luck.

I think unless your skin is really rough - with some decent make up skills - skin can be made to be clear and even enough that it’s not a huge deal breaker. I honestly think most women do look better with some face make-up, including some blush/color, so covering a blemish here and there doesn’t change all that much.

Those of us who have perfect skin can tell of others who do not by how much makeup is applied. The benefit of great skin is you do not need a lot of makeup. Anytime I see someone with makeup I think they are hiding skin flaws. Best thing to do is see a dermatologist as soon as possible.

I mean this as nicely as possible, you are dumb 🙏

[Anonymous]

This is so weird and fascinating-- many people in this thread are conflating being beautiful with... maintenance or fashion or something.

I'm sure lots of women who spend a lot of time, money and/or mental energy on their appearance judge those who don't. That's different from women who are physically beautiful thanks primarily to genes-- if they judge people who aren't as beautiful, I have never seen it, and that would be... I don't know if it would be worse, but it's even less logical.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, I've been called pretty but never feel it. I don't look down on ANY women, unless they treat me like garbage - then I just ignore.

Same, except when other women treat me like garbage, I internalize it and feel worthless and stay up late think about mean things my mom said to me when I was a teenager.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know the wrong women. Anyone who's a snot about their own looks isn't worth knowing.

Literally the only person I judge on this issue is this pp who refers to other people as “a snot.” Are you 5?

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Anonymous wrote:Many of the things you described are mostly within someone's control, like fat, blemished complexions, badly dyed hair and bad outfits. TBH, I tend to judge people a little for those things, but when I find myself doing it, I try to control my thoughts. Especially since having children, I feel a lot of empathy for women who are trying to juggle mothering and work.

I only judge if they are smug about it. I know people like this. Of course I don’t judge if someone is overweight because of medical issues, but some are fat because they enjoy drinking and eating out and indulgence more than staying fit. Or they wear cheap clothes because they think they are more real or less pretentious. Or they have a bad haircut because they want to seem low maintenance. They criticize others who do care about their looks as shallow, snobbish, or whatever.

What’s wrong with this? Everyone has different priorities. Life is short, and some people are sensualists who would rather enjoy their food and drink than pick at a quinoa bowl and drink green juice. It doesn’t affect you, so buzz off.