Frat sweetheart

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone's got a lot of weird fantasies about women who aren't chasing a "more traditional feminine role."

I see the dozens of younger women I work with who are in their 30s, lonely and childless. Bitter battleaxes. It's an epidemic; you can do a google news search and pull up countless pieces. If they had learned and embraced more traditional values and acted a bit more feminine in college via Greek life, they'd be far happier. All of the sorority women their age are married with kids. Greek life isn't chauvinistic pigs running around date raping women like you nuts claim. It makes kids grow up, learn how to act in social settings and dating pools, and helps them meet a spouse.

I think this is brunch grandma (who is running a long con.)

Oh, my god! It is Brunch Grandma!

No wonder why this all has that weirdly familiar smell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone's got a lot of weird fantasies about women who aren't chasing a "more traditional feminine role."

I see the dozens of younger women I work with who are in their 30s, lonely and childless. Bitter battleaxes. It's an epidemic; you can do a google news search and pull up countless pieces. If they had learned and embraced more traditional values and acted a bit more feminine in college via Greek life, they'd be far happier. All of the sorority women their age are married with kids. Greek life isn't chauvinistic pigs running around date raping women like you nuts claim. It makes kids grow up, learn how to act in social settings and dating pools, and helps them meet a spouse.

Ohhh, Brunch Grandma, that nasty book-larnin' you didn't want them women to git would be pretty applicable here.

CAMPUS SEXUAL ASSAULT: GREEK LIFE
https://sexualabuselawfirm.com/blog/campus-sexual-assault-greek-life/

When it comes to sexual assault on college campuses, Greek life has a leading role.

According to the National Institute of Justice, 25% of sexual assault victims in one survey were sorority members, which is a “risk factor” for sexual assault. ( https://nij.ojp.gov/topics/articles/factors-increase-sexual-assault-risk )

Women in sororities are 74% more likely to experience rape than other college women. ( https://www.kpbs.org/news/2014/oct/21/fraternities-and-campus-sexual-assault-problem/ )

Fraternity men are three times more likely to commit rape than their non-Greek peers. ( http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/24/rape-sexual-assault-ban-frats )

In one survey, 6% of men in frats admitted to committing rape, often more than once. ( http://www.davidlisak.com/wp-content/uploads/pdf/RepeatRapeinUndetectedRapists.pdf )

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is friends with a frat sweetheart. All of the candidates were long term girlfriends of one of the frat brothers. These girls are at every event, are friends with all the guys, and serve more of a motherly role in their frat experience than you are imagining.

Agree with this. I was a sweetheart. Any stop saying frat it’s fraternity

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is friends with a frat sweetheart. All of the candidates were long term girlfriends of one of the frat brothers. These girls are at every event, are friends with all the guys, and serve more of a motherly role in their frat experience than you are imagining.

Agree with this. I was a sweetheart. Any stop saying frat it’s fraternity

"Frat" is short for "fraternity".. or did you not know that

[Anonymous]

Frat "bike" it sounds like. How completely neanderthal and revolting a concept.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is friends with a frat sweetheart. All of the candidates were long term girlfriends of one of the frat brothers. These girls are at every event, are friends with all the guys, and serve more of a motherly role in their frat experience than you are imagining.

+1 I was a frat sweetheart. I didn't take on a motherly role, but I was a longterm girlfriend and like a sister to most of the guys.

This. Don’t read too much into this. It’s a little old fashioned, but a lot of things are. Don’t make this a thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am sorry but nothing, absolutely nothing about this whole sweetheart thing sounds healthy or appealing. Hope my kid takes a hard pass on this.

Just one question: For the female perspective this is supposed to give, older sisters (vs little sisters) are not an option, eh?

Okay, good luck raising your obnoxious "girl boss" who everyone finds insufferable and becomes some work from home office nobody. While the "sweetheart" plays a more traditional feminine role, maybe studies education or nursing, and at the same time bags a rich boy who's heading to law or medical school.

Lol okay because SAHMs are the real somebodies

My good friend in college was a sweetheart. She’s a doctor now. Fwiw

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can share my experience. When I was a junior, I met someone over the summer at the beach and we fell in love. I was at a highly respected NE school and he was at a large southern university - not the deep south.

We dated for nearly 4 years and were very serious. We visited each other many times at our respective schools. I stayed with him in the frat house numerous times, went to football games and big traditional frat dances, parties and events. I noticed there were girls hanging at the frat all the time and I got to know them. I also noticed some girls showed up at each event to party and partied hard. My BF explained to me how some things worked and some "secret" things about the frat.

He said there were 3 types of girls associated with the frat. The highest in the hierarchy and the most respected and protected were the girlfriends. Then came the little sisters. They were like friends of the brothers, real friends, but sometimes dated them and were around all the time. They were fun. The guys were protective of them to a point. Last were the coke whores. Yes, they were referred to this way. People in this thread alluding to "other names for them" might be referring to this type of description, I don't know. They were around for the parties and did drugs, got drunk and hooked up with the brothers.

