Beautiful women, do you look down on ugly women?

[Anonymous]

Ahahah, every narcissistic woman on this board will reply from the perspective of being beautiful. LOL.

[Anonymous]

I love ugly women! If everyone was beautiful, then how would I be beautiful in comparison? I'd just be average.

[Anonymous]

I am ashamed at my beauty and try to hide it.

[Anonymous]

To me it's similar to looking down on someone because they weren't born rich. If you're beautiful, or you were born into money, you got lucky. You might pity others that don't have those advantages but you don't look down on someone bc they didn't win the genetic lottery like you did

[Anonymous]

I'm a guy. That just signifies that a woman is beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. And external beauty fades, but internal ugliness just rots the person forever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Many of the things you described are mostly within someone's control, like fat, blemished complexions, badly dyed hair and bad outfits. TBH, I tend to judge people a little for those things, but when I find myself doing it, I try to control my thoughts. Especially since having children, I feel a lot of empathy for women who are trying to juggle mothering and work.

Given combinations of genetics, access to healthy food and good medical care, time for exercise, bandwidth for shopping, etc., these things are absolutely not within someone's control, at least, not in the way that choosing between chocolate or vanilla ice cream is within someone's control. These things are more nuanced than you give them credit for being.

OP, no. Why would I look down on someone because of their appearance?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of the beautiful women I know, I sense that they are grossed out by, or look down on, uglier women.

I have heard unflattering comments they make about fat women, women with blemished complexions, women with frizzy or badly dyed hair, women with "tacky" outfits or cheap looking outfits....

Tell me what you are really thinking when you see a less attractive woman.

Above average but not quite gorgeous women do this. Models and heartbreakers don't. I have NEVER heard a beautiful woman do this, but kinda prettyish in a generic way with a few extra pounds do this in DROVES.

[Anonymous]

I thought I didn't, but today I was at an event at my kid's school and god I hated seeing what the other parents looked like. But I am not from the US and am still not really used to the way people dress here. Like those weirdly printed leggings are not meant to be filled with your thick thighs baby, they're meant for a teenager. And I understand that we can't all buy expensive clothes (I can't either) but I can't understand how people can choose such tacky clothes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought I didn't, but today I was at an event at my kid's school and god I hated seeing what the other parents looked like. But I am not from the US and am still not really used to the way people dress here. Like those weirdly printed leggings are not meant to be filled with your thick thighs baby, they're meant for a teenager. And I understand that we can't all buy expensive clothes (I can't either) but I can't understand how people can choose such tacky clothes.

Ah, no DCUM thread is complete without the superior European perspective....thank you for gracing us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought I didn't, but today I was at an event at my kid's school and god I hated seeing what the other parents looked like. But I am not from the US and am still not really used to the way people dress here. Like those weirdly printed leggings are not meant to be filled with your thick thighs baby, they're meant for a teenager. And I understand that we can't all buy expensive clothes (I can't either) but I can't understand how people can choose such tacky clothes.

I’ve got thick thighs. They are powerful. I bet I can put run and out cycle you.
I’ve got weirdly printed leggings. They bring me joy.

You may look down on me, but I am totally also judging you for caring about the shape of another woman’s body or what she puts on it.

[Anonymous]

I do judge weight. Sorry, but I do. There is normal variation, but if you have a lot of extra weight, I see that as a flaw- both in your eating habits and lifestyle.

I don’t judge complexion bc that isn’t controllable often times and can take a very long time and expensive treatments to sort out.

I don’t judge bad dye jobs either. Sometimes it happens even with the best intentions and also isn’t always quick or cheap to fix.

I do judge is you look like a totally frump/sloppy or smell. I assume you are either lazy or depressed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought I didn't, but today I was at an event at my kid's school and god I hated seeing what the other parents looked like. But I am not from the US and am still not really used to the way people dress here. Like those weirdly printed leggings are not meant to be filled with your thick thighs baby, they're meant for a teenager. And I understand that we can't all buy expensive clothes (I can't either) but I can't understand how people can choose such tacky clothes.

So if a teenager has thick thighs it's okay for them to wear weirdly printed leggings, but once they turn 20 they have to give them up?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought I didn't, but today I was at an event at my kid's school and god I hated seeing what the other parents looked like. But I am not from the US and am still not really used to the way people dress here. Like those weirdly printed leggings are not meant to be filled with your thick thighs baby, they're meant for a teenager. And I understand that we can't all buy expensive clothes (I can't either) but I can't understand how people can choose such tacky clothes.

Ah, no DCUM thread is complete without the superior European perspective....thank you for gracing us.

Im American and I judge grown women in tacky printed leggings at public functions too. I wouldn’t even wear that crap around the house. Perhaps if I saw you in the grocery store and your cart was filled with pepto, chicken broth, bananas, and applesauce, I’d give you a sympathy pass

[Anonymous]

Wow! Some of you guys are mean and shallow. Yikes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do judge weight. Sorry, but I do. There is normal variation, but if you have a lot of extra weight, I see that as a flaw- both in your eating habits and lifestyle.

I don’t judge complexion bc that isn’t controllable often times and can take a very long time and expensive treatments to sort out.

I don’t judge bad dye jobs either. Sometimes it happens even with the best intentions and also isn’t always quick or cheap to fix.

I do judge is you look like a totally frump/sloppy or smell. I assume you are either lazy or depressed.

How kind of you to judge depressed people. You're a peach.