Do men see women as people?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Most don’t. You are either an object of desire, to be passed over once something newer and more exciting comes along. Or you’re a distant fantasy with no actual feelings or life of your own.

+1. Some men primarily look at women as objects of sexual desire first. They scan every woman for attractiveness. They may work with her, or be someone in their community. They only talk to friends about the ones they think are hot. Never about how they are as people - ie the desk worker at the hotel was nice, professional, and didn’t make me wait forever. Only whether she was hot.

These men do not look at women as people - just sex objects. They may look at someone they know personally in another light. But all other women are sorted through a sexual lens.

Yes, but we tell our friends all the time about the male desk worked at the hotel who was friendly and competent. Just go on and on talking about that guy.

What a dumb example.

Just insipid.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:A man will judge your looks and your a s s before your mind. And that goes even when he is your teacher or boss unfortunately.

Because woman always gravitate toward the fat, dirty, balding, men with an empty wallet? If men wanted to walk down the street with a troll they would just buy a Trolls key chain.

Lol, exactly.

“He provides such great customer service at the deli!”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A man will judge your looks and your a s s before your mind. And that goes even when he is your teacher or boss unfortunately.

Because woman always gravitate toward the fat, dirty, balding, men with an empty wallet? If men wanted to walk down the street with a troll they would just buy a Trolls key chain.

Lol, exactly.

“He provides such great customer service at the deli!”

Women definitely notice a man's personality. It's the whole picture. He could be good looking but if he's leering or acting like an ass then it's a turn off. On the other hand, if he's kind, funny, and goodnatured then he might get noticed even if he's not conventionally attractive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sometimes I feel like they don’t.

depends on man and the woman who raised him

[Anonymous]

No and often women don’t see women as people either! Check out that study where when people view pictures of men their brains view them as a whole person, with feelings and a back story and everything, and when people view pictures of women their brains view them as a collection of body parts, typically sexual body parts.

Apparently we can re-wire our brains to fix this but I didn’t get that far into the research yet.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You should see how badly we treat other men before you tie yourself into a not over this just because a man didn't fall all over himself for you one time.

Wow. Just wow.

Next time you walk down the street and arent constantly doing the calculus on the safest route to take and each man on the street and if he’s a threat or not, you just think about how all women want is really just sexual attention, idiot.

Thank you....this needed to be said. This is something most men never think about and yet we think about it EVERY day.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women do not see men as people. A woman only views a man in terms of the man's immediate utility to her life - "what is he doing for me right now?" As soon as his utility is zero, he most definitely won't be a person to her any more, just an annoyance.

You do know that women tend to stick around in a marriage when the husband has cancer at a much higher rate than when it’s the opposite. This refutes your statement that women are opportunists.

Women initiate the vast majority of divorces which refutes your claim that women are not opportunistic.

Maybe that's because they are not being seen or heard...see how that works.

[Anonymous]

I mean, what is a woman?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A man will judge your looks and your a s s before your mind. And that goes even when he is your teacher or boss unfortunately.

Because woman always gravitate toward the fat, dirty, balding, men with an empty wallet? If men wanted to walk down the street with a troll they would just buy a Trolls key chain.

Lol, exactly.

“He provides such great customer service at the deli!”

Women definitely notice a man's personality. It's the whole picture. He could be good looking but if he's leering or acting like an ass then it's a turn off. On the other hand, if he's kind, funny, and goodnatured then he might get noticed even if he's not conventionally attractive.

For sure. So many posts in this forum focused on a guy’s personality.

[Anonymous]

Have you ever done any research into the statistics for domestic violence assaults and murders in the USA and worldwide?

The answer is there, I’m afraid. FAR too many men do not recognize women as autonomous beings with inherent rights, but only as property - cumholes and incubators and caregivers/housekeepers. 2022 and while the veneer appears better, the essential lot of women is still fairly awful taken globally.

The other day I read about a 5 year old girl who was murdered by the men in her family for the crime of having been molested. One of those countries that embraces honor killings, where females are mere property. It seems like something foreign to us but then look at the rate of femicide in the USA and you know we are not so very much further advanced.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most don’t. You are either an object of desire, to be passed over once something newer and more exciting comes along. Or you’re a distant fantasy with no actual feelings or life of your own.

+1. Some men primarily look at women as objects of sexual desire first. They scan every woman for attractiveness. They may work with her, or be someone in their community. They only talk to friends about the ones they think are hot. Never about how they are as people - ie the desk worker at the hotel was nice, professional, and didn’t make me wait forever. Only whether she was hot.

These men do not look at women as people - just sex objects. They may look at someone they know personally in another light. But all other women are sorted through a sexual lens.

Yes, but we tell our friends all the time about the male desk worked at the hotel who was friendly and competent. Just go on and on talking about that guy.

What a dumb example.

No, the woman would never tell her friends to check out a hotel clerk or bus boy. They would recommend a hotel or restaurant on whether the service and collective experience was good. Some will view these nondescript female workers as sex objects. Women don’t do that, bc we look at them as people in their roles.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A man will judge your looks and your a s s before your mind. And that goes even when he is your teacher or boss unfortunately.

Because woman always gravitate toward the fat, dirty, balding, men with an empty wallet? If men wanted to walk down the street with a troll they would just buy a Trolls key chain.

Lol, exactly.

“He provides such great customer service at the deli!”

Women definitely notice a man's personality. It's the whole picture. He could be good looking but if he's leering or acting like an ass then it's a turn off. On the other hand, if he's kind, funny, and goodnatured then he might get noticed even if he's not conventionally attractive.

You think me aren’t attracted to conventionally unattractive woman? It that were the case there would be a lot more single woman.

[Anonymous]

Next time you walk down the street and arent constantly doing the calculus on the safest route to take and each man on the street and if he’s a threat or not

Ok so some men view women as people who are small and weak and can be preyed on. Can’t make any general conclusions about men from that. Evil men will prey on small, weak men too.

[Anonymous]

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Next time you walk down the street and arent constantly doing the calculus on the safest route to take and each man on the street and if he’s a threat or not

Ok so some men view women as people who are small and weak and can be preyed on. Can’t make any general conclusions about men from that. Evil men will prey on small, weak men too.

But not at nearly the rate they prey on women. This information is easily available.

The data also shows, though, that it’s *the same men* over and over. Look at the statistics on what happens when counties bother to test rape kits— it’s exactly the same perpetrators over and over but women victims not being believed (which suggests that the men in law enforcement also don’t consider them people…)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey it’s another man bashing post. Everyone climb on board! Can't wait to hear all the sad tales of how bad us men are.

I can’t tell if you’re a troll or just incredibly stupid and ignorant of human history.