I was told not to say "frat" but to say the whole word. The brothers were all from wealthy families and drove nice trucks and SUVs, families had beach houses, ski vacations, etc, including my old BF. My BF also showed me a hole between 2 rooms where brothers would watch each other having sex with girls. I was pretty horrified by all this, we eventually broke up obviously for all kinds of reasons (thank God, looking back). Just my experience.

This is so, so, so disgusting.

This is no less true about the granola “shared house” I lived in Tacoma park. Exactly the same stratified kind of relationships for the people who lived and circulated through there over the three years I lived there. Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My daughter is friends with a frat sweetheart. All of the candidates were long term girlfriends of one of the frat brothers. These girls are at every event, are friends with all the guys, and serve more of a motherly role in their frat experience than you are imagining.

Agree with this. I was a sweetheart. Any stop saying frat it’s fraternity

My son talks about his frat all the time. Chill.

[Anonymous]

Wow. I have never even heard of such a thing and I was in a sorority at A southern school many years ago. Does this really exist? I agree it is very cringe worthy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can share my experience. When I was a junior, I met someone over the summer at the beach and we fell in love. I was at a highly respected NE school and he was at a large southern university - not the deep south.

We dated for nearly 4 years and were very serious. We visited each other many times at our respective schools. I stayed with him in the frat house numerous times, went to football games and big traditional frat dances, parties and events. I noticed there were girls hanging at the frat all the time and I got to know them. I also noticed some girls showed up at each event to party and partied hard. My BF explained to me how some things worked and some "secret" things about the frat.

He said there were 3 types of girls associated with the frat. The highest in the hierarchy and the most respected and protected were the girlfriends. Then came the little sisters. They were like friends of the brothers, real friends, but sometimes dated them and were around all the time. They were fun. The guys were protective of them to a point. Last were the coke whores. Yes, they were referred to this way. People in this thread alluding to "other names for them" might be referring to this type of description, I don't know. They were around for the parties and did drugs, got drunk and hooked up with the brothers.

I was told not to say "frat" but to say the whole word. The brothers were all from wealthy families and drove nice trucks and SUVs, families had beach houses, ski vacations, etc, including my old BF. My BF also showed me a hole between 2 rooms where brothers would watch each other having sex with girls. I was pretty horrified by all this, we eventually broke up obviously for all kinds of reasons (thank God, looking back). Just my experience.

This is so, so, so disgusting.

This is no less true about the granola “shared house” I lived in Tacoma park. Exactly the same stratified kind of relationships for the people who lived and circulated through there over the three years I lived there. Exactly.

What?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Someone's got a lot of weird fantasies about women who aren't chasing a "more traditional feminine role."

I see the dozens of younger women I work with who are in their 30s, lonely and childless. Bitter battleaxes. It's an epidemic; you can do a google news search and pull up countless pieces. If they had learned and embraced more traditional values and acted a bit more feminine in college via Greek life, they'd be far happier. All of the sorority women their age are married with kids. Greek life isn't chauvinistic pigs running around date raping women like you nuts claim. It makes kids grow up, learn how to act in social settings and dating pools, and helps them meet a spouse.

This post is so hilariously awful. Yea, those sorority women are living the dream…married to an ex-frat guy.

[Anonymous]

It was called being a little sister where I went to school in the South. Completely innocuous just another way to participate in Greek life.

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I can share my experience. When I was a junior, I met someone over the summer at the beach and we fell in love. I was at a highly respected NE school and he was at a large southern university - not the deep south.

We dated for nearly 4 years and were very serious. We visited each other many times at our respective schools. I stayed with him in the frat house numerous times, went to football games and big traditional frat dances, parties and events. I noticed there were girls hanging at the frat all the time and I got to know them. I also noticed some girls showed up at each event to party and partied hard. My BF explained to me how some things worked and some "secret" things about the frat.

He said there were 3 types of girls associated with the frat. The highest in the hierarchy and the most respected and protected were the girlfriends. Then came the little sisters. They were like friends of the brothers, real friends, but sometimes dated them and were around all the time. They were fun. The guys were protective of them to a point. Last were the coke whores. Yes, they were referred to this way. People in this thread alluding to "other names for them" might be referring to this type of description, I don't know. They were around for the parties and did drugs, got drunk and hooked up with the brothers.

I was told not to say "frat" but to say the whole word. The brothers were all from wealthy families and drove nice trucks and SUVs, families had beach houses, ski vacations, etc, including my old BF. My BF also showed me a hole between 2 rooms where brothers would watch each other having sex with girls. I was pretty horrified by all this, we eventually broke up obviously for all kinds of reasons (thank God, looking back). Just my experience.

This is so, so, so disgusting.

This is no less true about the granola “shared house” I lived in Tacoma park. Exactly the same stratified kind of relationships for the people who lived and circulated through there over the three years I lived there. Exactly.

Uh, we all know this is false. You spelled Takoma wrong. Had you actually lived here, you would know how to spell it. Nice try.